ultimatley,isnt what it all boils down to is attraction?

OddManOut85

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this is something i have been thinking about.now,this isnt some looks matter thread,or nice guys vs jerks,but isnt what it all boils down to is attraction? in terms of the girl? i mean,your a guy,your attracted to pretty much anything that looks cute and has a rack right? but oh,the dilemma for some is the girl may not necessarily be attracted to you.i mean,for anything to happen,whether it be a one night stand,and ltr,or marriage.isnt attraction the key? i mean ill be honest,im far from a "master seducer" or "master pick up artists" and sadly,its not like i have done much to improve myself.but thats another thing for another time.so like i said,isnt what it boils down to is attraction?
 

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Yes, but you have to realize that you can control her attraction toward you. You can create it or you can destroy it...


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thats just it i think.i think thats always been my problem.is not being able to create attraction.not to get into a sob story,but yeah,ive never been the best guy with the ladies.its just always seems like,some guys have it,some dont.
 
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OddManOut85 said:
thats just it i think.i think thats always been my problem.is not being able to create attraction.not to get into a sob story,but yeah,ive never been the best guy with the ladies.its just always seems like,some guys have it,some dont.
How are your conversational skills? Humor/Wit?

You create non-physical attraction by prestige, wealth, status, career, spirituality, humor, conversation etc...
 

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people tell me im funny and have a good personality.wealth? i aint rich.status? idk much about it.career? well,if i was in school,id be well on my way to a something great.i can talk.but in some ways i suppose i am a bit shy or introverted.looking back,i wish highschool was completley different for me.in some ways,i cant get over it.also,i am worried i may be developing or have already developed a porn addiction.i look at it.alot.cause for concern?
 

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some good ideas here....look up threads on creating attraction.

I think physical attraction can't be created which is simply looks.,
 

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Attraction is a very strange thing, the majority of times you will see the majority of HB7-10's attempting to allure the top %30 of the hottest dudes, who they have rated as being high value males due to their Wealth, Status, Looks, Confidence, Charisma, Carreer, and other similar type things.
However in a small percentage of cases a HB7-10 can become magnetically attracted and fall instantly in love with some dude who does not normally attract these types of babes.
When this happens this particular dude is much better of than the dude who has to use his Status, Wealth, Popularity or Game in order to get the HB, as she will in most cases stick with him because she really likes him as a person.
It is fair to say that a dude who can play basketball like, Michael Jordan, act like, Brad Pitt, sing like, Robbie Williams, or has the wealth of, Donald Trump, along with the levels of High Status, Confidence, Charisma, and the Good Looks that these four dudes also have going for them, that they are going to be desired by %99.99999 of HB7-10's than the Average Joe type of dude, no matter how good his levels of Confidence, Looks, or Gaming of the babes is.
The truth of the matter is that, Status, Wealth, Looks, Confidence, as well as your Game can allure a large percentage of HB's for you, the problem is if they are only with you because of these things, they will dump you at the drop of a hat if the opportunity comes for them to date one of the four above mentioned types of dudes.
When a HB7-10 is strongly attracted and in love with the type of dude who does not normally have these types of babes desiring to be with him, he is more likely to keep his HB if a dude like one of the four above mentioned attempted to allure her because for some strange reason she just loves this dude for who he is and as such will want to stay with him.
 

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thank god cause that is what my girl is like, she fall for me cause of me, not cause of anything else, and me the same, even if a HB10 come along now, i will still stick with my girl, i am 99.9999999999999% that she will do the same.
 
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