topics females like to talk about?

[O.G]

well here is my problem, I dont know any good things to talk about when im around women, like what is their interests and stuff?what do they usuaully like to talk about? I cant go up to them talkin about cars and drinking and **** like I do wit the boys. this always gets me thinking???

 

[Ace of Flames]

Themselves.

 

[Tomatoes]

Themselves.

Couldnt put it better myself.....Women...LOVE talking about themselves...



Sarge On!

 

[Blusher]

"Do you prefer listening to some music or eating chocolate?"

"What's your favourite Disney character?"

"If you were a movie star, would you be a movie director, a script writer or an actress?"

And they go : :cheer: "me! me! me!"

 

[chandidas]

mostly 50/50..

50% of the time about themselves..

other 50% about others (ppl around her)

i don't know why, but women love gossips (not just celeb but about their friends, colleagues, neighbours etc).
however in my opinion, women are curious...they want to know what goes on around them -> they seek knowledge of their surroundings -> knowledge is power -> so indirectly they're constantly seeking power over others...

 

[Luke Skywalker]

<KJing here, still have to experiment with these openers and routines>

Chick-crack - or stuff they like are like psychological tests and games. Opener is usually: I'd like a woman's opinion on xyz.

ESP test: Tell a girl you can read her mind and you can prove it. Tell her to guess a number between 1 - 10. Tell her she selected 7. 70% chance she will select 7 and you'll intrigue her on this test, or at least have fun if you are wrong.

Try a few other tests. Do rearch into personality tests, cold readings, psychology tests.

 

[Driven2Succeed]

i'd say, stick with talking about her and her interests, and when u find something that u both have in common or are interested in, talk about that.

its not rocket science dude, just don't be left "speechless" and staring at her and u will be fine.. avoid the "awkward silence" at all costs lol

 

[diplomatic_lies]

-Nails
-Clothes
-Hair
-Pedofilic satanic orgies
-Gossip

 

[SamePendo]

-Pedofilic satanic orgies

:crackup:

 

[pooparu]

Why would you want to speak about female topics as a male?

That makes no sense.

You are supplicating for females and going through all the trouble of learning what SOMEONE else likes so that THEY like you?

The problem isn't that you need to learn how to converse, you need to be a man.

How many times do you see James bond reading the latest issue of Cosmo?

All you are doing is being a fake, a phony, a liar. It's not worth all that, believe me.

 

[rocky_mtn]

Exactly, men don't talk to women about their nails, hair and sh!t, except maybe a short comment if you notice she had her hair done.

Talk about her and her interests, then talk about things that you might have in common or common interests that you share.

If you meet a chick at a dance club, talk about the music, the scene, whatever.

If the girl likes to travel, then talk about places she has been, places she would like to go.

I like adventurous women, so I'll talk about mountains that I've climbed, placecs I've camped and so on....


But men are pvssified enough these days, don't act like a women when you try to relate to them.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

i never gossip with women. I always work my way into deep conversations... things that illicit her values; childhood memories etc...But i never play 20 questions.

One trick I've use quite successfully is I've actually borrowed stories from other people. For example if i read on sosuave that someone did this or that, even if i don't know them personally, i'll chuck it into my convo as "A buddy of mine did..." etc.. as a way of using something that's on the topic we're discussing, if i don't have my own personal story.

Stories are the most important tool you can use. It makes the girl stop focusing on the "now" and lets her drift off into her imagination.

It's a great way to avoid lulls in the conversation.

I also steer the convo to topics that allow me to share my own dreams and desires in an almost fantasy kind of way. Sometheing along the lines of "...when i get my cabin cruiser, I'll take you across the sea and we'll become a couple of pirates..." That sort of thing when I'm talking about my plans to be successful, etc... it's never bragging but more of a way to get her to imagine these things happeneing and get her mind going.

I never talk about jobs or school or any of that crap... way too boring. I guess my best advice is just to keep things light and allow your imagination to lead the convo and let her follow you.

 

[Yuriy777]

Themselves.

^^^
Among other stupid things...

(I'm Joking)
(...Kind of)

 

[everywomanshero]

Being spontanious might be the problem. Do you also have problems knowing what to say in general, such as in classes or at parties? There could be a lot of fixes to this:

Social Anxiety/LSE/Self-doubt -> I'll leave that to the Dr's. In my experience it is far better to talk too much than too little for most guys.

Feeling or Coming across as "flat"/Not knowing what to say -> Toastmasters, comedy class, acting class, presentations/public speaking classes, creating stories from a random word from dictionary, taking a job at a mall kiosk.

Can talk to guys but women find you offensive or boring -> Make at least 5 female friends and hang out with them or at least talk on the phone for 30 minutes a day. Maybe check out Badboys "deep and wide rapport". "How to talk to women" might be useful, it's been a long time since I listened to the CD or read the book, so I don't remember exactly what it covers anymore. Read Cosmo (I DO). Most importantely get at least 1 steady gf.

I've got some really good or bad news depending on perspective: The thing is now that you know what to do, you actually have to do it.

 

[typical]

OMFG guys who cares what you talk about to her man, as long as you kiss her or **** her at the end of the day thats all that matters. Stop analysing what your gonna say to her and just say what pops into your head, who cares if you offend her, hell I talk about anything and everything. I remember some chick giving me crap and I told her is she pmsing, shut her up for the rest of the day with big deer in headlights eyes.

Back on track yea they love to talk about themselves and gossip about their friends, you want to become her friend then gossip to her about crap you want to be her lover then just "flow" when you talk there are no rules.

 

[Krassus]

Guys who don't get laid talk about what the girls want to talk about. Guys who do get laid talk about what THEY want to talk about If you have a really strong sense of self, the chick will hang on to your every word, even though, ourside of this particular conversation with YOU, she couldn't care less about the subject being discussed. But because YOU'RE discussing it... she's in awe. Think racing, for instance. In general, chicks couldn't care less about cars. But when i talk about it, THE WAY I TALK ABOUT IT, their eyes open wide and they become almost perfectly still. I pour so much masculine passion into my words that they're enthralled. One chick told me that just feeling me accelerate really fast makes her cl1t instantly hard now.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Guys, why not go out with women who have similar interests as you so that you can talk about things that are interesting to both of you?

 

[Badmannaz]

They like to talk about EVERYTHING ABove from the current point were they reside = (themselves) you just gotta be a really good listener and atleast act like your listening n your not too far away from F*ckin

 

[pooparu]

They like to talk about EVERYTHING ABove from the current point were they reside = (themselves) you just gotta be a really good listener and atleast act like your listening n your not too far away from F*ckin

Why would you act like you are listening to a girl that you want to have sex with.

Why not be genuinly interested? And if she's not interesting, why have you lowered your standards for *****?

You all still haven't gotten it yet.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

read it.

 

[Hitman10000]

Try not to ask too many questions and it's okay to interject about yourself as well to open her up to ask you questions. Some PUA believe that asking her constant questions "just to get to know her" is the right way cause you can "peak her interest" bud, it's not about her. It's okay to say this after asking her 2-3 questions about her... "Yeah I did something like that once too, over at an area that I usually frequent at" - A good communicator is supposed to continue that question with the girl (especially one that's interested) will say "Why are you" or "Do you know how" in reference to what you just stated. A girl that is a poor communicator or not that interested in you will go "Oh okay" and then silence ensues.

It's about you too, think conversation with you and the girl at 33% (you) and 66% (her) some say 25% you, 75% you.. that's fine I guess, but you should still give her hint/clues on who you are as well. Try to avoid bragging... like "Yeah, so you play tennis too? Well a couple years ago I won 2 consecutive state championships in tennis in a row, I'm the best at it, I got titanium gold platted tennis rackets too" that's what a misinformed PUA will do, a DJ would say "you play tennis? Yeah I play tennis too, I occasionally play at this location, I'm not that good but still practicing" - if she's interested she might even ask you out to play tennis with you sometime.