Solomon
Master Don Juan
OP you're a self-admitted fraud you have no idea what you're talking about you should ask the mods to ban younah that aint what chemistry is at all .
chemistry is literall called chemistry because its the hormonal /bio chemical feelings that arise when 2 people connect on a levelof comfort/security/confidence/sexual arousal/attraction.
Most people when they meet are not even comfortable.. they're trying to make it work because they have only 1 element 1) Attraction.. but they dont have the rapport, they're not on the same level/same vibe and the flirting doesnt work or one doesnt know how to flirt while the other tries.. theres a misalignment.. an incompatibility.. personality differences most of the time.
this incompatibility is what im talking about. then when the guy sees the girl again and this time tries to make a move becausehe didnt ge tthe # the first time, hes anxious to even ask her for it (an example im thinking of is a guy who dmed me about a work scenario).. hes waiting for validation even tho part of him feels like the girl likes him. they still haven't had the chemistry to meet halfway and create any good/non platonic rapport. thats where the "i like her/him but she/they are being weird"
This is pitiful
Here you are giving bad advice cause your full of ****