*** Trying To Nail A Girl 4yrs Older Than You ***

[Charm&Style]

I met this chick threw one of my friends(another female) and im determined to get her, she's hella witty, makes a bunch wise cracks, hb9, and single.

Anyways shes pretty arrogant, ive passed her b1tch shield and im prbly on stage 1 of her comfort level.

She considers me to be a 3rd grader ( im 19 she's 23 ) her and her friend talk about me, cause of the wise cracks i crack on them.

Anyways any tips on getting a chick older than you by 4 yrs, a chick who is the type that rejects every guy that goes up to her...

Let me here your stories/tips/etc

tnx

 

[ryannath]

Hmm..I'm 21 and got with a 26 yr old and 27 yr old before. Neither one of them really cracked on my age. I kinda made jokes about one of them not having a myspace and for some reason she thought I was joking with her about her age, but I really wasn't, and she said, "I'm not THAT old. I can have a myspace" with a laugh. So it really wasn't a factor for me to get older women. If anything, they tried to make it seem like they were still young enough for ME.

But honestly, in my example, age was not a factor at all.

 

[Jason88]

Hmm..I'm 21 and got with a 26 yr old and 27 yr old before. Neither one of them really cracked on my age. I kinda made jokes about one of them not having a myspace and for some reason she thought I was joking with her about her age, but I really wasn't, and she said, "I'm not THAT old. I can have a myspace" with a laugh. So it really wasn't a factor for me to get older women. If anything, they tried to make it seem like they were still young enough for ME.

But honestly, in my example, age was not a factor at all.

Thats some good advice there.
I have just the opposite problem. I'm 24 (but I guess I look older). But, it seems I attract either older women 29-32 or the youngins 16-18.

But anyways... just tell her when she turns 25 she will be over the hill anyways... so she better hook up with you before its too late.

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

When you get to being 40 like me the thought of fvcking woman who are four years older than you never enters your mind, in fact even if they are four years younger it doesn't, they have to be fourteen years younger than me now or I just won't fvck them. :rockon:

 

[Charm&Style]

lol

ya this girl puts up a fight though, sh1t tests all the time.

any other personal experiences??

The only thing i dont wanna come off as (which i rarely have in the past few years) is coming off as a wuss, a girl lol. I never had this problem but i think im over thinking about getting her.

Anyways besides being clingy, needy, as$kis$er, what else makes you come off as a wuss and a girl??

 

[ryannath]

Just kinda act like you don't give a fvck about her. They kinda like that for some reason for a guy to not really care about them. Kinda be nonchalant like if you fvck her cool, but if not, that's ok too. That's what I did to these women and it ended up working out in the end.

Also, one of them told me they thought I was older, that I looked close their age about 25. I joked with her and told I can't believe she would say I looked 4 yrs older than my age. Then she was like, "I was just kidding...ok? I meant it in a good way." So, yeah it worked out.

 

[Charm&Style]

Just kinda act like you don't give a fvck about her. They kinda like that for some reason for a guy to not really care about them. Kinda be nonchalant like if you fvck her cool, but if not, that's ok too. That's what I did to these women and it ended up working out in the end.

Also, one of them told me they thought I was older, that I looked close their age about 25. I joked with her and told I can't believe she would say I looked 4 yrs older than my age. Then she was like, "I was just kidding...ok? I meant it in a good way." So, yeah it worked out.

same here, if it wasnt for my birthday that occured 2 weeks ago she wouldve never knew.

Anyways i c what you mean, ive never had a problem picking up any girl (around my age or 1-2 yrs older) but for some reason i feel intimidated by this bizatch.

The laws of attraction should be the same for all ages right??

so what ever i should be doing with others that works well i should do with her....right ?? lol

But thnx for the advice, not getting all needy for her would be the best.

But something that has worked reall well when we first met was me paying attention to all her friends (which are former friends of mine) rather than her.

 

[ValleyDJing]

lol

ya this girl puts up a fight though, sh1t tests all the time.

any other personal experiences??

The only thing i dont wanna come off as (which i rarely have in the past few years) is coming off as a wuss, a girl lol. I never had this problem but i think im over thinking about getting her.

Anyways besides being clingy, needy, as$kis$er, what else makes you come off as a wuss and a girl??

What you should do is call her on this s.hit. Just straight up tell her..."stop playing games woman! So are we gonna hook up or not?" If she says "not" then you shrug your shoulders and be like whatever, walk away. At the very least, it will prove you're not a wussy little boy.

 

[Abbott]

Don't hold your breath.

You aren't 21 yet, which really works against you since you can't buy booze. Many people won't date those under 21 for that very reason.

Being over 21 myself, last thing I need is a partner or even a friend who can't buy booze for herself.

 

[Charm&Style]

neither of us drink so thats not a problem lol.

 

[Abbott]

Oh OK. Each to his own, although I assumed you did since most Americans do drink to some degree, although true alcoholics aren't common.

Anyway, my original point still stands. Don't hold your breath.

Fortunately, apart from four years of age difference, there doesn't appear to be any other barrier. There are other things, apart from buying booze, that requires age 21, but they aren't fun-related things so you don't need to worry about them.

Well...unless she expects you to drive the party bus. In IL you need to be 21 to get the license needed to drive buses, not sure about CA.

 

[Charm&Style]

Oh OK. Each to his own, although I assumed you did since most Americans do drink to some degree, although true alcoholics aren't common.

Anyway, my original point still stands. Don't hold your breath.

Fortunately, apart from four years of age difference, there doesn't appear to be any other barrier. There are other things, apart from buying booze, that requires age 21, but they aren't fun-related things so you don't need to worry about them.

Well...unless she expects you to drive the party bus. In IL you need to be 21 to get the license needed to drive buses, not sure about CA.

haha na bro.

we're both persians.

and as of now...it seems to me like shes coming on way toooo easy, i know i passed the sh1t tests, and her b1tchy attitude that she had at first, but now the level of attraction is pretty much sky rocketing.

So im going to go in for the kiss the next time we chill.

...Butttt then again when i think about it, this girls a cutie but she's the college study a lot, witty, classy, dorky girl.

As far as looks, body, and character go i like her.

I think in a way we balance each other out.

Anyways thnx for the inputs

 

[Charm&Style]

Chances are that she is ADDICTED to the attention that she gets and KNOWS that she gets because of her looks. Over the years it has solidified her perception of what she CAN do with men. She knows she's got IT but do YOU have "it". She constantly sh** tests to see how much power she has over you and THAT really determines if your like rest of the guys or your own man. It doesn't matter how old you really are because if you carry yourself the right way and speak "right" it shouldn't be a problem. However, their are draw-backs...considering your age she EXPECTS certain things from you such as immaturity and not understanding a women's <-- key word> needs because it DOES take time to really grasp how emotions work and what illicits what.

You with me so far...? I've fuked up tons and still do but when it comes down to it, if you DON'T have "it" chances are she won't even take a second look at you. You have to establish a REALLY high value for yourself and shatter those assumptions she has about you considering your age and life in itself. Call her bullsh** out and don't be afraid to offend her. (That actually works a lot better because most dudes don't have balls to say it like it is). If you start seeing sincere signs and how she speaks to you with sincerity go for it. :flowers:

Another thing you have to understand is that if this girl looks GOOD, chances are she has been approached in basic ways you can think off. Think of the basic ways MOST guys talk to her. Then you have some of those clever guys who are a little bit past basic. What YOU have to do is be so indirect with your approach and "different" that it throws her in a loop and caught up in the moment. That will either make it or break it for you. Once your foot is in the door chances are you should be able to slide in. Get it slide IN. HAHAH!!!...damn I crack myself up sometimes.

bro, you pretty much nailed my sh1t. :rockon:

nice advice.