Trying to reverse this friendzone-what should I do from here?

Infern0

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Fratboy said:
Guys, I accept responsibility and blame no one but myself. It's just really frustrating for me to see a girl pull a complete 180. Like extremely warm and friendly, and interested in what I was saying to going completely cold. As you guys said, I am pretty inexperienced and don't yet completely understand how attraction works. I am being completely honest- this has really drained my confidence. What do you guys suggest I do from here?
Brother, accepting the blame is the ****ing alpha thing to do, go ahead and kick yourself then have a laugh about it. Everyone has done this **** at some stage.

All you can do is move forward and be sure not to repeat the mistake. She may come back in a week or so, if not you'll find someone better. You can't really lose.
 

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Fratboy said:
Guys, I accept responsibility and blame no one but myself. It's just really frustrating for me to see a girl pull a complete 180. Like extremely warm and friendly, and interested in what I was saying to going completely cold. As you guys said, I am pretty inexperienced and don't yet completely understand how attraction works. I am being completely honest- this has really drained my confidence. What do you guys suggest I do from here?
The hardest thing to do with getting girls (and life in general) is not letting rejection ruin your confidence. Think about it you are (in your own words) inexperienced and don't understand how attraction works but you went on a date with a girl and "hit it off really well and hooked up" Yeah you screwed it up but you acknowledged you screwed up and more importantly you know why you screwed up. The way I see it you should be even more confident than before because you now have more experience and you understand more how attraction works! Go find another girl "hit it off really well and hook up" and this time you will know what to do and what not to do.
 
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