I usually don’t post stories but I lost a friend over sum AFC sh**and need opinions.
On new years days a friend of mine and 2 other guys went to a bar to meet some girls. My friend worked with this chick and had a major crush on her. According to him they would flirt at work and she would tell him about how much she really appreciated him. According to him she had trouble adjusting to the new workplace and everyone was mean to her. So we go to the bar and wait for her for over an hour. She was apparently busy at another bar even though she was supposed to meet us an hour ago. She finally shows up with her friend. Both are hot as hell. They hangout for a while before I introduce my self, hit on her friend a little and then leave. I didn’t want to interfere with his game. I go to another bar right down the street because I wasn’t feeling the atmosphere at the first bar. I approach a bunch of girls and I’m having a good time when my friend comes to look for me pissed off. He says he wants to leave. Before leaving I head back to the original bar with the 2 girls. While there ( im a little drunk) I grab her friend and ask her for a new years kiss. I got it. I told them me and the other guys aren’t feeling this place and that we are going to a strip club down the street. In reality it was a sausage fest in the bar and I didn’t want to linger too long over these chicks. Every guy was hitting on them and the few other females weren’t really giving us too much play. The girls had all the power and they knew it. I was out. I tried to convince them to come along but they declined. We leave. On the ride to the club my buddy is texting her like crazy saying he’s sorry for leaving. Ever since then at work the girl is not talking to him and ignores him. He approached her about it and she told him it was because he left her at the bar and that he’s not the guy she thought he was and all this other BS. She hasn’t talked to him all month. He now blames this on me. We almost fought over this. I try to tell him that she just was not that interested in him and shes playin him. It's hard explaining to an AFC who happens to be a good friend to man up. Was I wrong here…..?
On new years days a friend of mine and 2 other guys went to a bar to meet some girls. My friend worked with this chick and had a major crush on her. According to him they would flirt at work and she would tell him about how much she really appreciated him. According to him she had trouble adjusting to the new workplace and everyone was mean to her. So we go to the bar and wait for her for over an hour. She was apparently busy at another bar even though she was supposed to meet us an hour ago. She finally shows up with her friend. Both are hot as hell. They hangout for a while before I introduce my self, hit on her friend a little and then leave. I didn’t want to interfere with his game. I go to another bar right down the street because I wasn’t feeling the atmosphere at the first bar. I approach a bunch of girls and I’m having a good time when my friend comes to look for me pissed off. He says he wants to leave. Before leaving I head back to the original bar with the 2 girls. While there ( im a little drunk) I grab her friend and ask her for a new years kiss. I got it. I told them me and the other guys aren’t feeling this place and that we are going to a strip club down the street. In reality it was a sausage fest in the bar and I didn’t want to linger too long over these chicks. Every guy was hitting on them and the few other females weren’t really giving us too much play. The girls had all the power and they knew it. I was out. I tried to convince them to come along but they declined. We leave. On the ride to the club my buddy is texting her like crazy saying he’s sorry for leaving. Ever since then at work the girl is not talking to him and ignores him. He approached her about it and she told him it was because he left her at the bar and that he’s not the guy she thought he was and all this other BS. She hasn’t talked to him all month. He now blames this on me. We almost fought over this. I try to tell him that she just was not that interested in him and shes playin him. It's hard explaining to an AFC who happens to be a good friend to man up. Was I wrong here…..?