Two Failed Phone Calls. Work with me people.

[wanderlust420]

Phone Report:

Agonize over making the call for a good hour. **** I like this girl a lot, but why? I barely know her, just that her body and smile are both perfect.

I got her number and her friend's number.

First I called her. She picked up, I reminded her of who I was, from Salsa class. (Probably should have made her guess, been more playful, but I was really nervous.)
I asked her the required questions like how her weekend went, which she immediately asked me how mine went (she's nervous around me, probably because it's what I project.)
I asked about her finals, spring break, which she mentioned that she was going to Minnesota. I asked why, and she told me that's where her boyfriend lives. (****.)
I stuttered at that point, and told her about the dance class the next night, and was she free. She wasn't. She recommended I call her friend Girl#2, the other girl who gave me her #.
The whole thing felt rushed and uncomfortable for the most part. We agreed that we might hang in 2 weeks when everyone is back. I said "ok later man" and that was it.

I then felt sorry for myself, that I could get so worked up about a girl I barely knew, total one-itis, and to make matters worse she was never available. What is interesting though is that she never mentioned Minnesota when the topic of Spring Break came up before.
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So next I called Girl#2. This time I felt like I had a lot less to lose, and felt a lot less nervous. "Hey Girl#2, it's (Wanderlust420). Salsa Class." I ask her about her finals, if she wants to go dancing tomorrow night, she says she can't, she has to study. I ask her about her Spring Break plans, she says she's going to be in Seattle, but really busy. (Really busy? WTF? What a complete showing of no interest from her part.) So I just say "Okay, well it sounds like in 2 weeks people will be free, so we'll talk about this in the future. LATER."
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So two phone calls to two girls who both gave me their numbers after my last dance class, and both girls can't hang out. One has a boyfriend, and one will be busy for a week when we live in the same ****ing town.

It's enough to make me feel sorry for myself, but I'm not going to do that.

I know my phone game is TERRIBLE right now, I was so nervous during the first call.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

whoa, whoa whoa!!!! You got two numbers from girls in a salsa class? and they both know about the other????


holy crap man, that's just horrible and fvcked up.

You lost before you ever picked up the phone. Girls want to feel special, not like a number to your black book.

Your fault, so stop feeling sorry for yourself. THat's one of the most messed up things I've ever heard.

And your phone game is not messed up... your number getting strategy is what needs work.

 

[wanderlust420]

Canadian, I actually made a kind joke about it - They are friends (they come to the class together), we were planning on all going out dancing at some point, and so I took both their numbers. I never thought that this was such a grave error until your response.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Well if you're just gonna hang with these girls and go dancing then there's no worries but if you were getting the number with the intent to ask them out, then it's not a good thing.

You automatically gave player vibes when you're grabbing digits from two girls at the same time. Now some might argue that it's a good thing to show they aren't your only option but that is just B.S. in this scenario. You gotta pick, especially if they are friends.

I would imagine if they are friends that they talked to eachother after your call and asked if the other got a call... now THAT would be even worse. Give up, forget these girls... you're not getting anywhere. #1 rejected you and #2 now knows she was your #2.