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Senior Don Juan
I've been thinking about this for a long time and it's finally manifested into this thread.
This may seem fairly unorganized because I'm just taking thoughts and writing them down in no particular order.
Slu7s and players
All humans are hard-wired to have sex and therefore reproduce as much as possible.
It's a biological truth that every girl is a slu7 and every guy is a player.
Women have on average 400 eggs in their life, which is an unlimited supply up until menopause between age 40 - 50.
Men average 170 million sperm per day - assuming they have two testicles .
Therefore, it's biologically OK for men to sleep around and for women.
Girl friends
Stop thinking that you're going to find the perfect girl for you by simply looking for girl friend material.
You'll never find the perfect girl - this has been discussed.
In fact, the best way to find a girl friend is to sleep around.
She needs to know that you are good material for her eggs and I'm not just talking about physical traits that the girl would like to mix with her DNA.
The best way to do that is to sex her and show her that you're a successful male who appreciates the value of selective reproduction.
Even if you're using a condom, the subtext to every fornication is that she's accepted that you're good genetic material and that is why you're having sex.
It has nothing to do with emotion; it has nothing to do with being horny, but everything to do with primal biology.
With this being said, stop trying to have a closed relationship.
Do not ask her to be exclusive.
Let her fuc7 around with other guys whilst you fuc7 around with other girls.
It's the only way to be sure that she is satisfied with you and you to her, alone.
This is why people often say, "Let her ask you out." which is true, but limiting.
I say, you can ask her out if you think she's already satisfied with you.
This is why girls cheat because you never let them compare and pick you - you never let her choose you; she only said yes because she wanted to compare you and other guys whilst you were dating.
Your head is probably spinning, but stay with me - I'm about to attempt to prove this.
Last night I went to my friend's family reunion and I met a lot of girls with boy friends and husbands there, yet they were all over me.
They touched my inner thigh whilst they told me how good their husband was.
She kissed my cheek whilst she told me how amazing her boy friend was.
Finally, she kissed my lips whilst she told me how she wished we could date.
This is an example of surface level conversation.
On the surface she is being friendly and trying to acknowledge her love for her partner, but below she wants me and can't due to social laws - due to her partner being 'good', but biologically unsatisfying and what that means is simple.
Her boy friend simply didn't establish that he was her match - that he should be the keeper of her eggs alone.
As I mentioned before, all you need to do is have an open relationship, so that you both get the comparing out of the way before it happens during the relationship.
Surface level conversation is very interesting, but advanced, so by all means skip this if you think it's going to make you too analytical to have fun with women.
Boy
Girl
Surface meaning
Implied meaning
Hello, you.
Hey.
Bet you've been having fun.
Just been sitting in my PJs and talking on MSN
Sounds very fun.
Let's translate this shall we?
Hello, you.
I'm just greeting her casually.
The use of 'you' is emphatic and therefore subtle flirting.
Hey.
She's being casual.
The one word reply possibly indicates she's in a bad mood or that she sees you as a low value person that doesn't deserve her full acknowledgment.
Bet you've been having fun.
I'm curious as to what you've been doing.
Assuming she's been having fun is implying she's a fun person. It's also a very subtle reference to something naughty. It also implies that she's childish as having fun is generally childish. Add this all together and I'm flirting very subtly. Lastly, assuming she's having fun in particular - rather than just ask her what she's doing - is assuming she's in a good mood.
Just been sitting in my PJs and talking on MSN
She's being friendly because you took an interest in what she's been doing and subtly complimented her on being a fun person.
A frame shift just occurred. You've invoked her interest now and she's no longer giving one word replies. By assuming she was having fun, she kind of had to go along with it because it's poor social conduct to break the vibe.
My friend is here; talk later.
Ah-yes, where was I?
Doesn't matter; I'm not in the same place any more.
Any way, I've had a bit to drink and I find my ideas flow more freely, but they come with spelling mistakes so bare with me.
I'm also sacrificing some girl time for you boys so at least take me on board.
Any way, I'm going to go into more detail.
Reality
We've discussed how the human population literally exists because of sex, but how does this exactly make reality any better?
This is a hard one because at the moment you guys aren't exactly living in reality.
If I'm right, this should pretty much be spot on.
You guys realize that most women are untrustworthy because you've been hurt a lot in the past, yet the idea that you'll find that one girls that acts outside of the game crosses your minds frequently.
Spot on? Yes, no, doesn't matter because this is true for the majority, so I hope to be of some help.
You see, most people go through life wanting to find that one amazing girl, but what they don't seem to realize is that you probably aren't amazing enough for her.
Every one's standards are high.
Every one looks in magazines and wishes they could **** that stunning girl.
However, the cold hard truth is that the girl you so desire, well, she desires guys of that calibre too.
Fortunately for we ugly guys, what she desires isn't an adonis like male.
She simply desires the most biologically successful male and what it means to be successful is to already have success.
I can't stress enough how much it mean to get with a lot of women.
See, I even put that in itallics for fuck's sake.
Take this all in and I bet you had already heard of social proof.
Yet I doubt you with all your pride would actually go out and do that.
I genuinelly believe there's only two theories when it comes to this and they are as follows:
1. Sleep with all the girls you can and I mean all, so that you may be successful and well developed for 'the one',
2. Don't sleep with any girls, so that 'the one' may be more special to you and you to her.
The only difference between the two is that number one is number one.
I will not advogate number 2 - it's literally shit.
I don't know any successful guy to ever pull off number two, so get this stupid shit out your head and once again swallow your pride.
Sleep with fat chicks.
Sleep with ****ing everyone.
Yeah you heard that right and unless you're already successful with women, you have no other options.
Unless you can already get decent chicks, you have no other options.
Now, it's back to the girls, boys.
I hope this made sense some what.
I'll write more when I have the time.
This may seem fairly unorganized because I'm just taking thoughts and writing them down in no particular order.
Slu7s and players
All humans are hard-wired to have sex and therefore reproduce as much as possible.
It's a biological truth that every girl is a slu7 and every guy is a player.
Women have on average 400 eggs in their life, which is an unlimited supply up until menopause between age 40 - 50.
Men average 170 million sperm per day - assuming they have two testicles .
Therefore, it's biologically OK for men to sleep around and for women.
Girl friends
Stop thinking that you're going to find the perfect girl for you by simply looking for girl friend material.
You'll never find the perfect girl - this has been discussed.
In fact, the best way to find a girl friend is to sleep around.
She needs to know that you are good material for her eggs and I'm not just talking about physical traits that the girl would like to mix with her DNA.
The best way to do that is to sex her and show her that you're a successful male who appreciates the value of selective reproduction.
Even if you're using a condom, the subtext to every fornication is that she's accepted that you're good genetic material and that is why you're having sex.
It has nothing to do with emotion; it has nothing to do with being horny, but everything to do with primal biology.
With this being said, stop trying to have a closed relationship.
Do not ask her to be exclusive.
Let her fuc7 around with other guys whilst you fuc7 around with other girls.
It's the only way to be sure that she is satisfied with you and you to her, alone.
This is why people often say, "Let her ask you out." which is true, but limiting.
I say, you can ask her out if you think she's already satisfied with you.
This is why girls cheat because you never let them compare and pick you - you never let her choose you; she only said yes because she wanted to compare you and other guys whilst you were dating.
Your head is probably spinning, but stay with me - I'm about to attempt to prove this.
Last night I went to my friend's family reunion and I met a lot of girls with boy friends and husbands there, yet they were all over me.
They touched my inner thigh whilst they told me how good their husband was.
She kissed my cheek whilst she told me how amazing her boy friend was.
Finally, she kissed my lips whilst she told me how she wished we could date.
This is an example of surface level conversation.
On the surface she is being friendly and trying to acknowledge her love for her partner, but below she wants me and can't due to social laws - due to her partner being 'good', but biologically unsatisfying and what that means is simple.
Her boy friend simply didn't establish that he was her match - that he should be the keeper of her eggs alone.
As I mentioned before, all you need to do is have an open relationship, so that you both get the comparing out of the way before it happens during the relationship.
Surface level conversation is very interesting, but advanced, so by all means skip this if you think it's going to make you too analytical to have fun with women.
Boy
Girl
Surface meaning
Implied meaning
Hello, you.
Hey.
Bet you've been having fun.
Just been sitting in my PJs and talking on MSN
Sounds very fun.
Let's translate this shall we?
Hello, you.
I'm just greeting her casually.
The use of 'you' is emphatic and therefore subtle flirting.
Hey.
She's being casual.
The one word reply possibly indicates she's in a bad mood or that she sees you as a low value person that doesn't deserve her full acknowledgment.
Bet you've been having fun.
I'm curious as to what you've been doing.
Assuming she's been having fun is implying she's a fun person. It's also a very subtle reference to something naughty. It also implies that she's childish as having fun is generally childish. Add this all together and I'm flirting very subtly. Lastly, assuming she's having fun in particular - rather than just ask her what she's doing - is assuming she's in a good mood.
Just been sitting in my PJs and talking on MSN
She's being friendly because you took an interest in what she's been doing and subtly complimented her on being a fun person.
A frame shift just occurred. You've invoked her interest now and she's no longer giving one word replies. By assuming she was having fun, she kind of had to go along with it because it's poor social conduct to break the vibe.
My friend is here; talk later.
Ah-yes, where was I?
Doesn't matter; I'm not in the same place any more.
Any way, I've had a bit to drink and I find my ideas flow more freely, but they come with spelling mistakes so bare with me.
I'm also sacrificing some girl time for you boys so at least take me on board.
Any way, I'm going to go into more detail.
Reality
We've discussed how the human population literally exists because of sex, but how does this exactly make reality any better?
This is a hard one because at the moment you guys aren't exactly living in reality.
If I'm right, this should pretty much be spot on.
You guys realize that most women are untrustworthy because you've been hurt a lot in the past, yet the idea that you'll find that one girls that acts outside of the game crosses your minds frequently.
Spot on? Yes, no, doesn't matter because this is true for the majority, so I hope to be of some help.
You see, most people go through life wanting to find that one amazing girl, but what they don't seem to realize is that you probably aren't amazing enough for her.
Every one's standards are high.
Every one looks in magazines and wishes they could **** that stunning girl.
However, the cold hard truth is that the girl you so desire, well, she desires guys of that calibre too.
Fortunately for we ugly guys, what she desires isn't an adonis like male.
She simply desires the most biologically successful male and what it means to be successful is to already have success.
I can't stress enough how much it mean to get with a lot of women.
See, I even put that in itallics for fuck's sake.
Take this all in and I bet you had already heard of social proof.
Yet I doubt you with all your pride would actually go out and do that.
I genuinelly believe there's only two theories when it comes to this and they are as follows:
1. Sleep with all the girls you can and I mean all, so that you may be successful and well developed for 'the one',
2. Don't sleep with any girls, so that 'the one' may be more special to you and you to her.
The only difference between the two is that number one is number one.
I will not advogate number 2 - it's literally shit.
I don't know any successful guy to ever pull off number two, so get this stupid shit out your head and once again swallow your pride.
Sleep with fat chicks.
Sleep with ****ing everyone.
Yeah you heard that right and unless you're already successful with women, you have no other options.
Unless you can already get decent chicks, you have no other options.
Now, it's back to the girls, boys.
I hope this made sense some what.
I'll write more when I have the time.
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