too much abundance right now

[Plinco]

May not have given him the same ego gratification and validation as being with many different women, but as far as the sex itself, he has admitted it was the best with me.

And our desire and passion lasted nearly the entire six years till the end which is too long a story to get into here or now.

It's possible that he could have been lying to you too.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Continue to see other women for now and maybe you will see the flaws of this women. Don't rush into a relationship with her

Exactly.
Don't toss everything overboard and cross the stream before you see the bridge over the river.

You need to vet her. Is she worthy of you; or just your d|ick as a yet another plate?
Remember the man is the prize, not the women because we sit on the resources and women (Especially with todays modern women), usually don't bring anything of tangible value to the table.

Beauty will fade faster than FB stock dropped today and at some point it will be gone.
- Women depreciate over the years in value.
- Men keep appreciate in value over the years.

 

[BeExcellent]

- Women depreciate over the years in value.
- Men keep appreciate in value over the years.

This is not always true. My ex husband is a stellar example of a man who has lost most of his value (got fat, went bald, let his teeth go, lost his business & status) and cannot garner high quality women any more. A pronounced fall from grace. Meanwhile my value has been stable/increased over the same time period.

If you look at the general population most people decline in SMV over time, both men and women. You fooling yourself to think otherwise. Look at people in the grocery store or driving around. Most are unattractive to marginally attractive. There are exceptions in both genders. Certainly we should strive to be the exception and of course this requires effort.

The problem too with this attitude is that this is how you lose a truly quality girl. If she knows her worth she is not going to tolerate plate status for any length of time. Your loss can easily be another man’s gain.

This is true for any high value person, man or woman.

OP has to determine whether she is worth cutting off his other options or losing her altogether. That ends up being the choice one must make when dating a quality person who is seeking a stable relationship.

Period.