ive come a long way since starting my journey here at sosuave. you can check my post history, i used to be the "AFC" that you all talk about.
fast forward almost a decade and this is where we find each other. ive been laid countless times, been in a few orgies, had a "good time." lately, ive been seeing a girl that i actually started caring about or even, "loving".
therein lies the problem: to me, after ive been spending so much time with one girl (i have to have my first actual girlfriend right?) and having a great time, i start to notice that shes been spending a lot of time with her girl friends and has kind of put me on the backburner (hey, im her boyfriend! wtf!!!!!!) i cant believe she has a life of her own! the madness! <end sarcasm>
SO what would sosuave (you "players") tell me to do? give her an ultimatum, break up with her, stop having sex with her until she gives in, blah blah the list goes on..... and thats how ive lived my life these past years and with this girl included. but this past weekend (and tonight) ive really screwed up: not with the girl, shes still head over heels in love with me, as i feel i might be with her, but with how i approached all this.
i came home to my roommate telling him im cutting the coord and breaking up with my chick, how its disrespectful how its my birthday and she wants to hang with a friend tonight, how im unhappy that we arent having sex every day of the year, blah blah, and then it hit me. im the one being unreasonable, and on top of all that, just so i didnt break up with my girl, my roommate spilled the beans that shes throwing me a surprise birthday tomorrow.
wow, ive always wanted a surprise bday but never had one, and there it went. came and gone because i was being a selfish prick following the BS guidelines that they spew to the people on here.
i dont know if anyone else is still reading, but if you are, its not all about sosuave and these people that _think_ they know what happiness is. i had it, and now i can only hope to get it back.
im gonna try my best to put on a good act tomorrow when my surprise party comes, but to all the people that are just coming on here: dont let my situation happen to you; youll find a chick and when you do, just go with the flow and dont let all this PUA stuff and other nonsense cloud your vision.
cue all the "you began to care more about her than she did for you" or the "you let your guard down" or the "ur a *****" chants
fast forward almost a decade and this is where we find each other. ive been laid countless times, been in a few orgies, had a "good time." lately, ive been seeing a girl that i actually started caring about or even, "loving".
therein lies the problem: to me, after ive been spending so much time with one girl (i have to have my first actual girlfriend right?) and having a great time, i start to notice that shes been spending a lot of time with her girl friends and has kind of put me on the backburner (hey, im her boyfriend! wtf!!!!!!) i cant believe she has a life of her own! the madness! <end sarcasm>
SO what would sosuave (you "players") tell me to do? give her an ultimatum, break up with her, stop having sex with her until she gives in, blah blah the list goes on..... and thats how ive lived my life these past years and with this girl included. but this past weekend (and tonight) ive really screwed up: not with the girl, shes still head over heels in love with me, as i feel i might be with her, but with how i approached all this.
i came home to my roommate telling him im cutting the coord and breaking up with my chick, how its disrespectful how its my birthday and she wants to hang with a friend tonight, how im unhappy that we arent having sex every day of the year, blah blah, and then it hit me. im the one being unreasonable, and on top of all that, just so i didnt break up with my girl, my roommate spilled the beans that shes throwing me a surprise birthday tomorrow.
wow, ive always wanted a surprise bday but never had one, and there it went. came and gone because i was being a selfish prick following the BS guidelines that they spew to the people on here.
i dont know if anyone else is still reading, but if you are, its not all about sosuave and these people that _think_ they know what happiness is. i had it, and now i can only hope to get it back.
im gonna try my best to put on a good act tomorrow when my surprise party comes, but to all the people that are just coming on here: dont let my situation happen to you; youll find a chick and when you do, just go with the flow and dont let all this PUA stuff and other nonsense cloud your vision.
cue all the "you began to care more about her than she did for you" or the "you let your guard down" or the "ur a *****" chants