two girls, which one is interested?

[pyros]

I'd like you to rate these chicks interest level, because I dont know which one I should choose, here's the story:

Friday night I met these two chicks in a salsa club. Girl1 brunette, blue eyes, girl2 blonde. They are friends with each other, both are 22, and both are cute.

They didnt know how to dance salsa, so I had to teach them.
I talked to girl number 1 for around 5-10 minutes, and to girl number 2 for around 5.

On the right hand, I took girl2 FB, and she told me that SHE BROKE UP WITH HER BOYFRIEND some weeks ago without me asking. Besides I think there was some chemistry between us.

On the left hand, girl2 gave me her mobile number while I was just asking for her FB ( the fb app was taking long so she said: dont you want my number isntead?).
However, after talking to me and dancing etc, at two different points during the night this girl took her friend and went to dance with some other guys instead of keep talking to me.


Now, last Sunday I added both of them to FB, so Im not sure which girl is more willing to meet me for a drink.

What do you think? girl1 or girl2?


Thanks.

 

[devilkingx2]

the one who wasn't dragging her friend away to go dance is likely more interested(that means, the one who was being dragged away)

but aside from that, they both seem to have some interest

 

[Chase24]

I'd say one for sure. Two may be somewhat interested, but I also think the phone number part may have been out of impatience for the app or because it's just easier to text/call over FB message.

 

[pyros]

anyone else?

I was thinking about talking to both of them on fb one time and see which one seems more talkative and receptive...

 

[Tarfun]

Who cares which ones is more interested? Go get the one you want more would be my advice...

Then go get the other one!

 

[Alvafe]

I would ask both to go out and see who would agree, not that hard.

 

[JohnChops]

I would ask both to go out and see who would agree, not that hard.

they're both friends. i dont see that going over well but might as well give it a try.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

I wouldn't take so seriously the fact the blonde and the brunette are "friends." Girls have tons of "frienemys."

Besides, you are just dating. There is no commitment. You could date an asian too while at it.

One day I wish to tame a russian. :woo:

 

[Mike32ct]

Go with your gut. The one you "felt" chemistry with AND dropped that she broke up with her bf is probably more hot for you.

The other girl that gave you her number but disappeared to dance with other guys sounds AW-ish. But worth a shot as a backup chick.

 

[pyros]

Go with your gut. The one you "felt" chemistry with AND dropped that she broke up with her bf is probably more hot for you.

The other girl that gave you her number but disappeared to dance with other guys sounds AW-ish. But worth a shot as a backup chick.

Hi Mike, yes Im gonna follow my gut, so Ill text the one that told me she broke up with her bf, eventhough the other girl is hotter.

And for the ones that said that I should ask out both of them, they are friends! If I go out with one of them, the other one is not likely an option anymore.

 

[Alvafe]

Hi Mike, yes Im gonna follow my gut, so Ill text the one that told me she broke up with her bf, eventhough the other girl is hotter.

And for the ones that said that I should ask out both of them, they are friends! If I go out with one of them, the other one is not likely an option anymore.

from my experience that means little, if both see you as hot both will compete to see who get the prize (you).

also you could invite one see if she says ok and if not ask the other, in anycase you is the one who will make the call do waht you think it will work.

 

[Maximus Rex]

How Come You're Asking Questions About a Women's Interest Level?

I have a few questions,

1) Why aren't you trying to have sex with both of them?

2) Why did you add women as FB friends that you haven't seen in the nude?

3) Why are you only communicating via FB?

4) Why does all of your questions seemingly revolve around your unsurety of a woman's interest level?

 

[Nickface]

When will people understand that FB is the worst way to progress with a girl!? OP, you have the girls number, why the heck on you going on Facebook. Text/call the girl that gave you the number.. You can potentially get the other girl down the line. Your thinking way too much right now. There is no choice to be made.

 

[pyros]

I have a few questions,

1) Why aren't you trying to have sex with both of them?

2) Why did you add women as FB friends that you haven't seen in the nude?

3) Why are you only communicating via FB?

4) Why does all of your questions seemingly revolve around your unsurety of a woman's interest level?

1- because they are friends, and when I met them they were there together.
2- because I wanted to see what they post, what pictures they upload, and get a better idead about them both.
3- I havent comunicated yet, just added them.
4- because since they are friends, once I choose which one I want to ask out, the other one will know about it and she will become unavailable.

 

[Maximus Rex]

You've Explained Why You Can't, Now Explain Why You Can Do

1- because they are friends, and when I met them they were there together.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x27wabHGCac

At 1:37 of this footage Tyler is tonguing down two chicks at the same time. The women are probably friends and the chances are more than good that Tyler met them, they were together. You should try and eff the both of them.

2- because I wanted to see what they post, what pictures they upload, and get a better idead about them both.

So you wanted to stalk them and see last summer's bikini pictures. and how is FB going to give you a better gauge on their personalities than talking and interacting with them in person? People on FB can be getting ready to get evicted with no food to eat, but accordingly to them, they're ballin' and living a life of leisure. People tend to live in delusions of grandeur on FB.

3- I havent comunicated yet, just added them.

Good, undfriend them until you've seen them naked and they've asked you to be FB friends again.

4- because since they are friends, once I choose which one I want to ask out, the other one will know about it and she will become unavailable.

You know what you're biggest problem is pyros? No Rex. What is it? You've reached a "game comfort zone." You get to certain point and don't know what to do because you have a hesitancy to push the boundaries of your game. You have knowledge of the game, how to apply strategy and tactics as far as opening and minimal interest, then you run out of game. All of sudden those old habits kick back in the approach anxiety, lack of confidence, and becoming outcome dependent.

One of the most profound things that I read in The Game, was one of the PUA's said that he only date bi chicks for the purposes of menage action. He presented this as it being a part of his reality and he made it clear to the women he approached that he wanted menage action and in order to get his time and attention, that's what was expected of the women he dealt with, that what he expected of them menage action.

If you approach these in the same manner and they like you enough, they'll fall right in line because they want you, they're trying to have you, most importantly they'll want to satisfy you. So I'm recommending that you holla at the both of them, what's the worst that can happen? They tell you, "no."

 

[pyros]

update:

so the girl that gave me her number but dragged her friends to dance with some other dudes (the one with blue eyes) just talked to me on FB and she asked me if Im gonna be at the same salsa club next Friday because she's going with her female friend (the one that told me she broke up with her bf).

I said that probably yes. We had a fun conversation and she was talkative and fun.

Now, Im thinking that for next Friday Im gonna tell her to meet me and a female friend of mine for a drink before we go in the salsa club, so this way we can all talk, build some rapport and then inside the club isolate her.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Safe, Conservative Game is Not Rewarded

update:

so the girl that gave me her number but dragged her friends to dance with some other dudes (the one with blue eyes) just talked to me on FB and she asked me if Im gonna be at the same salsa club next Friday because she's going with her female friend (the one that told me she broke up with her bf).

I said that probably yes. We had a fun conversation and she was talkative and fun.

Why didn't try to hook up with her tonight.