Trying to bag two friends

[Pimp-ish]

I have an interesting situation on my hands..

I have been messing around with this girl..we'll call her Monica (HB 7). Everything seemed to be going pretty well, and she likes to play it off like she's some sort of DJ herself, joking that she's only using me for ass and that she's talking to other guys (which doesn't bother me in the least bit). I sort of have a rep as a "pimp" because some of my AFC friends blew me up cuz of a party we went to last week (They don't know that I'm talking to her), which actually has raised her IL.

Everything is going fine until I meet this fine ass girl (we'll call her Amy HB9) at a club yesterday. We start freaking on the dance floor, and I'm biting her ear, kissing up on her neck..the whole deal. I later find out that she goes to the same school and knows Monica's best friend. And she apparently knows me, because when I mention my name, her eyes get wide and says "I've heard about you." At the party, both Monica's best friend and one of my AFC friends who blows my **** up see me freaking her. I bag the number and leave.

I talk to Monica the next day, and I figure I might as well mention her name (Mistake #1) before her friend or one of my boys says something and blow it up further. She starts grilling me as to how I know her, so I tell her exactly, thinking wtf... we are not going out so it doesn't matter. Her coolness drops in a hot second and she's already catching feelings and is jealous. I just start laughing and just tell her to relax, I just wanted to know who she was. She seems calm about it, but calls me later telling me that she's with "my favorite person" and just getting more and more jealous about it. Eventually, I tell her to stfu and that I have that chick's number and if I want to call her, I will. (Mistake #2, losing my cool).

Amy knows that I'm messing around with her and she continued to dance with me, Monica's friend didn't tell Monica anything, and neither did my friend. I'm thinking about calling Amy tmrw (*67 of course), and finding out exactly what is going on. From what I hear, all three of them are friends, and they do chill together, so I plan on calling a little early so both Monica and Amy are not together when I call.

What do you guys think of the whole scenario? Did I screw things up? Is it salvageable? And is it possible to get both? Amy is def the hotter one, and she hasn't give me the jealous bit yet.. so if I HAVE to choose one, then I'll choose her. But I'm greedy and want both..

Oh, and for those who don't quite know the obvious.. Hoes hang out with hoes.. if you hook up with a hoe, make sure you get to know her friends!

 

[Player_Supreme]

You know what I like about your post...it's how you pointed out your mistakes and you knew what they were.

Good work pi jr.

 

[Pimp-ish]

Thanks, player.. I'm always learning the game so it doesn't help me to think I'm always right and never to admit my mistakes.

I've seen your posts and see that you definitely know what you're talking about. There are two ways to avoid making mistakes in the future: wisdom from others, and by your own experience.

I'm looking for your wisdom in this situation. Is there any insight you can give me?

 

[Krassus]

If you have to choose, go with the best because you'll regret settling for second best.

 

[Pimp-ish]

I see what you're saying..

I gave Amy a call last night and we talked for about 20 minutes. I did the whole "fluff" talk routine, then asked her how close she was to Monica, to which she replied, "she's like my second half." I think I played it pretty cool and said that for right now we should just talk and then we'll see what happens. She agreed.

I tried to gain her trust by telling her that I was "talking" to Monica, but it wasn't serious and I would see where things are going. (I'm sure she knew all this). I also stated that keeping a friendship with Monica is very important because I don't want to invest time in a relationship only to not be able to talk to her afterwards. She seemed relieved by this, so she doesn't think I'm an a$$hole who tries to hit on everyone.

Since they are pretty close, I kept it brief and very cool just in case they do talk a bit. Monica did leave me a message last night, so they may have talked. I will call her back tonight and again keep it cool.

I know Amy is the hotter one, but I think it should be relatively safe for me to pursue Monica, get ass for a little bit and then break it off, wait for a while and then pursue Amy.

Any comments? Oh, and I am going to work on other girls just in case this blows up in my face.

 

[Duff]

Dude get on the 3som. Its works best with hoes that r mates i swear. They still get jealous but so what they r hoes! You have to go out with both of them. Go to the club they visit alot or something and work on them both at the same time. Don't do it sneakily tho!

Of course if they aint hoes dont do this.

 

[Pimp-ish]

Duff,

I totally understand what you are saying. Ultimately, that is my goal but I understand it will be difficult to pull off.

I talked to Monica the other day and I told her that "jealous" bit wasn't going to work with me and it had caused my IL to go down. She told me she was just teasing me, and that she just thought it was weird that out of all the people I could meet, I met her friend. She also said that if I do talk to her friend, there's nothing she can do about it.

Honestly, I definitely think they are hoes, but their ASD is pretty high. The way I'm taking it right now is that I'll work Monica, then work Amy, and then bring up the idea of the threesome. If I do it too quickly, they'll quickly shun the idea. I need to preheat the oven before I try to cook up a scheme.

Any thoughts on people who have experience with this?

 

[xblitz44x]

If you're goal is here is to continue to date both of them, at the same time, forget about it. It's going to blow up in your face eventually. If they both REALLY like you enough to fvck you without a relationship, then they won't be able to take their close friend as competition. All KINDS of insecurity will leak out and it'll get messy. If you want, you can play with it until it blows up but just know that it's going to be a matter of time.

"Amy is def the hotter one, and she hasn't give me the jealous bit yet.. so if I HAVE to choose one, then I'll choose her."

I found this interesting. Realize that the REASON that she is the "hotter" one is because you JUST met her and she hasn't had time to fvck up and be jealous or show whatever other insecurity she may have. Give it some time before you "choose". I suggest fooling around for awhile, get to know them both, then right before it explodes choose one and get out of there alive.

-Blitz

 

[Duff]

Wait a minute u told her that your IL went down????? u tell girls those things??? i never they kinda figure it out for themselves

 

[Pimp-ish]

Very interesting analysis, Blitz. I don't want to date either one of them honestly, just get ass. But because of culture, social upbringing, etc. regardless of how hoe-ish they might be, I still have to put effort and show interest to get into their panties.

My plan is to talk (I prefer that to date) to Monica right now. Once I get ass, which hopefully shouldn't be too long, because her IL seems to be high, I should have a greater advantage. Then I will kick in the gears with Amy and turn the "friendly" conversation into more sexual conversation. Then try to do the same with her.

Realize that the REASON that she is the "hotter" one is because you JUST met her and she hasn't had time to fvck up and be jealous or show whatever other insecurity she may have. Give it some time before you "choose"

That is very true. I will hold off on that, but based on looks alone, I would have to go with Amy. I will see how unattractive her insecurities make her look.

Wait a minute u told her that your IL went down?????

I did, but not in those words. My exact words were "Your jealous bit made me rethink the whole situation. I was questioning whether I should still pursue your or not", to which she snapped back into reality and claimed she was just joking and that if I wanted to talk to Amy that there was nothing she could/would do about it.

Honestly, I'm having fun with this right now. If it does start getting crazy, then I'll just exit out.