Jaylan said:
And no, most women who I ever hear use the phrase "open minded", usually mean it in the way that they want to be around people who are without severe bias and judgement.
And considering you mentioned the only two frequent female posters this forum has, that proves my point....not many females post here at any given time. For the 100 or so guys who post here in a week, there are less than 10 women who post.
And I feel iqqi and CuriousGirl add useful opinions to the threads they post in. And other posters here I am sure feel so too. These two girls seem to have been well received by the forum, even though some dudes still try to dismiss their opinions because they are women.
Yeah because we al know we have to listen at women words and not look at their action...
I posted those two names cause they are the first two that came in my mind, I could easily recall a third one and maybe a fourth but this is not the place and most of all being internet full of fakes you never know whos a man and whos a woman or whos the FBI.
Open minded most of the cases in the mouth of people is simply an other passive shaming, you're an open minded guy when you do women stuff like cooking or changing diapers and we all know how women love this kind of men (heavy sarcasm detected) or you're open minded when you accept a stranger to come and give orders at your home, open mind about new cultures...they call it so.
In my experience being called open minded means you're either an easy lay if you're a girl or a wussy if you're a man, the words have a meaning the application have an other one, just like "equality".
Can you define what's an open minded man toward relationships in few words?
Is the same stuff I would say to girls to take down their anti-slvt defence, dont worry we're all open minded here sweety and right after I'm done I would look for a new prey.
While women complain about sexist arrogant closed minded men only to spread their legs for them, but you should know this better than me.
Anyway it's possible we have a different view on the subject being ourself so different, I mean of course your liberal backround and my conservative one nothing else.