JdelaSilviera
Master Don Juan
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- May 10, 2010
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Mistakes that many guys do:
1) Too high energy level, like as if you were too excited for being with a woman that is higher level than you.
2) Voice tone, many speak in an over enthusiastic tone, high pitch, almost girly voice
3) Approval seeking /not saying what they really mean/changing opinions in order to match hers
4) Smiling too much I see this specially in a gym, if a girl asks to use a certain machine the guy will concede it ,and smile like a clown. There is the approval seeking smile, and the cool smile, the latter will come to you unconsciously, whenever you try to smile you will look fake, and approval seeking.
5) Saying things like "I´m too good looking", the girl knows you are trying to know her opinion about looks, and that shows insecurity, 90% of the guys do this. I have girls that are always saying to me they are Venuses and Godesses, and I just keep my mouth shut.... it drives them crazy not knowing what you think about their looks.
6) Getting angry with minor stuff, like an unanswered phone call or text.
7) Showing Jealousy, yes you can´t control being jealous. You may have some mind tricks like thinking you´re the sh*t and don´t need her but deep down you know you are jealous. Just don´t show it
8) Not being able to say no, even when they are making fools of themselves.
9) Trying to be funny, look just let the jokes come, don´t try to be funny, it´s approval seeking. Also despite what women say, making them laugh is not that important, women are very easy to make laugh and virtually any guy can do that.
10) Negging/being ****y with a total lack of timing. Once again let it be natural as if you were with your friends. If you try to force a neg, your body language won´t correspond what you say, you will be incongruent and awkward.
11) Returning texts and phone calls all the time. There are few things that keep women thinking about you as much as when you ignore them. Use it to your power, just don´t overdo it or it will be very easy to read what you are doing... Specially when are not used to do this.
1) Too high energy level, like as if you were too excited for being with a woman that is higher level than you.
2) Voice tone, many speak in an over enthusiastic tone, high pitch, almost girly voice
3) Approval seeking /not saying what they really mean/changing opinions in order to match hers
4) Smiling too much I see this specially in a gym, if a girl asks to use a certain machine the guy will concede it ,and smile like a clown. There is the approval seeking smile, and the cool smile, the latter will come to you unconsciously, whenever you try to smile you will look fake, and approval seeking.
5) Saying things like "I´m too good looking", the girl knows you are trying to know her opinion about looks, and that shows insecurity, 90% of the guys do this. I have girls that are always saying to me they are Venuses and Godesses, and I just keep my mouth shut.... it drives them crazy not knowing what you think about their looks.
6) Getting angry with minor stuff, like an unanswered phone call or text.
7) Showing Jealousy, yes you can´t control being jealous. You may have some mind tricks like thinking you´re the sh*t and don´t need her but deep down you know you are jealous. Just don´t show it
8) Not being able to say no, even when they are making fools of themselves.
9) Trying to be funny, look just let the jokes come, don´t try to be funny, it´s approval seeking. Also despite what women say, making them laugh is not that important, women are very easy to make laugh and virtually any guy can do that.
10) Negging/being ****y with a total lack of timing. Once again let it be natural as if you were with your friends. If you try to force a neg, your body language won´t correspond what you say, you will be incongruent and awkward.
11) Returning texts and phone calls all the time. There are few things that keep women thinking about you as much as when you ignore them. Use it to your power, just don´t overdo it or it will be very easy to read what you are doing... Specially when are not used to do this.
