The Exile
Don Juan
I've been on SoSuave for a couple of monthes, and have become better. However, there is one major problem- I have trouble approaching people.
Say a group of people are playing dominos and cards, which usually happens around the tables in my school. It feels awkward just to go up and say "hi" or something. This dosen't only apply to lunch times, but also to classrooms, malls, and i.e. everything.
Obviously, if we're sharing something, like both looking at the same thing, or studying the same material, there could be comments or questions that could lead to a conversation, but usually dosen't lead to much with me.
So my question is, how do you approach and be accepted in a group or even a single person that isn't directly involved in anything you are?
Say a group of people are playing dominos and cards, which usually happens around the tables in my school. It feels awkward just to go up and say "hi" or something. This dosen't only apply to lunch times, but also to classrooms, malls, and i.e. everything.
Obviously, if we're sharing something, like both looking at the same thing, or studying the same material, there could be comments or questions that could lead to a conversation, but usually dosen't lead to much with me.
So my question is, how do you approach and be accepted in a group or even a single person that isn't directly involved in anything you are?