UK-Liverpool scally/evil/nastly girls what do you normally do??

[Fingerling]

right first time i've been single for a week so thought i generally talk to people/girls on my night out.

i live in liverpool UK, normally its a very nice place but sometimes girls think they are sort of kind of drug dealing husbands and better than anyone else after a few drinks.

i was out with my brother and three mates. walking from one club to another and i ask 3 random girls:-
ME:"hey where you ladies of to tonight"
GIRLS: F**K OFF YOU MEFFS we've heard it all before

my bro didnt take it well so say something likle "why you being like that" ended up my brother gettin spat at, getting jumped on then me pulling them off while trying to break one of there fingers

and 2 mates standing and watching like pvssys. so we came home early

i dont normally do stuff like that to girls but basically they where scally idiots that can't handle a converation and i got mad like my bro and one of my mates.

i m quite well spoken and have no money troubles and most girls would say im good looking but after today i feel s**t.after i've be dumped by a girl who i loved makes me think should i go begging back to her because theres nothing ou there, or put it down as a one off. these girals where evil though real attitude problems prob from a bad poor area.

i've been single for nearly a week and been feeling great but after this i feel so down i want to try sort things out with my ex if i can. i feel after this my confidance in women has dopped

please help with some words of wisdom i feel so bad and esp for my bro who was trying to help me.

really stuggling here

thanks

 

[Prod]

Okay, listen to this bro, I also live in the UK. The worst rejections I've gotten are not from hot chicks. No, they're usually comfortable with being approached as they've been there before.

The worst rejections are from insecure chicks who feel like they improve their social status by rejecting you. It's a form of female counter-game I guess or w/ever. Just ignore it and keep trying. Once you're conditioned to rejection, the successes become inevitable.

 

[Fingerling]

thanks for the reply dude. im not afraid of rejection at all. its the viciousness of how they reacted to a simple question and got so evil. i've been going out to town for 8 years and never had that reaction and never had 3 girls come over trying to punch us. and never known my mates could stand and watch without shouting or dragging us away.

god i feel like beging to my ex after i've done so well in not speaking to her in 5 days

what a set back

 

[Fingerling]

someone else must have been in this position

 

[sa2009]

There's very much a "gang mentality" among girls out "on the lash" these days... its part of this pathetic ladette culture thats developed.

Try a new approach line - or spin it round so its less direct.

you: "Excuse me... I'm new around here - where's the best club to go to"
her: "liquid"
you: "oh right - and is that where you're going?"
her: "maybe"
you "oh well I'll have to avoid it then - don't wanna be going there if you are!"

at this point she should laugh as you've pulled off a simple ****y/funny dialog.

 

[sa2009]

oh and DO NOT - WHATEVER YOU DO - beg your ex back or txt or ring her - especially when you or her are likely to be out in town!

 

[Guitar_Whizz]

I'm from the U.K. and can relate to your dislike of 'scally girls'. Why oh why does Britain have a scally culture lol.

Anyway, I'll give you my thoughts to try and help you out.

I think your opener is poor. The girls are telling you 'We've heard it all before'. In other words, every chode/afc/drunk guy is saying the same sh*t to them. You need to get their attention by being different. Try some good opinion openers, such as the dumped by text opener/routine. I've used that at night in the streets between bars and gotten success.

I presume you are opening girls in Concert Square in Liverpool? I've been there and you should be able to do ok there. You need to stand out from all the other drunken idiots, though.

If you want a breakdown of that opener/routine, just ask.

Good luck.

 

[Fingerling]

hey dude cheers for the reply.

to be honest i don't think any line would have worked on these three they where evil disguisting pigs.

it was walking on the way to concert Sq but i don't go round there anymore due to the vast ammount of scally lads and girls. not sure when you went last but it has really taken a turn for the worst. where are you from?

and with me getting dumped im really on a downer lol so advice on break ups an\openings an anything else you got are morethan welcome. i'm prob in the worst place mentally i've ever been in. How pvssy does that sound.

thanks

 

[Guitar_Whizz]

hey dude cheers for the reply.

to be honest i don't think any line would have worked on these three they where evil disguisting pigs.

it was walking on the way to concert Sq but i don't go round there anymore due to the vast ammount of scally lads and girls. not sure when you went last but it has really taken a turn for the worst. where are you from?

and with me getting dumped im really on a downer lol so advice on break ups an\openings an anything else you got are morethan welcome. i'm prob in the worst place mentally i've ever been in. How pvssy does that sound.

thanks

I used to live in the North West near Manchester but am now over on the east coast in Skegness. I still visit Liverpool sometimes as I have PUA friends there.

My advice to you if you're feeling low from being dumped would be to spend some time working on yourself, immersing yourself in things you enjoy doing and are passionate about, so you can get some joy and happiness back into your life.

You can still go out and meet girls, of course. I would have a go at meeting girls during the daytime, if you haven't already. You don't get such a high b*tch shield, as girls aren't all 'dolled up for a night out' and I think it'd help you become more comfortable around girls. Liverpool is great for daygame.

In case you were curious about the 'dumped by text' opener/routine, here it is (although given your owm dumped situation, it might not be the wisest opener for you!) :-

"Excuse me...can I ask you guys a quick question...I just need a very quick female opinion on something...do you think it's ok for a guy to dump a girl by text?"

- Let them answer, then say: "The reason I ask...I met a girl on the train a few weeks ago, and we went out for a cup of coffee, and then all of a sudden she started texting and calling me constantly, and asking if we were an item...and the thing is, I REALLY don't like clingy girls, I prefer to get to know a girl before deciding if she's worth getting into a relationship with...and now, I'd like to calm things down with her, and I just wondered if text is a good way to do this..."

-Let them answer, and don't worry about painting yourself in a negative light by all this 'dumping by text' talk. In my experience, the way this routine is run suggests you're a player, that you meet girls on the train, that you are not clingy and that you qualify and screen girls you meet. This will intrigue girls, and is a big DHV.

-Say some other stuff like: "It's really strange, but whenever I meet a girl, and we end up going for a cup of coffee, they usually get way too clingy and way too serious way too quickly. They start trying to get me into a relationship, and I just wondered what's a good way to deal with this?"

- Let them answer and say to one of them: "So, if me and you were to go out for a cup of coffee, would you be clingy, and calling me all the time and stuff?" (Say in a playful way), let her answer then say "Great, you can be my new girlfriend, when are we going out? Actually, wait a second, I'm not so sure about you...can you cook? Can you iron? Are you fun and easy going, or would we end up fighting too much?" (You basically get to the qualifying/screening point very quickly).

-Next transition to the best friends test and good girl/bad girl routine, do some rapport, then number close or go and sit down with your target somewhere in the bar or take them to another venue etc, or instant date if it's daytime.

So that's what I do, and that's what works for me. You can take or leave this, I don't mind, however, do give it a try and see how it works.

Ultimately, though, you want to be free from routines and just be able to go in unrehearsed and just let your natural personality shine.

 

[Hughman]

Seriously, get out of Liverpool. Capital of Culture my arse.

I jest, but really, the quality women are going to be few and far between. Got to wait till Liverpool Uni students come back so you can prey on them.

 

[Jules Verne]

Since all you Englishmen are on this thread, I would like to know more about social dynamics in England. From what I have observed, the majority of women there, similar to their American counterparts, are ****. Binge drinking and obesity come to mind immediately. And now these problems start earlier in girls. How is everything based on region? Newcastle, Liverpool, Manchester, Birmingham, London, and Portsmouth cover the basic regions, right?

 

[Hughman]

Since all you Englishmen are on this thread, I would like to know more about social dynamics in England. From what I have observed, the majority of women there, similar to their American counterparts, are ****. Binge drinking and obesity come to mind immediately. And now these problems start earlier in girls. How is everything based on region? Newcastle, Liverpool, Manchester, Birmingham, London, and Portsmouth cover the basic regions, right?

Major university or financial cities (with affluent bourgeoisie), like London, Manchester, Nottingham and Birmingham, are fine if you hang in the right circles.

God help you if you're based in somewhere like Middlesborough.

Social dynamics differ from what I've seen, read and heard as such - the concept of hookups is pretty common if you can get the attraction going, but the chances that quality women are going to give it up to you quickly are lower than say in America

 

[Energizer]

I also live in the UK and the only thing I know that is relative to this discussion is that I have banged a Scouse bird and she was the best lay I have ever had.

What I want to know is and this happened to me several times in Newcastle - is does the most munting, fat, disgusting bird always try and ****block you when you go for one of her mates? I have come so close to nutting a few of these beasties in the past.

That to me is far worse than anything else on a night out.

 

[sa2009]

I also live in the UK and the only thing I know that is relative to this discussion is that I have banged a Scouse bird and she was the best lay I have ever had.

What I want to know is and this happened to me several times in Newcastle - is does the most munting, fat, disgusting bird always try and ****block you when you go for one of her mates? I have come so close to nutting a few of these beasties in the past.

That to me is far worse than anything else on a night out.

Yes... and you just know they've been dragged out to make up the numbers cos the fit birds other fit mates are skint.

 

[sa2009]

I also live in the UK and the only thing I know that is relative to this discussion is that I have banged a Scouse bird and she was the best lay I have ever had.

What I want to know is and this happened to me several times in Newcastle - is does the most munting, fat, disgusting bird always try and ****block you when you go for one of her mates? I have come so close to nutting a few of these beasties in the past.

That to me is far worse than anything else on a night out.

Pmsl

Yes... and you just know they've been dragged out to make up the numbers cos the fit birds other fit mates are skint.

 

[Fingerling]

cheers everyone lol some funny and good stuff here.

to be honest liverpool is a very understated city. and a lot of the scally people you will find live just outside liverpool areas but think they have to play up to what they think liverpool stands for. and it's a shame because they develope this harsh fake accent. i've lived here all my live and don't have the 'liverpool' accent as people know. i just have a liverpool accent like the olden days which is classes as normal here.

so on nights out the places i go you can't go chat to them because its so loud so you have to rely on your looks or attempt to talk to them.
which brings me to my next question lol do people normally approach girls say behind tills etc like tescos because there are some decent chicks out there in the day as Guitar Wizz said. but to be honest i've never approached a girl in the daytime. what kind of thing do you say to girls behind tills.

thanks again everyone for your advice and help

 

[Guitar_Whizz]

what kind of thing do you say to girls behind tills.

(Smiling at her with good eye contact) "Hi, how's your day going?". Let her answer. "What time do you finish?". Let her answer and just go with the flow from there. Just make some banter with cashiers everywhere you go and brighten their day a bit. Stand out from all the boring people she encounters every day. You'll soon get used to it and it'll feel normal to you.

If you're feeling bold, you could even ask cashiers for their number or if they want to meet up later after they finish work.

Good luck.

 

[Fingerling]

(Smiling at her with good eye contact) "Hi, how's your day going?". Let her answer. "What time do you finish?". Let her answer and just go with the flow from there. Just make some banter with cashiers everywhere you go and brighten their day a bit. Stand out from all the boring people she encounters every day. You'll soon get used to it and it'll feel normal to you.

If you're feeling bold, you could even ask cashiers for their number or if they want to meet up later after they finish work.

Good luck.

simple but effective, er i think i'll get some spuds tomorrow lol thanks for that & give us a heads next time your out in liverpool. oh and bring an axe for the scallies

cheers for the pick-me up guys much appreciated

 

[Cinamon]

Ewwww, why on earth would u even try picking up a scouse bird!

The women there r plain nasty, have no class. They all think their goddesses with their bleech blonde hair and stuffed bra's. You know the decent women are down south.

 

[Energizer]

Ewwww, why on earth would u even try picking up a scouse bird!

The women there r plain nasty, have no class. They all think their goddesses with their bleech blonde hair and stuffed bra's. You know the decent women are down south.

I happen to like fake women, faker the better I say.