Last night i was at the bar and the place was flooded with sausages so i noticed this girl that had 3 dudes putting her up on a pedestal and she wasnt amused. Anyways she glanced at me and i winked at her then turned my back by playing pool with my buddies. After she dismissed the boys, she approached me and it was a great feeling seeing them boys in disbelief. We chatted, didn't put all my attention on her but she kept pressing, at this point i knew she wanted me.
After getting her number, i dismissed her and focused on my buddies. She responded "thats it??", i responded with "Yeah, you're welcome to stay and hang out if you're bored". Her and her friend walked away but later came back. She continued to approach me and this point i noticed she drank a lot but had a high level of attraction. It was getting late and i offered to drive her home, she hestitated and i pulled away. After chatting with her friend, she decided to leave with me.
After dropping my buddy off, we went back to my place for a drink. She brought up relationships which turned me off. Warned me she is damaged, been cheated on..etc. She even asked me how many women ive been with and i dismissed it by saying its none of her business (she later regretted asking). Anyways she starts moving towards me, made out but provided LMR for anything else... I expected it and moved on. I let her stayed the night and that was it.
Next morning, she starts making out with me, says she appreciates me respecting her boundies and i jokingly said the same.
This is where it gets weird...
She starts telling me to not get my hopes up and that she thinks negative alot, not ready, scared...etc. I told her to slow down, dont jump to conclusions and take one day at a time. She said to forget what she said and i moved on from it. Dropped her off at home and thats it.
The girl is hott, has potential but jumps to assumptions and overthinks alot, probably been with some feminine guys before. How long should i wait to invite her out for a drink?
After getting her number, i dismissed her and focused on my buddies. She responded "thats it??", i responded with "Yeah, you're welcome to stay and hang out if you're bored". Her and her friend walked away but later came back. She continued to approach me and this point i noticed she drank a lot but had a high level of attraction. It was getting late and i offered to drive her home, she hestitated and i pulled away. After chatting with her friend, she decided to leave with me.
After dropping my buddy off, we went back to my place for a drink. She brought up relationships which turned me off. Warned me she is damaged, been cheated on..etc. She even asked me how many women ive been with and i dismissed it by saying its none of her business (she later regretted asking). Anyways she starts moving towards me, made out but provided LMR for anything else... I expected it and moved on. I let her stayed the night and that was it.
Next morning, she starts making out with me, says she appreciates me respecting her boundies and i jokingly said the same.
This is where it gets weird...
She starts telling me to not get my hopes up and that she thinks negative alot, not ready, scared...etc. I told her to slow down, dont jump to conclusions and take one day at a time. She said to forget what she said and i moved on from it. Dropped her off at home and thats it.
The girl is hott, has potential but jumps to assumptions and overthinks alot, probably been with some feminine guys before. How long should i wait to invite her out for a drink?
