Just thought I'd share a recent experience that may prove useful to some of you.
I met this HB8 for a date at the beginning of this month. She oozed sex appeal and I was really hoping to sleep with her sooner or later, but we didn't get on very well during the date. She cut it short and told me she didn't want to see me again.
Cooly and indifferently, I said "You're right. We didn't click". I shook her hand like a mate and wished her the best.
The following day she sent me a text message, which read like she was giving me a second chance and asked me to meet again. I politely reminded her we didn't hit it off and said it was best if we don't meet.
That was the last contact we had for a week. Then one night she started sending me very flirtatious and suggestive text messages. I played along for a while, but then cut it short, saying "Well, I'm glad we had this chat. Take care".
I heard nothing again until Christmas eve when she sent me a text message to wish me a happy christmas. I replied wishing her the same. She called me on boxing day for a chat, during which she apologised about our bad date, admitted she made a mistake and almost begged me for a second chance. She even tried to excuse herself, saying she was not feeling well the night we met and I got the wrong idea about her.
I told her I'd be in the city this afternoon if she wanted to meet me. Well, I'll spare the details, but she was like putty in my hands.
Considering she rejected me, I have not only managed to change her mind, but I have also increased her IL considerably. Sometimes playing aloof can be the most effective strategy. Don't let her call the shots. Take a leap of faith and always be willing to walk away with nothing.
I met this HB8 for a date at the beginning of this month. She oozed sex appeal and I was really hoping to sleep with her sooner or later, but we didn't get on very well during the date. She cut it short and told me she didn't want to see me again.
Cooly and indifferently, I said "You're right. We didn't click". I shook her hand like a mate and wished her the best.
The following day she sent me a text message, which read like she was giving me a second chance and asked me to meet again. I politely reminded her we didn't hit it off and said it was best if we don't meet.
That was the last contact we had for a week. Then one night she started sending me very flirtatious and suggestive text messages. I played along for a while, but then cut it short, saying "Well, I'm glad we had this chat. Take care".
I heard nothing again until Christmas eve when she sent me a text message to wish me a happy christmas. I replied wishing her the same. She called me on boxing day for a chat, during which she apologised about our bad date, admitted she made a mistake and almost begged me for a second chance. She even tried to excuse herself, saying she was not feeling well the night we met and I got the wrong idea about her.
I told her I'd be in the city this afternoon if she wanted to meet me. Well, I'll spare the details, but she was like putty in my hands.
Considering she rejected me, I have not only managed to change her mind, but I have also increased her IL considerably. Sometimes playing aloof can be the most effective strategy. Don't let her call the shots. Take a leap of faith and always be willing to walk away with nothing.