I'll try to make this short:
-Met a girl in the summer, she was a customer and i was joking around w/her (talked for about 45min-1hr)
-No real contact for a few months, i put her out of my mind
-Last month she dropped by my work place to say hi, we had a quick drink, found out she works near me.
-Occassionally she would pass by my store with her cousin or her BF.
-I passed by her work place once or twice.
-Didn't talk for about a month.
TODAY:
-We coincidently met up at a coffee shop on our lunch break. She wasn't sure if it was me so she literally bumped into me to see if it was me or not.
-1 hr later she comes by my work place and says "I wanted to call you from my store to see if you wanted to do something after work but I didn't have your #"
-After work we played pool and watched a movie. We walked close enough that our arms would touch, and during the movie she kept nudging my arm to say something.
- Before the movie started her BF called and she told him she was watching a movie alone.
- After the movie I went home she called me because "she wanted someone to chat with."
- Calls me again 1hr later to ask me if I could teach her how to skii because her mom and BF both don't want to.
So I would like to know... what are your DJ's thoughts on this? My gut feels like she's interested, but my head keeps telling me she has a BF and that she's a sweet girl. Moreover, it seems very sudden and fast. My previous relationships all built slowly over time through regular contact.
To be honest, conversationally...I am boring guy and I am in no way smooth, I have the tendency to say the wrong thing and kill the convo. I can't think of anything I did to make her interested in me.
Eg.
Her: Friends is an awsome show!
Me: Yea! Did you know the guy that plays Ross did a movie called Breast Men?
Her: Really?
Me: Yea, it was about guys that do breast enhancement surgery.
Her: Oh...
*coversation dies*
-Met a girl in the summer, she was a customer and i was joking around w/her (talked for about 45min-1hr)
-No real contact for a few months, i put her out of my mind
-Last month she dropped by my work place to say hi, we had a quick drink, found out she works near me.
-Occassionally she would pass by my store with her cousin or her BF.
-I passed by her work place once or twice.
-Didn't talk for about a month.
TODAY:
-We coincidently met up at a coffee shop on our lunch break. She wasn't sure if it was me so she literally bumped into me to see if it was me or not.
-1 hr later she comes by my work place and says "I wanted to call you from my store to see if you wanted to do something after work but I didn't have your #"
-After work we played pool and watched a movie. We walked close enough that our arms would touch, and during the movie she kept nudging my arm to say something.
- Before the movie started her BF called and she told him she was watching a movie alone.
- After the movie I went home she called me because "she wanted someone to chat with."
- Calls me again 1hr later to ask me if I could teach her how to skii because her mom and BF both don't want to.
So I would like to know... what are your DJ's thoughts on this? My gut feels like she's interested, but my head keeps telling me she has a BF and that she's a sweet girl. Moreover, it seems very sudden and fast. My previous relationships all built slowly over time through regular contact.
To be honest, conversationally...I am boring guy and I am in no way smooth, I have the tendency to say the wrong thing and kill the convo. I can't think of anything I did to make her interested in me.
Eg.
Her: Friends is an awsome show!
Me: Yea! Did you know the guy that plays Ross did a movie called Breast Men?
Her: Really?
Me: Yea, it was about guys that do breast enhancement surgery.
Her: Oh...
*coversation dies*