Too many parameters to follow in the dating game?

[skinnyguy]

It is starting to feel like men have to follow certain "rules" in order to get laid. For example don't text too much, be c+f, dress well, kill yourself to get in shape, go out 5 nights a week, don't be boring, use "game", initiate kino, read the DJ bible, don't fap, achieve high status, etc.

Meanwhile women don't need to follow any rules. They just act like however they want and then men will flock to them!

I feel like guys who post this stuff are feminists. They don't believe that a man should be the prize, or that women would be lucky to have a man in their life. Men get treated like dogs both on this site and in real life. OLD is making it worse - guys are paying people to have their profiles written in order to pander to women.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Ok n how do u do this?

 

[Obsidian]

You don't have to kill yourself to get in shape. Since about December, I started going to the gym just once a week, after re-reading the Book of Pook and getting flaked on by this one chick I kinda liked. I felt like it helped me a good bit. Then after I dated the same chick for a brief period and she started flaking on me again, I upped it to twice a week and now I feel like things are going pretty well (the chick dumped me a month ago, but whatever, other girls dig me). Just going to the gym once or twice a week can do wonders. And I only do about 9-15 reps of various exercises, always for less than an hour. On the days that I don't go to the gym, I generally try to do one set of 50 pushups or 100 crunches, or maybe go for a walk.

I feel that the main problem with people getting out of shape occurs when they do absolutely no exercise, and then work in a desk job. Years back, more people did manual labor so fitness was less of a problem. Humans are meant to be mobile. Prior to December, I was just doing my pushups but wasn't going to the gym to lift weights whatsoever. Ultimately, I have concluded that the pushups alone are insufficient. But again, 1-2 short gym visits a week is almost fun in my view.

 

[Suspens]

You have a loser mindset. Work on that.

 

[Poon King]

NOPE.. "parameters" are not the problem.. male thirst is the problem. Men who need female validation to be "happy" are the problem. When men are so desperate.. it lowers the value of men as a whole and raises the value of women as a whole.

If women don't have to do anything for men to flock to them.. its because men are desperate faggots with no standards. If men have no standards.. then why would women have to "do something" to get men? :crackup:

Women chase men who chase life. Not men who are sprung on them. I've been trying to get this through the thick skulls of all the men here for a long time now.

If life doesn't offer you enough that you can be happy without a woman...then you're a loser. Simple as that. And losers are not sexy or attractive.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

I hear them pimp dacter thck dewdododoooooodidodofododo doot!

 

[Meisterman]

Your main problem is giving a f*ck. Give less f*cks, then when you think you are out of fu*ks to give, give even less.

That way you won't care about the rules, or whatever they suggest you do. You'll develop an inner confidence that says and shows your happy. And once you get there you won't care about rules to get anywhere because you'll be happy where you are already.

It's around that time more abundance will come into your life more and more. All with less effort too. It's a bit of a paradox but that's how it works.

 

[om1xr]

You give too many fuçks

 

[No.Danny]

There are no rules, rules are training wheels for the guys who can't get things done on their own, I want to text a chick all day I'll do it. I want to ignore her cause she's bothering me I'll do it **** the rules, I do what I want when I want because I don't need them.

 

[jurry]

There are no rules, rules are training wheels for the guys who can't get things done on their own, I want to text a chick all day I'll do it. I want to ignore her cause she's bothering me I'll do it **** the rules, I do what I want when I want because I don't need them.

Spot on.

 

[GS750]

There are no rules, rules are training wheels for the guys who can't get things done on their own, I want to text a chick all day I'll do it. I want to ignore her cause she's bothering me I'll do it **** the rules, I do what I want when I want because I don't need them.

Tried to red ya for this. Good post.

 

[Skyline]

NOPE.. "parameters" are not the problem.. male thirst is the problem. Men who need female validation to be "happy" are the problem. When men are so desperate.. it lowers the value of men as a whole and raises the value of women as a whole.

If women don't have to do anything for men to flock to them.. its because men are desperate faggots with no standards. If men have no standards.. then why would women have to "do something" to get men? :crackup:

Women chase men who chase life. Not men who are sprung on them. I've been trying to get this through the thick skulls of all the men here for a long time now.

If life doesn't offer you enough that you can be happy without a woman...then you're a loser. Simple as that. And losers are not sexy or attractive.

This is excellent... Chase your life. You can puruse a woman but not any more than you would pursue what you want in life.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

So what? This IS the system. And it Will change, though it will take time to.

And there are no such things as 'rules'. Such 'tips and tricks' are only meant to help give you a general understanding of how and why women are the way they are and how you CAN deal with them. Eventually though, when you develop your own 'game', what we call here, 'inner game', then such techniques are alien to you because they only seem natural for you to do so. Applying them to every situation with women seems illogical and irrational as well, because at that point when you become your TRUE self, you are able to bend these 'rules' to your will and even create your own in a sense. Therefore, you don't need to follow such system, as everyone in your life and in your environment will follow your own.

Of course, this is nothing new. I mean, I've only been preaching this for about 8 months or so.......

 

[Serenity]

You're looking at it wrong if you perceive it as a list of chores, chores aren't fun. If you gotta stress doing all this then you're not having fun, additionally the stress of trying to attract is a stress that kills attraction. If it's not fun attracting girls then what is the point? The game is not a game if you don't make it a game. Just like playing GTA isn't fun if you stress yourself to complete the missions, it feels like work rather than play.

Just like a good girl won't give a sh!t about you if she can't have good time with you, neither should you give a sh!t about girls who you can't have a good time with. Regardless of reason, meaning if you don't have fun because of her then don't do it. If you're not having fun because you see it as a long burdening list of bullsh!t, then don't do it. The only valid reason for doing it is because you positively want to do it.