Toxic EX and I don't why she is telling me this?

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So my EX and I have been broken up for close to 2 months now. We have been going back and forth in court for a variety of things. She currently has defiant trespassing charges and disorderly conduct for trying to break into my parents home while I was staying there during the beginning of the breakup. We have a custody case as well but that been pushed back because first she must have her CPS trial for neglect and abuse of my son. She still has temp custody and was demanding $2000 dollars in child support and the judge only ordered $850. The judge is holding off me paying any back child support until the custody case is settled there is a strong chance of me getting Full or Primary custody of my son.

I'm pretty much done with her ass in any relationship capacity. What I don't understand is what she is texting me that she is sleeping with other men. She has gone so far as to send me photos of herself with other men. I realize I am living inside her head rent free but it doesn't make any sense to me. Doesn't she realize if she sleeping with other men that her value in my eyes becomes even less. Can anyone explain why she is doing what she is doing?

I don't plan on engaging in this conversation with her. I try to keep my texts with her only about my son and pick up and drop of custody.

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Yeah typical low-self esteem woman that's insecure and cant handle a rejection.

Had this in the past with my EX all though never to this extend.

Here is what you do:

NOTHING.

Easy eh?

What she is trying to do to you does not really matter. What matters is how you respond to what ever she is doing.

She is needy and toxic. But since you asked, what she is doing to you is trying to shame you and make you feel like a tampon.

Raise your shields, remove any kind sense of even bothering to read those messages anymore and let her do her own thing.

She is living in her own imaginary world and this will eventually stop.