Treat 'em all the same.

[jophil28]

My definition of "flake" is a woman who does not show up for a pre-arranged meet without a call or a text from her offering an explanation. She just "stands you up " .
THat is ALWAYS a demonstation of poor character on her part.
She gets not one more moment of my time..

However if a woman cancels by calling or even texting, she gets one more chance to prove herself.
Two cancellations leads to instant erasure from my book.

 

[amoka]

Loosing the game.

Alright, we were to meet last Friday for a movie at 7. She contacted me and said she is getting late and wanted to make it up to me by paying for the movie. I said cool. She came around 10pm to pick me up. We went to the movie and she indeed paid for the movie and the popcorn and everything else. Anyway, I know this girl has a great interest by for some reason I think I am loosing my game with her. I called her on Sunday and she went to another city to visit a friend and told me she'd call me when she return but she never called. She told me that friday that she will be going to visit her friend. Anyway, the problem is she never called when she returned. I have the feelings of not calling her. I simply run out of creative things to do with her... and I have the feeling her interest level is running low with me. Any suggestions on how to deal with this. Does allowing your woman to pick you up for a date lowers her interest level?

 

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for some reason I think I am loosing my game with her.

I'll say.

Your "game" is piss weak, looks like you need a good hard re-evaluation of how you pick up birds. And a movie ? *Yawn*

HB:"Ok I'm home. Thanks 4 2nite. I had a good time . Dnt party 2 hard, try to get some sleep." Haaa, Amoka never responded.

Haaa amoka's a rude tw@t. Theres a difference between playing aloof and busy or just being an idiot.

The initial plan was for her to come to my place and cook but I said "no thanks. I don't know you that well..." So we set up a movie date for that evening.

That was so stupid I cringed reading it - FAIL. An almost guaranteed lay and you pull that idiocy, what the hell ? Cordoncordon pretty much nailed it here.

My future plan with this chick is simple: No contacting her whatsoever. If she tries contacting, I'll not respond the first three times.

That'll show her....... For phucks sake go practice some more social interaction before you tool this bird around even more.

she has to "make it up to me" one way or the other. What are your thoughts?

Make up for what? You being a nimrod and failing? Just leave it.