Mr. Cardio
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Well, in case you didnt know, I was picked on a lot while growing up, seeing that I acted like a nerd at times. I have changed a lot, I would call myself a semi-don juan, as I am still trying to work on myself, but I run into this problem a lot and I need help with it. After I have gotten in cool with a girl, some guys would start to roast me(like teasing, but very bad though), and this makes me look really stupid because everybody joins in on it, and I dont really have any thing much creative to say, and it just gets worst and worst when everybody joins in. After that, whatever attraction I build up with the girl is now gone, and I know that I m losing it while its happening, so I get angry, and when I get angry, well, that just makes the laughter ever more intense. What do I do to conquer this? I have always had this problem, where one person will say something, then everybody will join in. I dont dress nerdy or anything any more, I know that my personality is that on of one whos usually upfront and very humorous, but when these guys start the roastin, they dont stop! I mean, its not one joke and everybody laughs and its done, guys, it goes on and on and on and by this time, I have lost the attraction I build up and some confidence as well. I mean, if its one guy, I can deal with that, but when EVERYBODY joins in, I mean, what the hell can a guy do? Talking about a confident DECREASE. And second question is,
I read Pook's Secret of the Jerk, and he talked about how man are those who are not afraid of their testerone, etc. Any ideas of how to locate and know where this center is, and how to control it so that you dont just come off as a jerk but also as a great guy. But remember, when these guys start this roastin, I mean, I can explain it but I feel very stupid and with less confidence.
Thanks
I read Pook's Secret of the Jerk, and he talked about how man are those who are not afraid of their testerone, etc. Any ideas of how to locate and know where this center is, and how to control it so that you dont just come off as a jerk but also as a great guy. But remember, when these guys start this roastin, I mean, I can explain it but I feel very stupid and with less confidence.
Thanks