a beautiful woman came up to me at work and started flirting. did not pay too much attention just a little. after a few conversations in a few days we hit it off real well. word was that she was crazy about me and one day she played footsie real sexually with me at a meeting. she is married to an abusive alcoholic and told me the relationship was dead and over. so i went ahead and starting seeing her and we actually fell in love (ouch) we have spent real long sexual times together (she mentioned to me that it was the first time she actually experienced multiple orgasms)) along with other close times where sex was not always there. we were and are happy together every time we see each other. this happened many many times. we actually wrote numerous love notes and poems to each other where she mentioned more than once that she wants to be with me completely and eventually end her bad marriage. this definetly was not only for sex. she is now back with this abuser (i've seen this terrible verbal abuse first hand on 3 different occasions) when she calls me once in a while she still says the same thing about being with me eventually but nothing happens, she talks about divorce lawyers and other things but hasn't done anything yet. am i being strung along and how long should i wait if at all? she is not getting anything from me so she seems to not be using me for anything and the love is really there. i know the love is there but i'm stuck and cut off from now seeing her and so is she. what to say or possibly do? by the way the guy is a nutcase and has been in jail. why can't she leave this idiot? you can see the hatred and abuse and arguments when they are together.