translation please!

[pupil-number-7]

"You are relentless, I will give you that! Based on our emails I don't think I will be interested in you romantically and don't want to waste your time. But if you still want to meet then we can set a time to meet up for tea/coffee, a walk, a meal, etc. I already know that Monday, Tuesday, and Wed evenings are busy for me. Thursday may be open but I probably won't know until Tuesday. We can stay in touch and try and find a time open for both of us. Hope you had a great weekend!"

That is the email a woman sent me today. I don't know how to take it. Should I take it for face value.. does she just want to be friends? Or is she just testing me to see if all I want is sex? Could she maybe be into me? What does she really mean?

Carlos Xuma says that woman often don't mean what they say and often times test you so I'm not sure what to make of this email.

If you can see past what a woman means by her words and actions, then maybe you can help me find the real meaning to this email, if any.

 

[MyTeamSupreme]

Whenever a meeting time is set just make sure you don't treat her like a friend...Let your actions speak...Don't be afraid to flirt and show your attraction for her because, you ARE a man...If she isn't receptive then on to the next

 

[Jblitz59]

I don't think I will be interested in you romantically

So it seems like she doesn't like how you have been previous to this...

she does seem interested SEXUALLY just not bf/gf LTR material-wise.

spin this plate but dont be surprised if it doesn't work out.

 

[runner83]

Translation? who knows?...

Judge a woman by her actions, not her words.

If she's willing to meet up again then do it, and make the ho say no!

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Real-life example:

I recently f*cked a girl from my work.

First "date" ended on my bed, heavy make out.

During our e-mails backwards and forwards at my office after that, she said something like "next time we meet up, I'll be making sure all our clothing stays on".

I didn't react to that, except to say "I'll have to be extra caregul to make sure you don't tear my shirt off me".

2 days later we end up at my place and she literally tears my shirt off me. Found it a couple days later and it had a huge rip down the side. Damn, I loved that shirt!

 

[pupil-number-7]

she does seem interested SEXUALLY just not bf/gf LTR material-wise.

you must be really good at understanding women cause I am clueless as to how you were able to read this!

...and make the ho say no!

seriously? so you're saying it's a good idea to try and kiss her and grope her and all ... causing her to say no is a good thing how again?


I got a lot to learn!

 

[falconslax89]

you must be really good at understanding women cause I am clueless as to how you were able to read this!






seriously? so you're saying it's a good idea to try and kiss her and grope her and all ... causing her to say no is a good thing how again?


I got a lot to learn!

what he is saying is be a man and keep progressing sexually until she flat out says "no!" if she doesnt bluntly say no then keep on truckin

 

[jophil28]

"You are relentless, I will give you that! Based on our emails I don't think I will be interested in you romantically and don't want to waste your time. But if you still want to meet then we can set a time to meet up for tea/coffee, a walk, a meal, etc. I already know that Monday, Tuesday, and Wed evenings are busy for me. Thursday may be open but I probably won't know until Tuesday. We can stay in touch and try and find a time open for both of us. Hope you had a great weekend!".

Don't waste your time with this one. There is not a sliver of interest in you in this email - You have NOTHING to build on.here. She has you in the FZ - in the cheap seats . But she will probably take your free dinners and movies while she scans the manscape for a BBD. When she snares one she will stop returning your calls.
Do not waste your time with women who tell you flatly that they are "not interested" in such an OVERT way as this one did.

 

[pupil-number-7]

...She has you in the FZ - in the cheap seats . But she will probably take your free dinners and movies while she scans the manscape for a BBD. When she snares one she will stop returning your calls.
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I love the way you guys are so convinced that once you're in the friend zone, it's game over completely.. You guys do know that some friend's fuc@k the brains out of each other, right? I wouldn't believe everything these seduction guys tell you. Anyway, I think I'm going to do what the other guy said and "truck it" ... what do I got to lose, right? thanks for the advice!

what he is saying is be a man and keep progressing sexually until she flat out says "no!" if she doesnt bluntly say no then keep on truckin

hey falconslax8, that's not a bad idea. At the very least she'll know what I want, and if I get lucky, she won't find a man but she will know she has a "booty call" in me whenever she just becomes desperate. finding out for sure by just "truckin" it I think beats just assuming she'll never give it up and NEVER really finding out. a very "barbaristic" approach but I like it! so thanks!

 

[Gangster Of Love]

"You are relentless, I will give you that! Based on our emails I don't think I will be interested in you romantically and don't want to waste your time. But if you still want to meet then we can set a time to meet up for tea/coffee, a walk, a meal, etc. I already know that Monday, Tuesday, and Wed evenings are busy for me. Thursday may be open but I probably won't know until Tuesday. We can stay in touch and try and find a time open for both of us. Hope you had a great weekend!"

"You just don't get it, and you are really starting to annoy me! Based on the quick judgement I've made about you, i am really not interested in you sexually and are not attracted to you, and don't want to waste MY time. But if you still want to meet up we can set a time so it doesn't sound like I am blowing you off before we even meet in person. Be warned that I will be busy Monday, Tuesday, Wed, Thursday, Friday, and for sure Saturday and Sunday. I am really giving you an easy way out to save face, but you seem to be the type that can't read the clear signs that I have zero interest in you. Hope you have a life and soon stop pestering me with all these emails, as I am about to start ingoring them.

That is the email a woman sent me today. I don't know how to take it. Should I take it for face value.. does she just want to be friends? Or is she just testing me to see if all I want is sex? Could she maybe be into me? What does she really mean? .

Yes, you should take it face value, because if you read between the lines, she spells it even clearer that she is not interested in you in the least bit. She might/might not want to be friends, I doubt it, but she definitely does not want to be romantically involved with you. She is not testing you. She is doing you a favor and spelling it very clear to you. You should feel lucky that she is not leading you on and setting you up for later dissapointment. She is not and could not be into you, unless somehow she is really attracted to you physically, in person, and is willing to forget all the judgements she has already made about you. Don't waste your time. She actually means what she's saying and you don't want to believe it.

Carlos Xuma says that woman often don't mean what they say and often times test you so I'm not sure what to make of this email. .

Yes, there are plenty of those situations, this is not one of them. Move on.

If you can see past what a woman means by her words and actions, then maybe you can help me find the real meaning to this email, if any.

Are you hoping that she actually does a 180 degree turn and actually start liking you, or are you just waiting for someone to tell you this woman is into you? Time to eject, and reset. Learn from your mistakes on this one and start working the skills on the next ones.

You don't mention the background. How long have you been communicating by email? Have you talked on the phone? How often/how long?

 

[pupil-number-7]

"You just don't get it, and you are really starting to annoy me! Based on the quick judgement I've made about you, i am really not interested in you sexually and are not attracted to you, and don't want to waste MY time. But if you still want to meet up we can set a time so it doesn't sound like I am blowing you off before we even meet in person. Be warned that I will be busy Monday, Tuesday, Wed, Thursday, Friday, and for sure Saturday and Sunday. I am really giving you an easy way out to save face, but you seem to be the type that can't read the clear signs that I have zero interest in you. Hope you have a life and soon stop pestering me with all these emails, as I am about to start ingoring them.

Ouch! And I thought I was getting closer to some honey!

You don't mention the background. How long have you been communicating by email? Have you talked on the phone? How often/how long?

2 weeks. No. N/a.

Yes, there are plenty of those situations, this is not one of them. Move on.

How do you know when a woman is testing you? What's the difference between a test and disinterest? I mean, everything (that doesn't seem positive) seems like genuine disinterest to me. Sometimes I feel that being stubborn about it is the only way that I'll find out for sure if she's into me or not. I must learn... TEACH ME PLEASE!

 

[jophil28]

Sometimes I feel that being stubborn about it is the only way that I'll find out for sure if she's into me or not. I must learn... TEACH ME PLEASE!

Gangster of Love told you truth. A great post. His first para is pure gold.

A woman who has even a small interest in you will give you a glimpse of her attraction to you in one way or another.
Most of you rookies on this forum foolishly believe that women throw "tests" at men from the first nanosecond. They don't. Sure, women do "test" occasionally , but misinterpreting blatant lack of interest by a woman as a "test to be passed" is just stupid and a guarantee that you will live in a sad world of pain and frustration.

ONLY pursue women who want you to pursue them . They will send you green light signals.

 

[pupil-number-7]

Gangster of Love told you truth. A great post. His first para is pure gold.

A woman who has even a small interest in you will give you a glimpse of her attraction to you in one way or another.
Most of you rookies on this forum foolishly believe that women throw "tests" at men from the first nanosecond. They don't. Sure, women do "test" occasionally , but misinterpreting blatant lack of interest by a woman as a "test to be passed" is just stupid and a guarantee that you will live in a sad world of pain and frustration.

ONLY pursue women who want you to pursue them . They will send you green light signals.

I don't mean to be rude, but that wasn't much help... you just restated what I have already said and what Gangsta of Love implied... nothing new but thanks I guess. but if you want to help, what are these test exactly? I mean, what the h@ll do they look like?

 

[volkme68]

As a man all you have to do is make a great first impression. If you do it right, most girls will make it easy. If the attraction is there, it is pretty hard to screw it up, whatever you do.

It is even easier online buddy. Girls will say/do things they never would in public. They feel like there is a buffer between their actions on some website and reality. Generally speaking, they show interest and disinterest pretty plain online.

Online game is a lot like the real world. You want to make an impression? Read her damn profile, even if it is just a skim. Find something interesting or funny and make a smartass remark about it. Relate a quick story. Don't rehash a profile for her. If she is interested she can look at it herself. end it with a check out my profile and get back to me. Leave all sexual crap out of the first message. I have gotten about a 90% feedback, usually with a "you are the first guy who didn't say a word about his ****. I'm so-and-so blah blah blah. Usually and email or IM, sometimes a number.

Respond however you want from here, but keep it light and funny.

I usually wait until the third message I send to the girl to ask for another way to contact her, saying the site is a pain in the ass, and I would like to continue this conversation, maybe even in person.

If she blows you off, there are 100,000 other profiles. Shoot some texts, toss in a call. It is that simple. And once she agrees to a meet and greet, game on.

 

[volkme68]

As to tests, you won't see too many online. In fact, early on make a joke about her being a 40yo dude in his mama's basement. If I break that one out, I usually get a number and with in ten minutes of contacting her by phone get a few phone pictures. Then they start proving themselves to you.

Pretty girls will see ALOT of messages, but if you don't make a sexual refrence or say a word about her appearance, you comment on something in her profile OTHER than her looks, and say something even remotely witty, you will be in the top 1% of guys on those sites. She'll notice and respond, but it might take her a while because you better believe for every message you get, she got 100

 

[pupil-number-7]

As to tests, you won't see too many online.

thanks but I like to play at wriggly field.

 

[volkme68]

thanks but I like to play at wriggly field.

Over my head bro. Too clever for me I guess

 

[jophil28]

I don't mean to be rude, but that wasn't much help... you just restated what I have already said and what Gangsta of Love implied... nothing new but thanks I guess. but if you want to help, what are these test exactly? I mean, what the h@ll do they look like?

Forget the "tests" until after you master some fundamental skills.
It is vastly more important to learn to recognize the 'signs of interest' and the 'signs of NO interest'.

 

[DonJuan11]

1) You are relentless
2) I don't think I will be interested in you romantically
3) I don't want to waste your time
4) if you still want to meet then we can set a time
5) Monday, Tuesday, and Wed evenings are busy for me.
6) Thursday may be open but I probably won't know until Tuesday.


Could she maybe be into me?

Carlos Xuma says that woman often don't mean what they say and often times test you so I'm not sure what to make of this email.

Don't know who Carlos Xuma is, but it appears she wants to let you down easy and just be your friend. A girl "into you" would not say these things and you are getting confusing by the meaning of girls "testing" you.

As mentioned a million times before, if a girl likes you, she asks questions about you, she makes it easy for you to get together with her. A girl who wants you to protect her and be her boyfriend to have sex with will not say "I don't think I'll be romantically interested in you."

 

[shqiponja]

First off, have you both seen eachother how you look like? Is she worth it?

I translate it like this:

There were things that turned me off about your e-mails and others that have me interested in wanting to know you.

SHe has agreed to see you, so I don't see any reason why you must negate your self this experience.


Dress well as you were going on a romantic date
Keep it cool,don't hit on her,play the game,show her you have options and she's not that special.
Earn points by being funny.
If she starts digging you don't jump on her, but leave her wanting you.

Before the date have a drink just to alleviate the pressure