imarockstar
Don Juan
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Hey guys, hopefully this will be short and sweet. Ive only been on the forums for a month or so, and im no expert with women, but within the past 2 months ive been able to gain so much confidence that i cant believe how little balls i used to have.i went through the dj bible, and through a lot of articles and threads, and some of peoples responses on this forum are a part of my advice.
Lately, ive been working on me. being a better person, going to the gym, wearing clothes that make me feel like a superstar and talking to women like they dont got **** on me. honestly, my attitude now is that i dont give a **** wether this chick is into me or not. if shes not, i think to myself, "well hey, im the catch, either shes gay, has a bf, or has too many problems in her life and i dont want parts of that anyway". But as the title of my thread suggests, treat every girl as a practice girl. Go in with this mindset, and youd be surprised how you may feel. First off you wont be as nervous, second it wont matter if you get rejected because she was a practice girl, and three, it will help you develop the confidence you really need to talk to women.
I asked this chick out at work a month ago (in an AFC manner mind you), and she said she was seeing someone. I tried things for the next week or two after discovering this site, c+f, taking my attention away, all kinds of tactics mentioned on this site. But i was faking it all to win her, subconsciously i made her the prize to win. That was my problem, i would think the rest of the day on our conversations, what i could have said instead, trying to impress her, and really making her the center of my thoughts. Today i was talking to her, and my real confidence shined through, no thinking what to say next, no tactics, just my "i dont give a **** attitude, your a practice chick so i know how to better talk to the next one". Let me add, this chick is an 8.5 maybe 9, and shes really quick witted and funny. But ever since i changed my attitude, maybe since last week but mostly today and yesterday, Ive had her baffled, stopped in her tracks, and tripping over her words as she talked to me.
Its true, you cant fake this DJ stuff, it has to come from within. Confidence is definately key, and my confidence comes from just not giving a ****, bc i know im the catch. Some of the stuff I said in this post may seem reminicent of Pooks and Mr Fingers articles, because they are. A lot of their posts and articles are very valuable. But honestly, dont let all these tactics, one liners and canned bs change you into someone you arent. Be yourself, now with the knowledge of the aspects that women respond to. Yes C+F is a good tactic, but you shouldnt overdo it. Just like compliments. Im not saying go back to your old AFC self, just dont fake this stuff like i was doing for a little while. Be happy with yourself and all else will follow
Lately, ive been working on me. being a better person, going to the gym, wearing clothes that make me feel like a superstar and talking to women like they dont got **** on me. honestly, my attitude now is that i dont give a **** wether this chick is into me or not. if shes not, i think to myself, "well hey, im the catch, either shes gay, has a bf, or has too many problems in her life and i dont want parts of that anyway". But as the title of my thread suggests, treat every girl as a practice girl. Go in with this mindset, and youd be surprised how you may feel. First off you wont be as nervous, second it wont matter if you get rejected because she was a practice girl, and three, it will help you develop the confidence you really need to talk to women.
I asked this chick out at work a month ago (in an AFC manner mind you), and she said she was seeing someone. I tried things for the next week or two after discovering this site, c+f, taking my attention away, all kinds of tactics mentioned on this site. But i was faking it all to win her, subconsciously i made her the prize to win. That was my problem, i would think the rest of the day on our conversations, what i could have said instead, trying to impress her, and really making her the center of my thoughts. Today i was talking to her, and my real confidence shined through, no thinking what to say next, no tactics, just my "i dont give a **** attitude, your a practice chick so i know how to better talk to the next one". Let me add, this chick is an 8.5 maybe 9, and shes really quick witted and funny. But ever since i changed my attitude, maybe since last week but mostly today and yesterday, Ive had her baffled, stopped in her tracks, and tripping over her words as she talked to me.
Its true, you cant fake this DJ stuff, it has to come from within. Confidence is definately key, and my confidence comes from just not giving a ****, bc i know im the catch. Some of the stuff I said in this post may seem reminicent of Pooks and Mr Fingers articles, because they are. A lot of their posts and articles are very valuable. But honestly, dont let all these tactics, one liners and canned bs change you into someone you arent. Be yourself, now with the knowledge of the aspects that women respond to. Yes C+F is a good tactic, but you shouldnt overdo it. Just like compliments. Im not saying go back to your old AFC self, just dont fake this stuff like i was doing for a little while. Be happy with yourself and all else will follow
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