Turning a friend with benefits into a girlfriend - can it be done?

[thegamedontwait]

I've posted about this topic before, but anyways this is the situation (Ill try to keep it brief):

- The girl says she doesnt have a crush on me and thus doesnt wanna be with me as in boyfriend and girlfriend (shes not the type whos not into relationships tho, had boyfriends before), but she thinks Im hot and I stay over at her house every few weeks and we mess around and stuff.
I bet a lot of you guys would normally say this is a typical next situation as her IL isnt high enough. But the thing is that she's still a virgin and she does want to spend her first time with me. Actually I was gonna next her but Im pretty sure I can take her virginity during the next few weeks. So now my question is:
If I do get to devirginize her, will she probably be all over me and want to be in a relationship with me (cause thats what everybody said in my previous post) even though right now she says she doesnt want to be more than friends with benefits and gives me this "dont have a crush but just think ur hot" -b/s?

- Are there any other methods or tools u can use for turning a friend with benefits into a g/f ?

- Has anybody done it before?

- Has anybody in here devirginized a girl who only wanted the sex before? If so how did they act afterwards?

 

[MVPlaya]

The title of your thread is "Turning a friend with benefits into a girlfriend - can it be done?" and she's a virgin? Can you people write accurate ƒucking titles? If she ain't your ƒuckbuddy yet than you have no reason to ask this question.

 

[thegamedontwait]

Dont hate playa, english aint my first language and I thought a friends with benefits could be either one, a **** buddy or a mess-around buddy or whateva u wanna call it. Notice, that I didnt say **** buddy. Thanx for the helpful piece of advice though...

Peace

 

[chili kat]

The only guarentee in taking a woman's virginity is that she will remember you for the rest of her life. But don't think you're going to be the LTR boyfriend by default.

My suggestion is: if you're going to do it, spare no expense and don't be a 2 minute chump about it. The more grand it is for her, the more likely you'll stick arond.

 

[madgame]

All I know is that ppl on these kinds of boards usually say that a girl's interest level will raise dramatically if u take her virginity, but I havent had any experiences with virgins so far so I cant really tell.
Of course chili kat is right when he says that you cant say she definetly will be your g/f then, but from what I heared chances should be she will, unless shes the type who doesnt want a relationship at all. Maybe shes just saying she cant imagine being with u as in b/f and g/f cause u asked her or something but her IL needs to be increased.

Has anybody had experiences with devirginizing virgins yet??
Im really interested in that subject. So if somebody has experiences with the way virgins act after their first time (especially if yall werent together yet) share them with us plz lol

 

[thegamedontwait]

come on..anybody?

 

[chili kat]

I have.

Look, the fact that they're virgins doesn't make them desperate for love. If you're already in a good relationship with the girl, then yes, first times can and often will make the relationship a little stronger. One of these stuck with me for almost a year, and she was forgiving in a lot of ways. But, there are also some girls who do it just to get it out of the way. One of these dumped me a week after the "deflowering" because a friend of hers had seen me in a jewelery store with another woman. The dumb broad never gave me the opportunity to tell her I was getting a woman's advice on what to get HER for a birthday present.

One virgin I was dating slipped away before I could take it. She banged the next guy she dated. 2 weeks later she hooked up with a friend of mine. A buddy of mine took a girl once, they had the most argumentive relationship I've ever seen and it ended in a real dramatic mess.
Bottom line is that no one here can tell you for sure how she is going to behave after 'the event'.

 

[mindbreaker]

hehee

i turned a friend(friends only for two weeks though), into a friend with benefits, AND finally into my girlfriend..

does that count?

 

[thegamedontwait]

yea it does, how did u do it though and how long were u fwb's ? and dont say u basically ****ed her good lol