TheDarkSaint
Don Juan
Guys, I'm about read to throw in the towl. I've lost interest, drive and motivation when it comes to dating.
I live in a small town. It has 1,500 people in it. I'm the music teacher. The pay is reasonable, the hours are long, the prestigue is good (they like good concerts here) and I get summers off. I'm very ambitious about my job and I spend a great deal of time working with my kids to improve them so we can have better ensembles. I work 50 - 70 hours a week on average. This is my dream job where I get to do something I love doing in a place where I'm recognized for my talents and lets me exersize my competitivness. I don't plan on moving for another 2-3 years before I go get my Masters.
Because of the small size of the town, there is a limited gene pool of girls even close to my age. There are a couple of 19-22 year olds, but that is getting too young and flakey for me. The nearest town of any real size is 3 hours away.
The thing that is frightening me is that I'm growing acustumed to being alone. I'm starting to prefer it. I've had 3 or 4 gfs in my life and the sex with each was disapointing at best, rotten at worst. I'm loosing drive to even look at porn. I come home from work at 6 pm, play with and walk the dogs, check email, visit some news sites and then go to bed so I can be up by 5 the next morning.
What do you do when your job is the best thing that ever happend to you but it is killing your social life?
I live in a small town. It has 1,500 people in it. I'm the music teacher. The pay is reasonable, the hours are long, the prestigue is good (they like good concerts here) and I get summers off. I'm very ambitious about my job and I spend a great deal of time working with my kids to improve them so we can have better ensembles. I work 50 - 70 hours a week on average. This is my dream job where I get to do something I love doing in a place where I'm recognized for my talents and lets me exersize my competitivness. I don't plan on moving for another 2-3 years before I go get my Masters.
Because of the small size of the town, there is a limited gene pool of girls even close to my age. There are a couple of 19-22 year olds, but that is getting too young and flakey for me. The nearest town of any real size is 3 hours away.
The thing that is frightening me is that I'm growing acustumed to being alone. I'm starting to prefer it. I've had 3 or 4 gfs in my life and the sex with each was disapointing at best, rotten at worst. I'm loosing drive to even look at porn. I come home from work at 6 pm, play with and walk the dogs, check email, visit some news sites and then go to bed so I can be up by 5 the next morning.
What do you do when your job is the best thing that ever happend to you but it is killing your social life?