Hey guys,
I'm trying to get better at flirting, so I can do it deliberately and effortlessly. Can you help me come up with a list of ways I can use what what a girl says and does and respond in a flirtatious manner?
I'm not looking for really specific examples that are only applicable in certain situations or respond to a particular action or comment. I want a shorter, more general list that responds to cues that come up in virtually every normal interaction. Also, these techniques are meant to be used on girls whom you have not hooked up with yet. Here's what I have so far.
1. When she compliments you, insinuate that she's trying to get with you.
2. When she says something that could be construed as a double entendre, tell her that she has a dirty/naughty mind. Create double entendres by relating some adjective or adverb she uses to sex.
3. When she makes some kind of mistake or does something funny or clumsy, imply that she's nervous around you. If she compliments herself or says something interesting, say that she's doing so to impress you.
4. When she tells you something about herself, carefully imply that this places her into some special category of women; this category may either be negative or ambiguous.
5. If she says something negative about herself, say that she's trying too hard to impress you with her modesty.
6. Playfully imply that she has some flaw that you are capable of seeing past. Pair this negative evaluation of her with a compliment not about her looks.
7. When she tells you to do something that requires little effort, playfully tell her that she is being bossy.
8. Tell her that if you and her were dating, her action/comment would require some punishment or reward.
9. After she makes some general comment about herself, ask her if she tells every guy she meets that, or just the ones she thinks are cute.
10. After you have been flirting for some time, directly mention this fact by saying that she is too flirtatious.
11.Subtly imply, in a way that sparks her curiosity, that something about yourself (that has already come up naturally in conversation) is indicative of your being a good lover or boyfriend.
12. Carefully let her know that some favor one of you did for the other can be paid back "some other way".
13. Disagree with some of her opinions. Make her opinion seem silly and call her out on questionable actions. Do not be afraid to offend her as long as you do so with a smile.
Thanks for reading. Let me know what else I should add, or if something on the list should be taken off.
I'm trying to get better at flirting, so I can do it deliberately and effortlessly. Can you help me come up with a list of ways I can use what what a girl says and does and respond in a flirtatious manner?
I'm not looking for really specific examples that are only applicable in certain situations or respond to a particular action or comment. I want a shorter, more general list that responds to cues that come up in virtually every normal interaction. Also, these techniques are meant to be used on girls whom you have not hooked up with yet. Here's what I have so far.
1. When she compliments you, insinuate that she's trying to get with you.
2. When she says something that could be construed as a double entendre, tell her that she has a dirty/naughty mind. Create double entendres by relating some adjective or adverb she uses to sex.
3. When she makes some kind of mistake or does something funny or clumsy, imply that she's nervous around you. If she compliments herself or says something interesting, say that she's doing so to impress you.
4. When she tells you something about herself, carefully imply that this places her into some special category of women; this category may either be negative or ambiguous.
5. If she says something negative about herself, say that she's trying too hard to impress you with her modesty.
6. Playfully imply that she has some flaw that you are capable of seeing past. Pair this negative evaluation of her with a compliment not about her looks.
7. When she tells you to do something that requires little effort, playfully tell her that she is being bossy.
8. Tell her that if you and her were dating, her action/comment would require some punishment or reward.
9. After she makes some general comment about herself, ask her if she tells every guy she meets that, or just the ones she thinks are cute.
10. After you have been flirting for some time, directly mention this fact by saying that she is too flirtatious.
11.Subtly imply, in a way that sparks her curiosity, that something about yourself (that has already come up naturally in conversation) is indicative of your being a good lover or boyfriend.
12. Carefully let her know that some favor one of you did for the other can be paid back "some other way".
13. Disagree with some of her opinions. Make her opinion seem silly and call her out on questionable actions. Do not be afraid to offend her as long as you do so with a smile.
Thanks for reading. Let me know what else I should add, or if something on the list should be taken off.
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