Two women I am lying to both

[DimaDrill]

I need some advice on what you guys think is the best thing to do in my situation. Here it is: My ex of 3 years and I are trying to work things out but while we were broken up I was dating. Just 2 weeks ago I met a cool girl and have continued to see her after my ex and I have agreed to work out our problems.

I like the new girl, but I also still love my ex. BUT my ex broke up with me and I feel like I deserve to play the field cuz I lost all trust in her after she broke up with me. Now I am having sex with my ex, and the new girl as well. I feel like a **** because neither girl knows about the other girl and I have never cheated on any girl before in my life. Should I continue to screw around with both of these girls? Problem is I don't want to hurt the new girl she is actually a very sweet girl.

 

[Baruch]

They are all sweet in the first 2 weeks. I'll tell you that. Even the first 2 months.

 

[ready123]

you should feel like a ****, haha

pick one

hint: seems like you care more about the new girl than the ex

 

[bukowski_merit]

i agree with remote here.... although in your case - it may be too late.

it works to your advantage mostly to let women know there's others. i don't allow myself to have more than 2 girls at a time anymore. but i've had up to 5 before. all aware of each other, and sucking their teeth because of it.

it is much better to let them know when you first start dealing (or redealing) with them. otherwise - you'll look like an idiot in the end. and i can't recall ever having a girl suddenly want nothing to do with me because i told her i was also talking to someone else. just be prepared for them to say they're talking to someone else too. and the trick is to not care when they say that.

yes you are wrong for keeping it from them. but now that you've kept it for this long - you're going to be f'd if you fess up now

 

[DimaDrill]

I think I am in a tough spot don't get me wrong, I think I can still come clean and tell each of them that I am seeing other women. I think the ex is going to get pissed and because I agreed to work things out, but this chick broke up with me in the first place a few months ago, and who knows what she has done in these past 3 months so I don't see how I am doing anything wrong by no telling her about this new girl so far. I mean I am still single, we're not back together so I am not really cheating right?

 

[Microphone Fiend]

well I am not down with this behaviour. My friend did this with 3 women for a while, thinking he was a real pimp but the house of cards fell down and all 3 women dumped him. If you want to see more than one women then you should tell them, thats how a real pimp operates. If you pitch it right women will let you away with almost anything, infact anything. Your method is AFC behaviour though most AFC cant bang one chick never mind two, so atleast your doing something right. Telling lies to women is AFC full stop. It puts you on the defensive and at their mercy when you slip up, and you will slip up.

how is his behaviour AFC? You gotta know the rules to break em and he seems to be doing fine. Lying is a way to achieve your goal. It is not glorified in society, but this is not society this is seduction. You have to leave your pre-conceived notions of 'right' and 'wrong' at the doorstep. Because before we got into the game 'right' was dating one girl monogamously and showering her with attention and flowers. Also, who are you to says he will be 'at their mercy' when (if) he gets caught? Who is to say that if the OP gets caught he won't look em squah in the eye and say "...So?" You are stuck in the rules of society but at the same time trying to go outside of it. I am not saying that I use lying as a main element of my game but I certainly wouldn't denounce using it if it gets the job done and you are prepared for possible consequences.

 

[Leporello]

I guess it depends n how smart you are. Most guys are too stupid to keep a situation like that going; they'll say the wrong name or something and it's all over.

 

[MooseGod]

Honesty is the best policy. Let girls know going into it that a relationship is out of the question and you're going to date around. Avoids this whole situation altogether...although invariably they start bugging you to be "exclusive" and whine about just being the girl you bang every now and then...but that's their problem.

 

[Luveno]

Did you tell each of them that you were exclusively with them and nobody else?

I sure hope not, especially only after seeing the second girl for 2 weeks!


Anyway, the dating game is fierce, and you have to diversify your portfolio.
There's nothing wrong with that.

 

[j0n024]

I agree with MIC, people are posting about being "Honest" and nice and telling them that you are seeing other women....What the he11 for?! This women dumped him and probably screwed around with multiple partners he11 she probably got gangbanged by 2 black guys for all you know and now she wants to "Work" things out! I dont think so! If this happened to me it would signal a red flag(Or yellow if your into football lol) and she probably just wants to massage her ego and then dump you again after a while when she is bored of you. I say continue to see the other girl and start to distance yourself from your EX, try to work out your problems by TALKING not Fvcking and if you see nothing in that old relationship just Fvk her till YOU get bored of her and dump her. But then again you can listen to all the other guys about being honest....how do you think that will turn out? I mean seriously the guy's on here are saying "IF you saying it right you can pull it off," Well how do you pull it off the "Right" way? I bet you if you tell them about each other you will lose both and will have to go out and DJ again. Its your call.

 

[DonJuanNJ81]

I would keep things going with the ex...continue fvcking her...nice a good....until December 25th. I would wake up christmas day, call her, and tell her shes a shltty lay and a boring person....and your done with her. Then move on with the new girl. Ex'es are ex'es for a reason. She fvcked you over....now you get a chance to return the favor...take it.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Quit being an emotional Buffoon!! They are both hors!! Pimp both!!

Your ex was getting sexed while you were gone!!

 

[Play the Game]

Don't see any problem... besides a moral one, and i don't acknowledge those. There's only legal and illegal in society. If your frame is strong enough it doesn't matter what you do.

I would keep ****ing both of them and not mention anything. Why lie when there's no need?

If you're thinking about "coming clean", save the chivalry for the knights in shining armor. Women will take that as an okay sign to rip into you. They're like vultures, really. They feed on weak and the dying. The fly overhead and wait for a sign that you're weak and ready to collapse (an AFC) and they'll start swooping down for dinner. Once the meal is done and the bones are picked clean, they move on to the next victim that can satisfy their hunger.