What's up guys, you all gave me some advise about this girl I've been trying to get with.
Long story short, I've been the one that's been trying to get with her, I mean she liked me alot and all but it's always been me doing the pursuing.
She doesn't like you half as much as you think she does if that's the case.
Side note: we both have bf/gf and we've been trying to hook up with each other.
I just don't know what to say. You are pursuing each other while you are respectively in other relationships, and you are wondering why it doesn't seem to be working? Hello? Anyone home?
Actually, she's not pursuing you at all, as you said, you are doing all the pursuing. This is pathetically sad.
Well anyway, I kinda turned the tables on her right now. I had a long talk with her about alot of issues and I also mentioned that I won't be pursuing her any longer, if she still has her man, etc..
Pathetic.
After I was done with the convesation, I asked her what she thought and what she got out of it (the conversation). The first and only thing she said was "What I got out of it was that you're not going to pursue me anymore?", to which I answered "I'm not, I'm not a doormat".
You sound like a woman.
It kinda felt like I took control at that point. I'm hoping that it doesn't backfire on me, what do you guys think?
It already backfired on you the minute you opened your mouth up about it to her. You have no fawking control. Not an iota, she still has it all.
She's not interested, at least not now after you started babbling like a broad to her.
I'm sure alot of u here have taken that control from her before, what happened? Will she realize what she'll be missing out on, or will she just let things be?
She's got a boyfriend and is using your attention either to play it off him or to boost her own ego.
Move along.
You work with her, you ain't sleeping with her, you have a girlfriend, she has a boyfriend, and on top of it all, you are asking her to 'choose' between her guy and you.
Does she know that you have a girlfriend? Yes.
You are acting lke a complete chump.
This is so gawd damn lame I can't even believe I read the thread.
She's an attention hor, you are getting played, even now, while you play your woman games with her, 'talking to her less and less each day'.
She probably goes home to her boyfriend and tells him all about it, gives him an update each day, they have a good laugh about it, then he f*cks her brains out.
She's making an utter fool out of you.
She's loving every minute of the power she still has over you, she's loving being able to manipulate another guy, and loving it even more that this other guy has a girlfriend, to boot.
Man, this is some of the saddest crap I've read in a long time.
You are a woman. Stop watching Desperate Housewives. :crackup:
You are not DJing this situation at all. You are playing the same type of woman games that these broads have been learning since they were three years old, and she knows it.
She's about 20 moves ahead of you at all times. She could have you in checkmate at anytime and you'd never know what hit you.
