Treating the BF or Husband worst than a stranger

[Spaz]

Oh absolutely. Empowering her is critical for sure.

To be in a position of power in a relationship a man must have 2 qualities; leadership and greatness.

Fail both, you're out for sure.

As greatness takes time then leadership must be present at the beginning of a relationship.

Greatness is achieved by having 2 traits; passion and effectiveness.

If u r passionate abt making pottery but can't sell shiet to feed ur family that means u r not effective.

But if your sales is slowly picking up then ur effectiveness is as a pottery maker is acknowledged.

Every man here has greatness.

Find it, and sharpen ur leadership skills, that's how you maintain a relationship.

If a relationship fails, accept that ur leadership has failed and learn from it, improve for the next time round.

A man will never improve if he never accepts responsibility of a failed relationship.

 

[Ranger]

There are more than a few men on here that can verify this phenomenon.

When you go out, even to the store sometimes but especially around friends and anyone influential in the group.
She will hold your hand and stand close. Small touches from her hands to your shoulder and giving the impression of closeness. It is a show of course because she is in an environment where she needs to put the show on.
BUT when you get home...she no longer touches you or stands close. Sometimes you will go days without even being touched in any affectionate way. Casual or otherwise.

This is a weapon upon the minds of men. The real question is...is she doing it on purpose? (Excluding a recent fight of course)
No. It’s not. Women do not share intimacy to husbands or boyfriends when their markers are down. This is rather savage when it’s long running.

Old men don’t die from working themselves to death in every case. They get sick and die from the lack of intimacy. This is why cats and dogs are owned by women when they are well past their wall. Intimacy. Why it’s recommended for old people no longer even capable of expressing intimacy in any form to each other.

Going days or weeks and in some cases even months without intimacy will turn a man into a needy schmuck. It’s biological. At some point he might try to work even harder. In some cases even go insane. A man generally cheats for lost intimacy.

I figured this out pretty early so I didn’t go down the tubes. Lack of intimacy WILL pull you into an unwinnable situation. Woman are not dumb enough to go too long without intimacy so they will have no clue whatsoever if you bring it up. If you do bring it up your masculine markers will drop even more. Beware of displaying neediness to your wife or LTR partner. Most boyfriends are so doomed that I won’t even bring them up.
Lack of intimacy WILL crush you. But in truth she didn’t do anything that you can actually point out to her.

If she doesn’t feel your masculine markers...she will not touch you or give you any forms of intimacy until it benefits her. (Another subject)
You are trapped by your own lost masculinity.

Kino and touching isn’t anything other than a promise of intimacy with a date or a new lover. It’s a prehistoric expression. The possibilities. Despite a lot of the garbage PUAs say it is.
Without it you have nothing. She WILL treat you as substandard. Not on purpose. She is completely clueless of it. Just like she wouldn’t touch a girly nerd who talks to her.

Before men get married they have their markers up (assuming he even had them to start with) he may even have been a chad. But you look at them a few years later and they are a shell. Lack of intimacy. Plain and simple.

 

[Ranger]

To be in a position of power in a relationship a man must have 2 qualities; leadership and greatness.

Fail both, you're out for sure.

As greatness takes time then leadership must be present at the beginning of a relationship.

Greatness is achieved by having 2 traits; passion and effectiveness.

If u r passionate abt making pottery but can't sell shiet to feed ur family that means u r not effective.

But if your sales is slowly picking up then ur effectiveness is as a pottery maker is acknowledged.

Every man here has greatness.

Find it, and sharpen ur leadership skills, that's how you maintain a relationship.

If a relationship fails, accept that ur leadership has failed and learn from it, improve for the next time round.

A man will never improve if he never accepts responsibility of a failed relationship.

Good post. It reads even better if you read it backwards. Reverse engineering. Lol
Try it. It’s astounding.