blackhatter
Don Juan
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I've been broken up with my ex for 2 months now. We were together for about a year. Shortly and simply, she's a very good looking girl (hb8 or 9) who was obsessed with me in the beginning. Although she is not very sociable, she was a decent girlfriend. She talked ME into our relationship, begging for us to be more.
Although we had our ups and downs, everything seemed to be good. She went away on vacation for 2 weeks and ended up falling for some other guy. A total blow to my confidence, hence I was always the center of her world. She gave me the whole "I need some time to think about us" deal, which I later found out was just because she wanted to get with this guy. I think I played it pretty well. I asked her if she still loved me and she said no. I then asked her if she cared about our relationship and she said "I'm not sure anymore." Shortly after, I told her that there was no break and we were done for good. Click. Hardly any word since.
Anyways, I'm 2 months down the road and I'm really OVER her. I just can't seem to smother up my own self confidence. I've been seeing a few girls and laid 2 of them since. It seems like when I was with my ex, I had DIRECTION in life and knew what I wanted to do with myself. Now I feel like I'm just a piece of dust being blown in the wind.. I have no idea what I want to do, what my goals are, etc. I feel like I'm nearing the point where I get back to my old self but I'm not quite there yet.
Does anyone have any advice to get me there quicker? It's not that I still have feelings for her; I DO NOT! I am hardly even attracted to her anymore physically or mentally. I will admit that the blow to my self confidence is still very alive. I'm a good looking guy who's laid plenty of women, but this is the first time I've every been "cheated" on or DITCHED by a woman. I just wish I could get back to being the same man I was before I dated this girl. Anyways, I'd appreciate some replies.
Although we had our ups and downs, everything seemed to be good. She went away on vacation for 2 weeks and ended up falling for some other guy. A total blow to my confidence, hence I was always the center of her world. She gave me the whole "I need some time to think about us" deal, which I later found out was just because she wanted to get with this guy. I think I played it pretty well. I asked her if she still loved me and she said no. I then asked her if she cared about our relationship and she said "I'm not sure anymore." Shortly after, I told her that there was no break and we were done for good. Click. Hardly any word since.
Anyways, I'm 2 months down the road and I'm really OVER her. I just can't seem to smother up my own self confidence. I've been seeing a few girls and laid 2 of them since. It seems like when I was with my ex, I had DIRECTION in life and knew what I wanted to do with myself. Now I feel like I'm just a piece of dust being blown in the wind.. I have no idea what I want to do, what my goals are, etc. I feel like I'm nearing the point where I get back to my old self but I'm not quite there yet.
Does anyone have any advice to get me there quicker? It's not that I still have feelings for her; I DO NOT! I am hardly even attracted to her anymore physically or mentally. I will admit that the blow to my self confidence is still very alive. I'm a good looking guy who's laid plenty of women, but this is the first time I've every been "cheated" on or DITCHED by a woman. I just wish I could get back to being the same man I was before I dated this girl. Anyways, I'd appreciate some replies.