1-800-HellNo
Don Juan
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- Mar 6, 2013
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It happened. The girl i've been seeing once or twice a month hit me with "a talk" last night. She says she is looking for a serious relationship (even mentioning her biological clock) and even though she blows my mind every time we have sex, i don't want her to be my girlfriend.
Under pressure, and trying to just get to the bedroom, I told her I liked her too (which wasn't a lie) but I have a hard time "putting a label on it" because it can mess things up. She seemed ok with the answer, and told me she'll give me time to think about it. The sex was amazing again. I stayed the night, said bye in the morning and left, as usual. But soon after she texted me saying to come over tomorrow night for a party with her friends. That is a little bit of a flag to me, idk.
Should I go?? (i have no other plans, and want to hit that again, but could easily find some other party)
And when she brings it up, do i tell her something like, "i don't think i can give you what you want" and hope she still calls me for sex, lie to her and tell her I'm committed, or just straight dump her?
So far things have been great, she doesn't text all the time, never questions where i am/what i'm doing, but today she texted me saying to come over tomorrow and i was just there last night...
looking for some alpha tips.
thanks
Under pressure, and trying to just get to the bedroom, I told her I liked her too (which wasn't a lie) but I have a hard time "putting a label on it" because it can mess things up. She seemed ok with the answer, and told me she'll give me time to think about it. The sex was amazing again. I stayed the night, said bye in the morning and left, as usual. But soon after she texted me saying to come over tomorrow night for a party with her friends. That is a little bit of a flag to me, idk.
Should I go?? (i have no other plans, and want to hit that again, but could easily find some other party)
And when she brings it up, do i tell her something like, "i don't think i can give you what you want" and hope she still calls me for sex, lie to her and tell her I'm committed, or just straight dump her?
So far things have been great, she doesn't text all the time, never questions where i am/what i'm doing, but today she texted me saying to come over tomorrow and i was just there last night...
looking for some alpha tips.
thanks