Traits that will make people like you besides funny

[Rint]

I've been wondering. All the DJs i've seen in my life have been funny. But if your not funny wat other DJ traits are just as effective? I'm really curious about this one

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Simple; anything that makes people feel good about themselves whenever they are around you.

 

[Redux]

Liking yourself. First personal victories, then public victories. If you love yourself, other people will too.

 

[djbr]

Simple; anything that makes people feel good about themselves whenever they are around you.

My brother is PRO in that sh1t. And it works like magic!

NO ONE, I mean NO ONE dislikes him.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

My brother is PRO in that sh1t. And it works like magic!

NO ONE, I mean NO ONE dislikes him.

It's like a drug people are hooked on. They will seek you out and they will back you up as long as they feel better whenever they are around you. The concept is so simple people easily overlook it. They believe it's just about who they are when in truth is about who the other person is when they are with you.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Well Gaming wise other characteristics you must have are...

Dominance
Unpredictable
Confidence
Standing out (Being Different)

I find Dominance and Unpredictable more important than being funny. If you're just funny your just a dancing monkey.

 

[banGbro]

Horny!

 

[Kev07]

don't be shy

confidence

DO NOT KISS ASS - worse trait ever

believe it or not, kino works on guys too, you may come off as gay if you start too strong, but kino grows on guys too.

 

[Rint]

how do u make people around you enjoy being around you without being funny?

 

[ValleyDJing]

Be friendly. Smile a lot.

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

There are a lot. Personally, I've always been attracted to guys who'll kneel on the sidewalk to pet a dog. There's something about a dog lover that shows some true compassion.

 

[Incog]

The Chill Factor.

 

[DJDamage]

Simple; anything that makes people feel good about themselves whenever they are around you.

The best way to do this is by giving the person you are talking with your full undivided attention. Make them feel important and interesting even though they might not be. This way the person will feel at ease that he/she is interesting enough and doesn't need to go out of their way to try and impress you. I am sure we all been in a situation where you talk about something and the person across from you just appears bored and uninterested and all you wanted to do is stop the conversation and just get away from them.