insanity
Master Don Juan
my wife recently graduated from college with honors in accounting. the problem is, we came home hoping to visit for a month and a half and then start out into phase 2 of our lives- finding work. but we hit a snag. everytime we had plans to do this or go there...it was always greeted by put downs. everybody always complains thats not a good idea when you have a kid. as new parents we do have our childs best in mind but it's hard to make our own decsions when everybody keeps butting in.
for example we have no income coming in right now because my hometown there is nothing here for either me and my wife. sure we have rent free, bill free right now but i want our own money being generated. it sucks.
i have listened to advice from everybody and i am still stuck where i am. my parents mentioned that my wife should email companies around new brunswick and schedule interviews and she has had a few here and there. but after the interviews she gets no call backs and she is pretty skilled at interviews.
i even looked the other day on the job bank and some of the companies that my wife had interviews with were back looking for accountants. i think one of the reasons may be, they are looking for someone in the same locality. we would move there in a heartbeat if she got a job but i think most employees look for someone who can start monday and not wait for someone to get an apartment and settle in.
plus it sucks having to drive back and forth, back and forth for interviews for her. we live 2 hours from every place that is hiring. also most times it's just for 1 interview so we have to choose correctly. it really sucks when the next day another job posting shows up in the same city because we were just there and it is tiring driving all the time. i would rather set up camp somewhere and when a job comes up she could pounce on it quickly.
am i just being impatient. i really would love to have my private life back with my wife and my child.
for example we have no income coming in right now because my hometown there is nothing here for either me and my wife. sure we have rent free, bill free right now but i want our own money being generated. it sucks.
i have listened to advice from everybody and i am still stuck where i am. my parents mentioned that my wife should email companies around new brunswick and schedule interviews and she has had a few here and there. but after the interviews she gets no call backs and she is pretty skilled at interviews.
i even looked the other day on the job bank and some of the companies that my wife had interviews with were back looking for accountants. i think one of the reasons may be, they are looking for someone in the same locality. we would move there in a heartbeat if she got a job but i think most employees look for someone who can start monday and not wait for someone to get an apartment and settle in.
plus it sucks having to drive back and forth, back and forth for interviews for her. we live 2 hours from every place that is hiring. also most times it's just for 1 interview so we have to choose correctly. it really sucks when the next day another job posting shows up in the same city because we were just there and it is tiring driving all the time. i would rather set up camp somewhere and when a job comes up she could pounce on it quickly.
am i just being impatient. i really would love to have my private life back with my wife and my child.