Trust issues are reaping repercussions

[Giovanni SouthSide]

I just can’t trust her. My earned scars are turning this into bad faith.
She a good woman at heart. We got deep history from peak pandemic era 20-21. I recently reached out again after abandoning her and she was very receptive even after 2 years of no trace of me. She drove to my place and spent the weekend. it was euphoric. She naturally explores her femininity around me and it’s all sweetness and lights but my spidey sense says she a different creature when I disappear around the corner. Staking out for the highest bidder. Her excessive social media usage and constant profile picture swapping really splatters black paint on the canvas. Tainted goods. Orbiters are a given.
It’s wishful thinking to simmer down and LTR this chick just to hang the gloves for a while but her incongruencies and cracks in the mask don’t get past my gut. It’s intangible after she leaves.
I hope one day these trust issues inexplicably just abruptly end. l will just wake up one morning and it's gone. Its strange and I'll admit it ain’t the healthiest coping mechanism but knowing that helps me soldier through it.

 

[ManFromTartarus]

It’s wishful thinking

I think this is the most important statement you've made to yourself on this.
Trust is the most important factor in a LTR, without it there is nothing.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

All women have orbiters. If you cant handle that then you probably should not date any women and just become a monk.

The whole reason they are orbiters is because they aren't getting her pvssy.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

All women have orbiters. If you cant handle that then you probably should not date any women and just become a monk.

The whole reason they are orbiters is because they aren't getting her pvssy.

I rather not date women with orbiters.
Even if they not getting her fruits she be getting dopamine hits from the attention. Let it brew and the right guy will come along to snatch her up.
Like a long hauling fenty addict they got no foreseeable cure.
Your manhood will never be enough no matter how good you slay the pipe or keep gaming her.
No need to become a recluse just be emotionally detached for your own peace of mind. Fvck em mean and keen. Rinse and repeat.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

I like the long term play, my dude. Many attractive women have attachment issues and aren’t readily wanting to commit. You’re another orbiter at the end of the day, good that you had a good time with her.

Just enjoy what you have going and let it ride. Hot women know what they are worth and will use that to make you drop to one knee and be a simp for her. That is not who they want long term, they like the challenge, they love having the edge. Give her a bit, but when you give her it all, she will turn elsewhere.

It’s quite sad that these dynamics have to come into play for hotter chicks. For the regular Jane’s, the path is more straightforward for an LTR. Keep your nose sharp and stick to what kept her around in the first place

we just orbiters on a hit list. You got bumped to the top of the list because the other sucker started breathing down her neck heavily with emojis and on the other hand your mystery gave her the moisty tingles.
the same game that got her is the same game that keeps her. Swoopin in to bang and splash her organic fluids a few occasions, give her life advice and pulling the disappearing act is what keeps her on her heels unfortunately.
Their souls are in shambles.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I rather not date women with orbiters.
Even if they not getting her fruits she be getting dopamine hits from the attention. Let it brew and the right guy will come along to snatch her up.
Like a long hauling fenty addict they got no foreseeable cure.
Your manhood will never be enough no matter how good you slay the pipe or keep gaming her.
No need to become a recluse just be emotionally detached for your own peace of mind. Fvck em mean and keen. Rinse and repeat.

Those don't exist.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

I just can’t trust her. My earned scars are turning this into bad faith.
She a good woman at heart. We got deep history from peak pandemic era 20-21. I recently reached out again after abandoning her and she was very receptive even after 2 years of no trace of me. She drove to my place and spent the weekend. it was euphoric. She naturally explores her femininity around me and it’s all sweetness and lights but my spidey sense says she a different creature when I disappear around the corner. Staking out for the highest bidder. Her excessive social media usage and constant profile picture swapping really splatters black paint on the canvas. Tainted goods. Orbiters are a given.
It’s wishful thinking to simmer down and LTR this chick just to hang the gloves for a while but her incongruencies and cracks in the mask don’t get past my gut. It’s intangible after she leaves.
I hope one day these trust issues inexplicably just abruptly end. l will just wake up one morning and it's gone. Its strange and I'll admit it ain’t the healthiest coping mechanism but knowing that helps me soldier through it.

Keep her for entertainment for some time. If at one point, she asks for more, tell her your conditions to take her serious(delete her social media f.e.) and see how she reacts.

As for the orbiters, every woman worth fvcking twice has orbiters. They are her mechanic, finance adviser, insurence guy, craftsman, everyone that can be of use and get her a better deal..... the only question is how she interacts with them.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I think you're absolutely right not to trust her judgment to desire an LTR with an unstable untrustworthy man with trust issues.

 

[henrymiller50]

Just out of curiosity, what does she do specifically that makes you feel that you can't trust her? Is there anything else in addition to the social media usage and profile pic swapping?

 

[Deranged]

It sounds like you're getting tired want to hang the gloves for a while, even though you have enough insight and experience to see how this will end. You want to be a sucker for punishment for a while or what? Listen to your gut bro.

And what do you mean when you say "It’s intangible after she leaves."? Isn't that always how it always is unless your spying on her or something? Or you just trying to sound poetic?

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

I just can’t trust her. My earned scars are turning this into bad faith.
She a good woman at heart. We got deep history from peak pandemic era 20-21. I recently reached out again after abandoning her and she was very receptive even after 2 years of no trace of me. She drove to my place and spent the weekend. it was euphoric. She naturally explores her femininity around me and it’s all sweetness and lights but my spidey sense says she a different creature when I disappear around the corner. Staking out for the highest bidder. Her excessive social media usage and constant profile picture swapping really splatters black paint on the canvas. Tainted goods. Orbiters are a given.
It’s wishful thinking to simmer down and LTR this chick just to hang the gloves for a while but her incongruencies and cracks in the mask don’t get past my gut. It’s intangible after she leaves.
I hope one day these trust issues inexplicably just abruptly end. l will just wake up one morning and it's gone. Its strange and I'll admit it ain’t the healthiest coping mechanism but knowing that helps me soldier through it.

An unvaxxed chick is near impossible to find today.