oztradamus
Don Juan
This is kinda long but please bare with me i need help.......
So i met this girl last year at some social event at my college. We had seen each other around but were never introduced. The original reason i introduced myself is because i was interested in her sorority sister and i was trying to get in good with all the ladies in her chapter. At the time i knew my friend liked her so although i thought she was pretty hot i didnt plan on doing anything. When i finally introduced myself, we only spoke briefly because i had to go to class. About 2 days later i saw her again and she came up to me and we started talkin. No less then 2 minutes after we started talkin she found out we had a couple of things in common and she gave me the "we are gonna be best friends" line. At the time i didnt care cause i was trying to get at her friend anyway. From that moment on she started to confide in me and tell me everything (I already know bad move).
Right after we started to get closer i found out that she was talkin to my teammate. She would tell me about all their problems and i would tell her bout my stuff with this other girl that i was trying to get at. This went on throughout all last year and right before summer break he took her virginity and cheated on her with some other chick. So of course she came running to me crying and told me everything. Now soon after things with them died down she started telling me things and giving me signs that indicated she might like me.
She would joke and say "if we werent best friends and i hadnt wasted time on your friend we might have something"
Or she would say stuff like "i would definitely date you"
Now i didnt know how to take this as her (just saying that cause she is my friend and she was trying to make me feel good nice the girl i was talking to just up and went for somebody else), or if she really meant that stuff.
She would also tell me things like if we were to date and it didnt work out she thought we would still be friends.
I would have run with all of these signs but every time she would give me some good signs she would follow it up by talking about some other guy or saying how much she loves me as a friend, and cherishes our friendship and wouldnt wanna do anything to ruin it.
Then she would follow that **** up by testing me by playing tickling games and calling me over at 2:30 in the morning cause she wants a hug.
I have many more examples but this is long enough so i need to know from u guys:
1) Does she possibly like me as more than a friend?
2) how if possible can i get out of this best friend zone?
So i met this girl last year at some social event at my college. We had seen each other around but were never introduced. The original reason i introduced myself is because i was interested in her sorority sister and i was trying to get in good with all the ladies in her chapter. At the time i knew my friend liked her so although i thought she was pretty hot i didnt plan on doing anything. When i finally introduced myself, we only spoke briefly because i had to go to class. About 2 days later i saw her again and she came up to me and we started talkin. No less then 2 minutes after we started talkin she found out we had a couple of things in common and she gave me the "we are gonna be best friends" line. At the time i didnt care cause i was trying to get at her friend anyway. From that moment on she started to confide in me and tell me everything (I already know bad move).
Right after we started to get closer i found out that she was talkin to my teammate. She would tell me about all their problems and i would tell her bout my stuff with this other girl that i was trying to get at. This went on throughout all last year and right before summer break he took her virginity and cheated on her with some other chick. So of course she came running to me crying and told me everything. Now soon after things with them died down she started telling me things and giving me signs that indicated she might like me.
She would joke and say "if we werent best friends and i hadnt wasted time on your friend we might have something"
Or she would say stuff like "i would definitely date you"
Now i didnt know how to take this as her (just saying that cause she is my friend and she was trying to make me feel good nice the girl i was talking to just up and went for somebody else), or if she really meant that stuff.
She would also tell me things like if we were to date and it didnt work out she thought we would still be friends.
I would have run with all of these signs but every time she would give me some good signs she would follow it up by talking about some other guy or saying how much she loves me as a friend, and cherishes our friendship and wouldnt wanna do anything to ruin it.
Then she would follow that **** up by testing me by playing tickling games and calling me over at 2:30 in the morning cause she wants a hug.
I have many more examples but this is long enough so i need to know from u guys:
1) Does she possibly like me as more than a friend?
2) how if possible can i get out of this best friend zone?