Too many girls..

[benassi]

Arrite. What's up guys? You've probably seen me post some **** around here in the last month or so. I've been reading around for just about 6-8 months now and like I've completely transformed into what all you guys wanna be. You'd be amazed how quickly..

I can get 9.99/10 girls I try to get with, there's the exceptional few, but now my problem here is I'm building such a ****ty reputation. Not just that, I've been getting with so many girls that I FEEL BAD. I have like 6-8 girls at a time that I spit game on. I can have a booty call wherever, whenever I want, it's to the point of being disgusting. To be honest, I know it's what we all yearn to be like, but the truth is, once you realize how bad it is to have so many girls want you, you feel like a celebrity. It's terrible.. honestly, unless you're just lookin for a bunch of quickies, which will end up getting boring. Take my word for it, I mean give it a try, see if you like it, eventually you'll hate it.

This girl I've been hookin up with for about a month now, like we were getting pretty serious and all, and like the last 4 days she was in cheerleading camp, and I ended up getting with 2 girls, and one of her friends saw me hook up with one of them in the club and I completely denied it and changed her thoughts, but my problem is now, that I feel guilty. I feel as if all this player-ness has got to come to an end for a while now, I think it's time for me to settle down. Can anyone give me some advice on how to STOP being so good with girls for the moment, and STOP getting SO much attention, I'd say about 80% of high school kids, guys and girls, know who I am and know everythign that goes on with me and it's already horrible.. Thanks.

 

[dadmonson]

What I would like to know is how u got to this point? Like where did u start at?

 

[benassi]

Well I was the biggest AFC to mankind, i actually lost my virginity to the hottest girl in the school in 8th grade, but that's because she needed a lot of emotional support because she was going through a really rough time ( she was my first love, and only true love til this day, i would die for her, strange, but another story )

Tonight after a good friend of mine explained to me how inconsiderate I am. She really helped me realize a lot of things about women... We treat them as if their trash, and their just like a toy. I've gotten to the point where ANY girl I want is mine, and you know it might sound amazing, but it's not that amazing. So i'm goign to give settlign down with 1 girl a try. Ill keep you updated =X

 

[italostud]

First of all, um, if you don't want so many girls, just....don't talk to them. Very simple, shouldn't be too hard to figure out. It's not like they're pointing a gun at your head saying "fyck me".

With that said, I feel your pain brother. Someone once said "pimpin' ain't easy".

Yes, you'll get a rep as a gigalo, which is both good and bad. Depends on how you look at it.

On the one hand, lets say there's this really great, quality, non-slutty girl that you want to get with, but she's heard about you and writes you off from the get-go. Obviously, this is bad.

On the other hand, girls talk, and all of the local slutz will know of you and your (hopefully) good reputation in bed. You'll be getting referral fycks! Trust me. You'll meet girls who will say "So and so said you're not too bad in the sack!" Next thing you know, you're banging her too.

Being a lady's man isn't that bad of a rep to have. You sound like you're doing it up pretty nice. Enjoy it. You're young and this shyt won't last forever.

One thing to avoid though, is getting the reputation of being a cheater. Lady's man=good, cheater=bad. So if you're in a relationship, try not to cheat, and if you do, don't get caught. But the easy thing to do is just not get into a relationship and enjoy the punanni.

Pimp on.

 

[nishbuk]

No...what you SHOULD do is stop thinking about this in terms of "either I have sex with a whole ****load of girls, or only have one."

I came to a realization a while ago, b/c of my friend DZ, that even though I may not really be looking for a LTR, I'm also not just looking for random ass sex. I'm actually looking to SPEND TIME with women. Of course, that also means that I'm going to play with them, don't get me wrong.
But I think that maybe you just need to slow down a bit, and try and actually connect with some girls on a basic level. That doesn't mean get attached. But just spend some actual quality time with them. Then if you find one that is good enough for you, and if she's worth the time, try going exclusive.

 

[benassi]

On the other hand, girls talk, and all of the local slutz will know of you and your (hopefully) good reputation in bed. You'll be getting referral fycks! Trust me. You'll meet girls who will say "So and so said you're not too bad in the sack!" Next thing you know, you're banging her too.


lol been there done that, my reputation in bed is well known around town =) . . .



then if you find one that is good enough for you, and if she's worth the time, try going exclusive.


i think i have found one bro.. im givin it a try

 

[So pimp its scary]

Originally posted by benassi
Arrite. What's up guys? You've probably seen me post some **** around here in the last month or so. I've been reading around for just about 6-8 months now and like I've completely transformed into what all you guys wanna be. You'd be amazed how quickly..

I can get 9.99/10 girls I try to get with, there's the exceptional few, but now my problem here is I'm building such a ****ty reputation. Not just that, I've been getting with so many girls that I FEEL BAD. I have like 6-8 girls at a time that I spit game on. I can have a booty call wherever, whenever I want, it's to the point of being disgusting. To be honest, I know it's what we all yearn to be like, but the truth is, once you realize how bad it is to have so many girls want you, you feel like a celebrity. It's terrible.. honestly, unless you're just lookin for a bunch of quickies, which will end up getting boring. Take my word for it, I mean give it a try, see if you like it, eventually you'll hate it.

I've felt that way in the past... all I did was raise my standards, you know... start shooting chicks down.

 

[DJStudent]

Re: Re: Too many girls..

Originally posted by So pimp its scary
I've felt that way in the past... all I did was raise my standards, you know... start shooting chicks down.

Yep, this is how to do it. At first you're like cool, I got all these girls. But like you said, it sucks when you start hurting feelings or just ditching or denying this and that. It's not a life you like to lead. You have all these worries about this girl finding about that girl and so on and so on.

If you're really serious then seriously like keep a picture of her in your wallet. Remind yourself of who she is and what she means to you.

Girls have to go through this all the time. No WONDER they are so emotional. They always get hit on by all these guys and they feel bad about their bf. I once made this girl cry at a party because she felt bad that she was with me. It was kinda weird that she remembered her bf all of sudden and she broke down. I kinda had to hide my snicker but it was a bit funny.

All in all, this is something you shouldn't have to even post. Just deal with it logically. I see you're 16 and real life experience has not really kicked in. Life is different beyond 21.

 

[squirrels]

Lots of guys get bored or sick of girls after a while and they get the idea in their head that "one girl" will make them feel better again.

Unless you've got a girl in mind, it's not really the case. The simple truth that most people leave behind when they go the "committed" route is that to stay with only one girl, you have to be INTO her in more than just a "she's a girl" way.

In other words, you need to approach a committed relationship because you HAVE found a girl and you ENJOY spending time with her exclusively, not because you're "looking to settle down" and she's the best prospect to date. It doesn't work that way and that's why many, many marriages fail these days. People getting married for the sake of doing so instead of because they REALLY found someone they REALLY want to commit to.

Why not try leaving women alone for a little while?? If you're as good as you say you are, you could even get a little rusty and STILL bag some dimes if you got lonely, so maybe you need to back up off it for a while and find another hobby.

It sounds like you're at this point where you have two conflicting voices in your head, one saying, "I'm tired of f*cking all these gorgeous women" and another saying, "society says that I should be pursuing women." The latter is bullsh!t. Listen to the former. When you're ready to get back into the game, or you actually FIND a woman who you're in to enough to commit, then you'll know what to do.

 

[mrRuckus]

Congratulations you conquered high school girls.

If you're bored or whatever ignore them and up the ante and try for older chicks. That should interest you a bit. Try to convince them that 16 years old isn't bad.

 

[Austizzle]

Re: Re: Too many girls..

Originally posted by mrRuckus
Congratulations you conquered high school girls.

If you're bored or whatever ignore them and up the ante and try for older chicks. That should interest you a bit. Try to convince them that 16 years old isn't bad.

I agree...high school girls are easy, but I often find college girls are much easier given the circumstances that they're away from home and more friendly.

 

[Leporello]

I smell BS.

 

[mrRuckus]

Re: Re: Re: Too many girls..

Originally posted by Austizzle
I agree...high school girls are easy, but I often find college girls are much easier given the circumstances that they're away from home and more friendly.

easy to 16 year olds?

 

[Canadiandon]

Bro I was in your same situation and I broke ties with most of the girls that I was playing. No it wasn't really the guilt of it all it was the big hit I was taking in wallet! Dating is expensive! Yeah not only do you have to spend money on her sometimes (not all the time) you are still spending money going out to hook with them, you're also spending money on traveling and buying dinner and drinks not for her but for yourself. So doing this with 4-5 women at a time does get expensive. So I cut things down to just one girl and even that is getting pricey! lol!

GUILT: Ok so the one way I try to avoid the guilt of dating and dumping a girl because I only wanted to use her for sex is that I date Japanese, Korean or sometimes Mexican exchange students or girls on an "extended vacation" (Working holiday program deals). The reason why is because they are here in Toronto to have fun and fvck and they'll go home in a few months after their visa expires so therefore you don't have to put up with trying to break up with them because they will be out of your hair soon enough back home to their boyfriends. I try to only date the younger J-girls between the ages of 18-26 because they already have boyfriends back in their home country and they are only using you as companionship and to get laid while they are studying in Toronto for a few months. Any girl older then 26 might be a bit dangerous because they might be looking for a guy to get married to (age catching up to them) but even that problem can be solved BY THEM LEAVING THE DAMM COUNTRY AFTER THEIR VISA EXPIRES! lol!

 

[XtremeRacingDiva]

Originally posted by Leporello
I smell BS.

+1 and it stinks!

I am sure anyguy can get ugly and fat chicks 6-8 at a time :crackup: