Try to help me maintain frame with current gf

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I thought about this thread when I was having sex this morning... and isn't that what it's all about?, thinking of your sosuave brothers during sex and real life moments, it really increases the sense of comrodary and brotherhood... but anyways, back to my story

So I go see this chick after I get off work, and I'm hitting her from the back and her booty is bouncing all over the place, it's like jello. It looked so good that I couldn't contain myself, and I bust really fast. Now I'm thinking to myself, I'M NOT GOING OUT LIKE OP, HELL NO, I REFUSE

so I keep going and surprisingly I was able to get back hard easy and pound her a good long time on the second nut. I left thinking like damn should I do porn?... so yea man up and keep going OP

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

that’s the thing I don’t want to have to ask a girl to give me head. I like a girl that does it without asking

I like to instruct. Comply or bye. I also don't ever go down on these sluts. Not ever. SRS! I have never. Won't ever. I still expect throater. I agree with AMS. Granted this is your gf.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Most women cannot orgasm from PinV intercourse alone. 10% have never climaxed in their entire lives.

Get good with your fingers and G-spots. Make sure there's a lot of foreplay.

This is true not that I care. As long as I get mine. A better play is ejaculate and evacuate before she tries to get accidentally on purpose pregnancy.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Exactly what I do and she just gets mad. I do agree all women leave at some point. But you don’t wanna spin plates forever the **** gets old. It’s time consuming. I get tired of playing the game

I do. Really.

Me ^^^^ thinking about the same vjj. Monogamy disgusts me. It's so soft and weakkkkk. More so when you see most fellas play house when her milks gone bad.

Big ups on 21. I swear every thread the girls are like 30. Gross!

Sounds like feelers are kicking in bud. Might coincide with the overkill effort. When overly invested, it don't end well.

Tbh, you probably need to get out with the boys and get more girls just cause. I don't do monogamy. I get most guys do. Not saying cheat even. Just keep skills sharp.

Hate it or love it. This won't be the last girl you pound rotten. No matter how hot, there's some bloke who's sick of shagging her.

 

[captain55]

For a woman to talk like that, she...

a) already lacks respect for you, and
b) likely has a lot of mileage

The problem is she’s too freaky sometimes. Not in a receptive way but an out of control way. When she rides me it’s not in a sexy controlled manner it’s out of control humping. I’ve ****ed the **** out of her a few times for her pleasure and she loves it. Problem is I’m not into that. When I have to **** a girl so hard I feel like it’s a job it takes the pleasure out for me. Hoping she comes around. I just want nice healthy sex sometimes. Not like I have to break this girl in half and last for 20 minutes every time we bang

 

[captain55]

I do. Really.

Me ^^^^ thinking about the same vjj. Monogamy disgusts me. It's so soft and weakkkkk. More so when you see most fellas play house when her milks gone bad.

Big ups on 21. I swear every thread the girls are like 30. Gross!

Sounds like feelers are kicking in bud. Might coincide with the overkill effort. When overly invested, it don't end well.

Tbh, you probably need to get out with the boys and get more girls just cause. I don't do monogamy. I get most guys do. Not saying cheat even. Just keep skills sharp.

Hate it or love it. This won't be the last girl you pound rotten. No matter how hot, there's some bloke who's sick of shagging her.

I won’t even look at a girl over 30 unless she’s in great shape and works out like crazy and has a huge ass. I prefer thicker taller women but if a girl is under 25 I will get with her strictly if she’s beautiful even if she’s petite and not my type. My current chick is 5’4 with double d tits but doesn’t have the big hips and ass that I love but I compromise because her face is gorgeous and she’s young.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I won’t even look at a girl over 30 unless she’s in great shape and works out like crazy and has a huge ass. I prefer thicker taller women but if a girl is under 25 I will get with her strictly if she’s beautiful even if she’s petite and not my type. My current chick is 5’4 with double d tits but doesn’t have the big hips and ass that I love but I compromise because her face is gorgeous and she’s young.

I don't like thick. Women bulk fast. women got a shorter shelf life. 21 though playboy? big ups. Just reframe from pedestal treatment (going down, overkill fir her orgasm , not getting a bj). it won't end well. 21 or 18. it don't matter. She needs to be in your frame.

 

[captain55]

I don't like thick. Women bulk fast. women got a shorter shelf life. 21 though playboy? big ups. Just reframe from pedestal treatment (going down, overkill fir her orgasm , not getting a bj). it won't end well. 21 or 18. it don't matter. She needs to be in your frame.

So how do I bring up the head thing to her without potentially ending the relationship? I’ve been doing it my way lately **** I thought the sex was great until she said something. I feel like she’s losing interest or is looking at me as selfish. I eat her out, then **** the **** out of her for 5 minutes and *** and I’m good. She gets pissed

 

[EyeBRollin]

So how do I bring up the head thing to her without potentially ending the relationship? I’ve been doing it my way lately **** I thought the sex was great until she said something. I feel like she’s losing interest or is looking at me as selfish. I eat her out, then **** the **** out of her for 5 minutes and *** and I’m good. She gets pissed

This is misplaced concern my guy. Stop worrying about pleasing her; she should be pleasing you. It’s her job to receive you. Don’t focus so much on the penetrative sex. You gotta let her arousal build. It sounds like you’re being a horny teenager.

Take her out on a date. Have a nice glass of wine. Let her come to you and initiate the touch. When you get back to the spot try giving her a massage. Be heavy handed with it; let her feel your strength. Then slowly build escalation. kiss her neck and explore her spots. Whisper sweet shvt in her ear. You gotta chill out my guy...

It’s not about what you do physically to a women.. it’s the experience.

 

[metalwater]

pull away some; emotionally.

she wants to fck, you want to make love. doesn't sound like she submits to you and you notice that.
she wants to orgasm and isn't as concerned about you; sounds selfish and not submissive. this will bleed over to everything or already has. girl getting pissed about sex not being good enough is an electric red flag for so many reasons. she sees herself above you.

you can not fix this for a relationship.

for the sex, cialis can in some cases extend the time to end. low test can equal fast ejac in some cases, any chance of that get checked. your not that old, but it is possible.

 

[captain55]

Well guys, Thanks for the advice from everyone. today her attitude was different. She gave me head and was much more helpful. I think she felt bad for what she said last week about “not wanting this sex life.”

she got on top at first, I blew my load in about 2-3 minutes. She was pissed. But ten minutes later was able to get hard again and **** the **** out of her. 20 minutes later I flipped her over and pounded her doggy for a solid 20 minutes.

Was it my all time best performance? No, but a solid 7 in terms of my life as a Don Juan. Years of being a player I grew accustomed to condoms. Lasting long with a hot 21 year old raw is a difficult feat.

I am overall proud of my performance and can at least hold my head up high. She was screaming like crazy, if she says she’s not satisfied after that than I don’t care I’m happy with myself

 

[EyeBRollin]

why does she refuse to use condoms?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I recently pulled this Bad little 21 year old. She is fine as hell. Unfortunately she is so tight that I can barely fit in her, and after years of using condoms I can’t last long enough in bed with her to get her off raw dogging. I am well endowed so I feel like I’m literally all show no go right now.

I tried talking to her about condoms she refuses. She is more difficult to get to orgasm than any other girl I have ever been with I can’t get her off with my fingers either. She told me the other day she “doesn’t want this sex life” and she was sexually frustrated with her last two boyfriends for years...she doesn’t like giving head either. I feel like she just expects me to be a sex machine.

I pulled back slightly ...but Interest level still seems high. She still initiates things with me. But I feel like if I can’t learn to last longer with her I’m going to lose her.

what do I do fellas?

You need to up your game. Your abilities are lacking in this area.

 

[captain55]

You need to up your game. Your abilities are lacking in this area.

you act like it’s so easy. You don’t think I would give anything to be able to last 15-20 minutes in her first time around? Trust me I’ve tried everything. Condoms are out too she doesn’t want me using one. Condoms change the ball game

 

[LiveYourDream]

but honestly man she is literally perfect in every other way.Yeah I’ve had better sex but as long as it’s good I’m fine. I’m 28 and want kids, not trying to spin plates forever

Condoms are out too she doesn’t want me using one.

@captain55 I say this from a place of caring—Be careful. Do not accidentally get her pregnant.

Children are in your life forever, as is their mother. This girl is your current infatuation. That does not make her the woman best to raise and guide your children through life. Think with your bigger head about that.

I understand that you like the happily ever after fantasy, of she’s perfect and the two of you could have kids together. Don’t let that fantasy misguide you.

You do not have a healthy LTR foundation with her (yet). If she became pregnant and you two fell out, she’d likely get custody of your child and become their primary caregiver.

Becoming a single Dad, with visitation only, while paying child support is challenging beyond words.

She’s 21. She’s doesn’t want you to use condoms. You agree not to. You cvm quick. You could be playing a dangerous roulette.

Be careful. I just don’t want to see you end up as another single Dad, who never imagined it would happen to them.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

you act like it’s so easy. You don’t think I would give anything to be able to last 15-20 minutes in her first time around? Trust me I’ve tried everything. Condoms are out too she doesn’t want me using one. Condoms change the ball game

Try this. When you feel it building up, just pull out and start kissing her, licking her body, fingering her etc for about 5 minutes or so and then go back to it. If you do this properly enough times you will kind of desensitize yourself to the point you may not be able to cvm for a while or maybe not at all

 

[captain55]

Try this. When you feel it building up, just pull out and start kissing her, licking her body, fingering her etc for about 5 minutes or so and then go back to it. If you do this properly enough times you will kind of desensitize yourself to the point you may not be able to cvm for a while or maybe not at all

Did that with her last week when I really started pounding her. Had to slow down a little bit when I was pounding the **** out of her. She got furious

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Did that with her last week when I really started pounding her. Had to slow down a little bit when I was pounding the **** out of her. She got furious

Then start jackhammering her with your fingers. Assert your dominance. You are in control, not her. Make her feel that because she doesn't right now.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

@captain55
Don't jack off for a few days or a week or even two weeks and hold her off, then you should have the primal energy built up to fuuck her brains out. Let her tease you and tease her back but keep pushing it off and build the tension. Then when you're feeling particularly aggressive release it with a nice hard fuuck fest.

 

[captain55]

Took out the big guns. Popped 50mg of viagra ****ed the ***** until she couldn’t walk. Made her orgasm 3 times. Now I hate viagra, I hate how it makes me feel. If she wakes up tomorrow not remembering any of the sex we had I am done with her