trying to kill the mentality that women have it better than men

[JaegerPilot217]

Trying to kill the mentality that women have it better than men eh? Good luck

If an ugly girl wanted sex she could text one of her friends to come round and fvck her and he would.

I on the other hand am a 22 yr old virgin

Women do indeed have it better than men.
Over and out!

I like to think that way too, to a certain extent, based on observations it seems, I would say women have it better than men when they are young, especially late teens to early 20's, or just late teens to throughout their 20's and maybe somewhat early 30's, and another thing too.

This is also why women have it easy, and I hate those that argue against that point by saying "for every girl that has a boyfriend a guy has a girlfriend" yes but DUH!!!!, the woman does not need to have these qualities in order to get a boyfriend but a guy does if he wants to get a girlfriend:

Men HAVE to be ones of character have a life be social, have a lot of things going for them, have goals, ambitions, be comfortable and content, secure with themselves while single, while women can be depressed, have no life, be boring, be insecure while single, and still have someone "rescue" her.

"Women don't want to date men who aren't happy with their life, period. They're naturally attracted to men who have their own identity & look like born leaders. Just go do what you love to do & enjoy life while you still have it"

One guy said this to me: "“If you are really looking for a relationship, you have to have balance. Women don't just want confidence, they want vulnerability as well. You can't be the king of the world all the time, they have to feel like they can be there for you and that you need SOME support.

As for jumping in a relationship, try to get to the point where you don't validate yourself through a girlfriend, they kick ass, but you have all you need to be happy in yourself man.

“When you are happy and content with what and who you are, the women will come."

Luckily for women, I know I am right, women don't need to be confident and comfortable and content, secure, independent while single but us guys do, yeah so what if it is the way it is? doesn't mean I have to like it or enjoy it, pisses me off so much I feel like hurting somebody physically sometimes

 

[Mr_Stinky]

Everything I highlighted in RED above is.. to put in bluntly --> Pure sh!t.

I will explain why below in the order they appear:

1. Having something doesn't mean you deserve it. Good looks and cancer are great examples of this. I guess anyone with cancer deserves it because they "have it" right? WRONG. Utter logic fail there. And NO: life is not fair. Sometimes life's unfairness will work in your favor and sometimes it wont.

2. Sex is not a prize a man must earn. A man is not taking from a woman by having sex with her. There is no reason why a woman couldn't approach a man and offer sex. In fact.. I have experienced this. It happens. :yes:

3. Again women are not prizes. A girlfriend is not something a man must "earn". Either a woman finds you sexually attractive / valuable or she doesn't. Your attitude towards women is 100% irrelevant to whether or not you can attract women. FACT. Only your behavior and what you offer matters.

Please start a blog. It would be unreal.

Everything said here is absolute truth

 

[JaegerPilot217]

"try to get to the point where you don't validate yourself through a girlfriend, they kick ass, but you have all you need to be happy in yourself man."

bull****!!!, that ******* who said that is making it sound like us guys are supposed to make other things in our life more enjoyable than getting laid

 

[spang]

Men HAVE to be ones of character have a life be social, have a lot of things going for them, have goals, ambitions, be comfortable and content, secure with themselves while single, while women can be depressed, have no life, be boring, be insecure while single, and still have someone "rescue" her.

but think about what youre saying...if women did all those things, made approaches to guys, worried about their value, felt they needed to improve themselves constantly, took care of business without whining, etc...then they would no longer be women theyd be more like men. i know a few chicks like that and they get on my nerves. most are the career woman types.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

but think about what youre saying...if women did all those things, made approaches to guys, worried about their value, felt they needed to improve themselves constantly, took care of business without whining, etc...then they would no longer be women theyd be more like men. i know a few chicks like that and they get on my nerves. most are the career woman types.

Still that goes to show you men have to do more work than women do, women just have to exist and show up, They don't need to do self improvement

 

[skinnyguy]

Still that goes to show you men have to do more work than women do, women just have to exist and show up, They don't need to do self improvement

your bitterness is stopping you from getting women. but of course if you want to be celibate then keep venting.

The difference between men and women:

Men have problems finding a girl to have sex with.

Women have problems "finding the right guy".

It can be just as frustrating for women, when most of the guys who actually ask them are AFC's.

 

[JoeMarron]

Luckily for women, I know I am right, women don't need to be confident and comfortable and content, secure, independent while single but us guys do, yeah so what if it is the way it is? doesn't mean I have to like it or enjoy it, pisses me off so much I feel like hurting somebody physically sometimes

You're right about not having to like it or enjoy it but look what that attitude is getting you.

The thing is, "getting laid" isn't even a concept for girls.

How can you assume its something they want or can even appreciate? Its not even a concept that exists in their minds that way. They see it differently and their descriptions of it would indicate a different view. I've never heard a woman talk about "getting laid" - projecting that onto them as a goal or something desirable is ... projection.

The physical and emotional are wed together closely in women. So the idea of anonymous sex as a fun, carefree romp, is not quite as powerful with them, because their goals and desires are different. My two cents.

Exactly. Anyone who says that women have it easier is projecting the mindset of a man onto a woman. Ugly women, b!tchy women, lazy women, women with no life, these women aren't getting what they want. Sure they might be getting far more sex and relationships than the male equivalent but there's no way in hell they're satisfied with what they're getting. A high quality man wouldn't even bother with these type of women beyond a pump and dump.

I can't fathom why any man would want to play the passive role. Imagine going through life having a few attractive but mostly unattractive women offering you a relationship with no sex. The ones that do offer you sex the sex is only mildly satisfying. This is the supposedly easier life of women. A woman wants a relationship with the highest value man she can find. Propositions from hordes of thirsty dudes is practically meaningless. Being pumped and dumped by alphas isn't completely satisfying. To top it all off women have little power to change this fate. Their best strategy is to be as pretty as possible and hope Prince Charming rides in to snatch her away to happily ever after. Even if women did have it easier crying about it isn't going to solve a damn thing. We are men. If we get up off our asses, grab our balls and do what needs to be done then we'll find success. It may not be easy but nothing worth achieving is ever easy. Negative mindsets solve nothing.

 

[skinnyguy]

You're right about not having to like it or enjoy it but look what that attitude is getting you.



Exactly. Anyone who says that women have it easier is projecting the mindset of a man onto a woman. Ugly women, b!tchy women, lazy women, women with no life, these women aren't getting what they want. Sure they might be getting far more sex and relationships than the male equivalent but there's no way in hell they're satisfied with what they're getting. A high quality man wouldn't even bother with these type of women beyond a pump and dump.

I can't fathom why any man would want to play the passive role. Imagine going through life having a few attractive but mostly unattractive women offering you a relationship with no sex. The ones that do offer you sex the sex is only mildly satisfying. This is the supposedly easier life of women. A woman wants a relationship with the highest value man she can find. Propositions from hordes of thirsty dudes is practically meaningless. Being pumped and dumped by alphas isn't completely satisfying. To top it all off women have little power to change this fate. Their best strategy is to be as pretty as possible and hope Prince Charming rides in to snatch her away to happily ever after. Even if women did have it easier crying about it isn't going to solve a damn thing. We are men. If we get up off our asses, grab our balls and do what needs to be done then we'll find success. It may not be easy but nothing worth achieving is ever easy. Negative mindsets solve nothing.

True. A lot of guys think that chicks have it made because they have people approaching them every day. If it's not what you want, and you have to filter through the garbage to find one good guy, it's not satisfying.

If I had an obese woman seek me out for sex, it would do nothing for me.
The only thing that ever does anything for me is when a hottie gives me attention.

I would say that 85% of women are not attractive to me. I see average chicks every day but I don't really pay attention to them. And I realized this led me to the mindset of "women are soooo picky" because I'm only going after the top shelf women, who can get any guy they want. Sigh.

Long story short, you can train your mind to be more satisfied with the things you have. Only in the past week have I started to realize how good my life is. I may not have a girlfriend, but I have a good job, no drama, no kids to pay child support for, and I can do whatever I want on the weekend.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Why waste time considering someone else, when you can use that time to consider yourself and make yourself better?

 

[JoeMarron]

True. A lot of guys think that chicks have it made because they have people approaching them every day. If it's not what you want, and you have to filter through the garbage to find one good guy, it's not satisfying.

If I had an obese woman seek me out for sex, it would do nothing for me.
The only thing that ever does anything for me is when a hottie gives me attention.

I would say that 85% of women are not attractive to me. I see average chicks every day but I don't really pay attention to them. And I realized this led me to the mindset of "women are soooo picky" because I'm only going after the top shelf women, who can get any guy they want. Sigh.

Long story short, you can train your mind to be more satisfied with the things you have. Only in the past week have I started to realize how good my life is. I may not have a girlfriend, but I have a good job, no drama, no kids to pay child support for, and I can do whatever I want on the weekend.

85%...damn. I see plenty of attractive average women all the time. This is why I stay away from p0rn. People like to laugh at men who dumpster dive but who's really getting the last laugh? If he's actually attracted to the chick then he shouldn't give a fvck what anyone else thinks. At the end of the day he's happy and getting his nut busted.

Yeah its always better to focus on the positive. I'd say your life is much better than the jaded dude who can only get sex from vapid club wh0res.

 

[skinnyguy]

If you appreciate the female form and frilly underwear, you are a pervert. If you don’t, you are gay.

^this

 

[JaegerPilot217]

If you put a woman on a pedestal and try to protect her from the rat race, you are a male chauvinist pig; if you stay home and do the housework, you're a pansy.

If you work too hard, there is never time for her; if you don’t work enough, you’re a good-for-nothing bum.

If she has a boring, repetitive job with low pay, it’s exploitation; if you have a boring repetitive job with low pay, you should get off your rear and find something better.

If you get a promotion ahead of her, it’s favoritism; if she gets a job ahead of you, it’s equal opportunity.

If you mention how nice she looks, it’s sexual harassment. If you keep quiet, it’s male indifference.

If you cry, you’re a wimp; if you don’t, you’re insensitive.

If you make a decision without consulting her, you’re a chauvinist. If she makes a decision without consulting you, she’s a liberated woman.

If you ask her to do something she doesn’t enjoy, that’s domination. If she asks you, it’s a favor.

If you appreciate the female form and frilly underwear, you are a pervert. If you don’t, you are gay.

If you like a woman to shave her legs and keep in shape, you are sexist. If you don’t, you are unromantic.

If you try to keep yourself in shape, you are vain. If you don’t, you are a slob.

If you buy her flowers, you are after something. If you don’t, you are not thoughtful.

If you’re proud of your achievements, you are full of yourself. If you’re not, you have no ambition.

If she has a headache, she is tired; if you have a headache, you are gay.

If you want it too often, you are oversexed. If you don’t, you’re gay.

--Gene Simmons
Sex, Money, Kiss

yes I would say that make sense

 

[JaegerPilot217]

You're right about not having to like it or enjoy it but look what that attitude is getting you.



Exactly. Anyone who says that women have it easier is projecting the mindset of a man onto a woman. Ugly women, b!tchy women, lazy women, women with no life, these women aren't getting what they want. Sure they might be getting far more sex and relationships than the male equivalent but there's no way in hell they're satisfied with what they're getting. A high quality man wouldn't even bother with these type of women beyond a pump and dump.

I can't fathom why any man would want to play the passive role. Imagine going through life having a few attractive but mostly unattractive women offering you a relationship with no sex. The ones that do offer you sex the sex is only mildly satisfying. This is the supposedly easier life of women. A woman wants a relationship with the highest value man she can find. Propositions from hordes of thirsty dudes is practically meaningless. Being pumped and dumped by alphas isn't completely satisfying. To top it all off women have little power to change this fate. Their best strategy is to be as pretty as possible and hope Prince Charming rides in to snatch her away to happily ever after. Even if women did have it easier crying about it isn't going to solve a damn thing. We are men. If we get up off our asses, grab our balls and do what needs to be done then we'll find success. It may not be easy but nothing worth achieving is ever easy. Negative mindsets solve nothing.

Women can be low value and still get laid from a high value guy

 

[Vantagepoint34]

yes I would say that make sense

I was about to say for you to write a book! But the guy that wrote it did LOL

 

[JaegerPilot217]

I would say only the good looking young women have it the easiest

 

[namismybabe]

Depends.

In some areas they do, in some areas we do. it's how the human species is.

A positive attitude goes a long way in life. And how we see things is often most important in getting what we want.

Life isn't fair, and deserve is relative. If others ARE getting guys, then on SOME level they have something or are doing something you are not, even if it's on a good or bad level.

Also, sometimes in life we have to think "is it me, or is it the others?" take responsibility for your own life, and don't blame others for things if you can see you are at fault.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Depends.

In some areas they do, in some areas we do. it's how the human species is.

A positive attitude goes a long way in life. And how we see things is often most important in getting what we want.

Life isn't fair, and deserve is relative. If others ARE getting guys, then on SOME level they have something or are doing something you are not, even if it's on a good or bad level.

Also, sometimes in life we have to think "is it me, or is it the others?" take responsibility for your own life, and don't blame others for things if you can see you are at fault.

And women don't have to take responsibility, only men do, and even though JoeMarron is right on how those good looking young women are not satisfied with what they are getting, since they desire and want the high quality high desirable man, but still even when those women end up with those type of "right guys" for them, they didn't need any confidence or need to have their **** together, have a life, be a good conversationalist, they didn't need high self esteem or goals, ambitions, be well rounded, etc., in order to get that high quality guy

 

[JaegerPilot217]

You're right about not having to like it or enjoy it but look what that attitude is getting you.



Exactly. Anyone who says that women have it easier is projecting the mindset of a man onto a woman. Ugly women, b!tchy women, lazy women, women with no life, these women aren't getting what they want. Sure they might be getting far more sex and relationships than the male equivalent but there's no way in hell they're satisfied with what they're getting. A high quality man wouldn't even bother with these type of women beyond a pump and dump.

I can't fathom why any man would want to play the passive role. Imagine going through life having a few attractive but mostly unattractive women offering you a relationship with no sex. The ones that do offer you sex the sex is only mildly satisfying. This is the supposedly easier life of women. A woman wants a relationship with the highest value man she can find. Propositions from hordes of thirsty dudes is practically meaningless. Being pumped and dumped by alphas isn't completely satisfying. To top it all off women have little power to change this fate. Their best strategy is to be as pretty as possible and hope Prince Charming rides in to snatch her away to happily ever after. Even if women did have it easier crying about it isn't going to solve a damn thing. We are men. If we get up off our asses, grab our balls and do what needs to be done then we'll find success. It may not be easy but nothing worth achieving is ever easy. Negative mindsets solve nothing.

you say a woman wants a relationship with the highest value man she can find, well those women do end up in those relationships, why do you think they chose all of their ex-boyfriends Duh!?!?!?!? and she didn't have to have jack**** going for her in her life, she just had to be hot, cute, pretty, look good, be hot, nothing else going for her, zero, nada, zilch, none of it!, meanwhile men have to be the whole god damned package!