31 here
Just turned 31 myself on Friday. Looking at the horror that some of my married (or now divorced) friends have gone through I consider myself lucky.
In fact, I just got out of a nightmarish relationship myself. Long story but it involved a cheating b*tch, lying about being on the pill, and an unplanned pregnancy! I don't know if the kid was even mine. Nice eh?
I figured my life was over at one point. After getting extremely lucky (miscarriage) and making it out of that relationship alive, I *really* value being single.
When a b*tch almost ruins your life, you go through a bad marriage, or whatever... it changes your whole perspective on being a bachelor bro. In other words savor your freedom! You can go where you want, when you want. No b*tch there to tell you what to do, who to hang out with, etc.
Unless you meet a "quality" one, just go for F-buddies, or hell even the massage parlor if you're in a dry spell! I do it, and it's great! Don't get me wrong, I can pick up girls, but sometimes it's just too much trouble and I want the no-strings attached convenience of Ling-Ling. LOL
Also, men can get married at almost any age to an attractive woman, even if he's not the greatest looking guy. Focus on your career/money, your body (work out), or other interests such as music. Don't stress about women - the whole "Oh my god I have to be with someone/get married/etc. by age X or I'm a failure" mentality is PURE B.S.!
Yeah, maybe if we were living in a more traditional time period, when men were men and women were women, that kind of thinking MIGHT be valid. But in today's world, with today's messed up women, forget about it!
If that one in a million comes along while I'm focusing on myself, then great. If not, I've lived a fullfilling life anyway.
Just my 2 cents, hope it helps. :cheer: