So I haven't had a girlfriend since February though I've had sex. I been trying to remain single but I feeling a little down. I know my ex who got me locked up has a boyfriend now I've been so tempted to go to her Facebook profile or tell her I miss her but I've been holding strong. Have not messaged her 0 peaks at her Facebook. I have seen her on Pof because she viewed me but I deleted that account. All I've been doing is working out as a hobby I will add meditation and find other hobbies. Bottom line is I'm feeling depressed as hell I miss affection I miss regular sex I miss kissing as but I don't miss fights being broke kissing as etc.
Trying to hold Strong
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NSX-R
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Spin more plates.
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What did she get you locked up for? Any domestic related stuff? The spin plates thing may sound harsh but it's true. No ones going to knock on your door and profess their undying love for your. You're going to have to get back on it and ride into the next cathouse. Saddle up.
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The word "trying" simply gives you advance permission to fail.
RangerMIke
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Understand that the reason she fell out of love with you is that she lost respect for you. Going back and begging her to take you back will not help the root cause of your break-up. When women leave men, it's because she no longer loves him... respect is what keeps a woman in love with you... no respect = no love.
Walk away and never look back, start dating other women, you are not going to feel like hitting up other women, but you have to do this.
Walk away and never look back, start dating other women, you are not going to feel like hitting up other women, but you have to do this.
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This I do think she lost mad respect for me I was jobless for a little bit and just let myself go and I stopped talking to females which kept on her on her toes no I really don't want to talk to anyone else or even try I want to get myself together but me n this girl have a daughter together. I guess I need a little more time to focus on myself. Anyway I haven't failed and I barely talk about her.
You need to learn to be happy without women. I've been single for a while and I had to learn. Never go back to an ex. She is an ex for a reason. The holidays can make people feel more lonely then usual, so that could have something to do with it. Just stay strong.
Well it was a domestic thing she said I got her I was like did I??? They gave me 6 months because I went to trial and lost. Anyway that's all besides the point. I've been trying to get into better shape and been lifting weights walking everyday and trying to eat a little better. Think I'll start up Brazilian jiujitsu to keep me busy.