Ive been on several online sites as a backup to my regular sarging but have always stumbled on the same problem which perhaps anyone of you who has experience can help me understand. Why is it after a woman initiates, shows interest and makes an effort to know you, almost always flakes after you aknowledge her.
Perfect example: An attractive hot latin MILF sends me a wink on match. Not acting needy I send her an email several days later with my phone number. She calls the next day. We have a pleasant but short conversation and she lets me know that she is interested. Actually, I cut the conversation short leaving her wanting more. She tells me to call her soon. I call her a couple of days later. She texts me that she is working but will call me that same night. That was almost a week ago.
I get about 20 winks and 10 unsolicited emails a month on match alone. Out of those maybe 10 percent I would consider women I would date. But it seems that when I acknowledge the ones I like almost all of them flake.
Some constantly complliment me on my looks saying how good looking, even gorgeous I look, but they dont want to meet up. Some of them stalk me online that is I can get multiple views suggesting that they are keen to me but they dont follow through. I even think some of them masturbate with my image because they seem to view me mostly late at night multiple times!
But why dont they just agree to meet! Is it fear, insecurity?
I also have an active profile on POF. I am having similar issues there too.
Can any experienced online dating cowboy enlighten me on what if anything Im doing wrong?
Perfect example: An attractive hot latin MILF sends me a wink on match. Not acting needy I send her an email several days later with my phone number. She calls the next day. We have a pleasant but short conversation and she lets me know that she is interested. Actually, I cut the conversation short leaving her wanting more. She tells me to call her soon. I call her a couple of days later. She texts me that she is working but will call me that same night. That was almost a week ago.
I get about 20 winks and 10 unsolicited emails a month on match alone. Out of those maybe 10 percent I would consider women I would date. But it seems that when I acknowledge the ones I like almost all of them flake.
Some constantly complliment me on my looks saying how good looking, even gorgeous I look, but they dont want to meet up. Some of them stalk me online that is I can get multiple views suggesting that they are keen to me but they dont follow through. I even think some of them masturbate with my image because they seem to view me mostly late at night multiple times!
But why dont they just agree to meet! Is it fear, insecurity?
I also have an active profile on POF. I am having similar issues there too.
Can any experienced online dating cowboy enlighten me on what if anything Im doing wrong?
