Two points concerning this thread:
1. That checklist is comepletely worthless, both as a general framework and strict analytical guideline.
It is essentially a road map to success that explains where not to go. And since no map can ever explain how to get somewhere through the process of elimination, I like to use maps that show the basic routes that just get there. And throughout my own traveling, I find routes that are quicker and suit me. I may take a wrong turn, but more often than not that wrong turn leads to another route.
2. Personal discovery
I totally agree with xxblitz and CLOONEY. The majority of men in the world aren't true adjusted people. That's why we have AFC, Jerk, Player, and everything else. And there always will be. To a few select people, there lies the middle path: DJ. We must open our eyes to ourselves; our upbringing and learned attitudes and change them.
MY ATTEMPT TO GET DEEP, READ AT YOUR OWN RISK
This post inspired something very deep from within. I can't explain it in words, but I'll try anyway: There is a distinct "human" level of communication I instinctively feel when acquiring field experience, and the more I remove fear from my life. It is the result of heavy subliminal programming in the USA that we are this way. "This is how women must be addressed", "this is how men talk, walk, and act in a socially acceptable way", "this is popular so do it", MTV, Oprah, rap, pop, videos, corrupted religion, all of it.
It's horse-****.
And it is polluting people's minds to the point that we would rather spend money we worked for to buy People US weekly whatever magazine about the saucy celebrity gossip, instead of live our own lives.
Anyway, the more I liberate myself from this "Matrix of horse-****" the more I pick up on the subtle details of human interaction. It's like there is a common energy between every human, a vibe. I look at women( and men) in a totally different light. I see women for what they are, not what they aren't!
And you know what they aren't? Stauetes of mona lisa, perfectly well tempered, all knowing, keepers of the flame of love, whose farts smell like perfume, who piss gold, who hold the key to justifying my existence.
Instead, I see women as they are: Some good, some bad, smart, stupid, nice girl, pimp girl, etc.
And this "human" level of communication is, well, it is natural. It's talking and listening, actually hearing and interpreting another's thought, which is a manifestation of their experiences, their world. So now, each convo with women, men, boys and girls, and elderly people is a trip into their world. It is also sharing your own world. It is expression of emotion without being controlled by emotion. It is so many things that makes me want to talk to everyone in the world, to learn different languages, to date overseas, and all that.
And if we aren't careful, sosuave can become a part of the Matrix of horse-****, it we allow it. The most important part of this site is the advice forum, not the tips. Sadly, people continually make up hosre-**** in hopes of having a "platinum post". Let's think of what is important.
1. That checklist is comepletely worthless, both as a general framework and strict analytical guideline.
It is essentially a road map to success that explains where not to go. And since no map can ever explain how to get somewhere through the process of elimination, I like to use maps that show the basic routes that just get there. And throughout my own traveling, I find routes that are quicker and suit me. I may take a wrong turn, but more often than not that wrong turn leads to another route.
2. Personal discovery
I totally agree with xxblitz and CLOONEY. The majority of men in the world aren't true adjusted people. That's why we have AFC, Jerk, Player, and everything else. And there always will be. To a few select people, there lies the middle path: DJ. We must open our eyes to ourselves; our upbringing and learned attitudes and change them.
MY ATTEMPT TO GET DEEP, READ AT YOUR OWN RISK
This post inspired something very deep from within. I can't explain it in words, but I'll try anyway: There is a distinct "human" level of communication I instinctively feel when acquiring field experience, and the more I remove fear from my life. It is the result of heavy subliminal programming in the USA that we are this way. "This is how women must be addressed", "this is how men talk, walk, and act in a socially acceptable way", "this is popular so do it", MTV, Oprah, rap, pop, videos, corrupted religion, all of it.
It's horse-****.
And it is polluting people's minds to the point that we would rather spend money we worked for to buy People US weekly whatever magazine about the saucy celebrity gossip, instead of live our own lives.
Anyway, the more I liberate myself from this "Matrix of horse-****" the more I pick up on the subtle details of human interaction. It's like there is a common energy between every human, a vibe. I look at women( and men) in a totally different light. I see women for what they are, not what they aren't!
And you know what they aren't? Stauetes of mona lisa, perfectly well tempered, all knowing, keepers of the flame of love, whose farts smell like perfume, who piss gold, who hold the key to justifying my existence.
Instead, I see women as they are: Some good, some bad, smart, stupid, nice girl, pimp girl, etc.
And this "human" level of communication is, well, it is natural. It's talking and listening, actually hearing and interpreting another's thought, which is a manifestation of their experiences, their world. So now, each convo with women, men, boys and girls, and elderly people is a trip into their world. It is also sharing your own world. It is expression of emotion without being controlled by emotion. It is so many things that makes me want to talk to everyone in the world, to learn different languages, to date overseas, and all that.
And if we aren't careful, sosuave can become a part of the Matrix of horse-****, it we allow it. The most important part of this site is the advice forum, not the tips. Sadly, people continually make up hosre-**** in hopes of having a "platinum post". Let's think of what is important.
