tried to hit a waitress

[gongxia649]

i was in a restaurant with a bunch of friends yesterday. i made eye contact and smiles to the waitress, she smiled back. I approached.

me:hi, how are you?
waitress: fine
me: what is your name?
waitress: she shows me her name written on the tag.
me: my name is xxx. nice to meet you.
waitress: smiles
me: i want to take you for cofee sometimes. I will like to exchange email with you.
waitress: no (smiled)
me: that's cool. bye.

i guess she was shy or i didnt do this properly. any feedbacks will be appreciated.

 

[AngelusPUA]

Well you told her your name was XXX maybe that little sexual innuendo turned her off? or maybe its the fact that you hit her

 

[Docs]

Too fast, no rapport.

You have to TALK with her, joke with her, even coming back more then once, that's how you pickup the waitresses.

 

[Jariel]

Too fast, no rapport.

You have to TALK with her, joke with her, even coming back more then once, that's how you pickup the waitresses.

I agree.

You expected too much too soon.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Too fast, no rapport.

You have to TALK with her, joke with her, even coming back more then once, that's how you pickup the waitresses.

YEP...

Too fast; too soon.

Fast approaches only work when you insta vibe with a chick, it's like jedi seduction, and not intended for amateurs:woo:

Playa_Supreme has a post somewhere on here about letting the HO choose you, and it has some truth value, so read it.

 

[vorbis]

next time throw a left hook rather than a straight right jab

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

Did she press charges?

 

[piterx]

i did a similar thing..she had amazing (*)(*) , a girl in the mall : i was slower and i showed some rapport..and asked her number she became shy and said something like "i don't think so" it happened today..but i liked this..i wanna get rejected like this everyday-it is good to practice ^^ fails to success.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

i was in a restaurant with a bunch of friends yesterday. i made eye contact and smiles to the waitress, she smiled back. I approached.

me:hi, how are you?
waitress: fine
me: what is your name?
waitress: she shows me her name written on the tag.
me: my name is xxx. nice to meet you.
waitress: smiles
me: i want to take you for cofee sometimes. I will like to exchange email with you.
waitress: no (smiled)
me: that's cool. bye.

i guess she was shy or i didnt do this properly. any feedbacks will be appreciated.

This is a joke right???



PIMP

 

[DDevil]

Well you told her your name was XXX maybe that little sexual innuendo turned her off? or maybe its the fact that you hit her

:crackup:

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Too fast, no rapport.

You have to TALK with her, joke with her, even coming back more then once, that's how you pickup the waitresses.

Bingo!:yes:

 

[Distant Light]

i was in a restaurant with a bunch of friends yesterday. i made eye contact and smiles to the waitress, she smiled back. I approached.

me:hi, how are you?
waitress: fine
me: what is your name?
waitress: she shows me her name written on the tag.
me: my name is xxx. nice to meet you.
waitress: smiles
me: i want to take you for cofee sometimes. I will like to exchange email with you.
waitress: no (smiled)
me: that's cool. bye.

i guess she was shy or i didnt do this properly. any feedbacks will be appreciated.

Was this approach less than a min?

Anyway where was the attraction? You want str8 in trying to seek rapport which isn't recemmended. Remember a waitress is getting paid to be nice and friendly. (Higher Tips)

 

[gongxia649]

okok u dont need to put me down..i know all of u are great master dj..im just a newbie ok. so go easy on me

 

[Bvbidd]

i was in a restaurant with a bunch of friends yesterday. i made eye contact and smiles to the waitress, she smiled back. I approached.

me:hi, how are you?
waitress: fine
me: what is your name?
waitress: she shows me her name written on the tag.
me: my name is xxx. nice to meet you.
waitress: smiles
me: i want to take you for cofee sometimes. I will like to exchange email with you.
waitress: no (smiled)
me: that's cool. bye.

i guess she was shy or i didnt do this properly. any feedbacks will be appreciated.

What do you mean she was shy? What the fvck is this?

You just walked up to somebody and asked their name then wanted to exchange emails. Your not really a real person are you? Nobody is that clueless. That's not even really hitting on. No master dj on here just random guys commenting on how socially awkward that sounds.

The title is funny though.

 

[gongxia649]

so how should i have done?

 

[DarkLight]

in short: you should have... built something w. her there. Something worthy of her wanting to give you her email.
aka created Rapport (like everyone said)

Charm her, tease her, make her giggle, blush... anything.
Just create a fun lil bridge that would make her feel safe enough, as well as intrigued enough to allow the next step.

Voila'

 

[dreamxhenry_notAFC]

i was in a restaurant with a bunch of friends yesterday. i made eye contact and smiles to the waitress, she smiled back. I approached.

me:hi, how are you?
waitress: fine
me: what is your name?
waitress: she shows me her name written on the tag.
me: my name is xxx. nice to meet you.
waitress: smiles
me: i want to take you for cofee sometimes. I will like to exchange email with you.
waitress: no (smiled)
me: that's cool. bye.

i guess she was shy or i didnt do this properly. any feedbacks will be appreciated.

As what the other memebers say too fast,too soon,come on dude your not gonna get her email or information that quick,unless your vibe was REAL high or she is a "hoe" then it would have worked.But dude you should have talked to her for couple minutes,it has NOTHING to do with your newbie,its called COMMON SENSE,go search it,because YOU NEED IT.

 

[Reloaded]

Roffl! Owned.

 

[xblitz44x]

I want to be the first to say GOOD JOB walking up to her and asking for her e-mail. You did what 80% of these dudes are absolutely petrified of doing. You walked up to a woman whom interested you, and you took a shot. If you are willing to do that then you will progress rapidly and will have no trouble meeting women with just a bit of practice. Way to go and don't let people bring you down.

There are a few possible reasons for why she declined your offer to exchange e-mails. Maybe she had a boyfriend. Maybe she, as others said, didn't feel comfortable enough with you because she needed more rapport with you, maybe you weren't her type... who knows? There are an infinite amount of reasons why she may have declined.

The only one that you should bother yourself with right now is being able to connect and make your lady feel comfortable. Empathy is understanding and identifying another person's situation and feelings. Ask yourself: "If I was this waitress, and a stranger approached me, what would it take for me to be comfortable with them?"

You could also check out Juggler's material on mASF or go here http://charismaarts.com/community/ and read some stuff from he and his friends about developing rapport.

But like I said, you got the most important piece of the puzzle down; being able to walk up to somebody you're interested in and make a move.