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Rave18

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How do you deal with a girl who
1. Has multiple affairs when you are dating her [Claims confusion, but the pattern keeps on repeating]
2. Refuses to meet or speak or show any sign of interest [for years], but starts to make blank calls when you start to pull away ? [Am not giving any other details cause they don't seem relevant]
 

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You cut her off from your life like a cancer and move on, never giving her a second thought.

She's an attention hore using you for validation when she needs it.

Weren't her multiple affairs undermining your dignity at the time they were occurring? You need to cut your emotional ties and move on.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
You cut her off from your life like a cancer and move on, never giving her a second thought.

She's an attention hore using you for validation when she needs it.

Weren't her multiple affairs undermining your dignity at the time they were occurring? You need to cut your emotional ties and move on.
This^

Shes not interested.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Weren't her multiple affairs undermining your dignity at the time they were occurring?
She always made it seem like she was a victim and I sort of felt sorry for her [Wasted seven years in the process]. The wake up call was when she went back to her ex > Who was accused of killing his wife [Got away with it] and started pursuing her again.

Will follow your advice. Thank You :)
 
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The more I read, the more I value Anti-Dump's Machine. Wish I had read it before I came across my ex, but I'll use it from now on :)
 
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A woman who plays the victim card is even more sickening on the psychological level than you can imagine.

Trash her into the dumpster.
 

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To be honest, I think the problem is with me. A woman simply reflects what sort of a man you really are. Was just reading the following and I think it would be better if I worked on myself first

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=39729

"If you are the street bum, no women will be interested in you. The machine is not the failure, the man is.

Now if the street bum recreated himself and became Cool Guy, the machine will throw up an interested women eventually.

It is that simple."
 
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You just answered your own question.

But back to the subject at hand, do not waste time with women who are of low value to you.

Once you realize the value's you seek in other women to have, then you will understand how easy it can be to let some twisted girl go.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It has been three years since I broke up with my ex and the pain has subsided a bit. When I look at myself right now [objectively], I'm a bit surprised at the number of things I fall short in/at. It is as if I was sleeping through life before and have just woken up :p.
 
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Something that made sense and pointed out my exact mistake

This is a major frustration for Beta minded young men given to a feminized conditioning that convinces them they’ll be rewarded for loyalty, support and building relational equity with a girl. I’m highlighting this phase because often enough it’s at this beginning point young men are prepared to compromise their life’s ambitions to play a role that their feminine conditioning predisposes them for. The danger being long term life decisions made in order to maintain a relationship he believes his sacrifices will be rewarded for in favor of personal goals or developing passions and personal potential.

Here is the warning for any late teen / early adult man: This is generally the point at which you’ll have to make some real personal assessments of yourself if you have a girlfriend. This will be the first test of the red pill versus your feminized conditioning. Most blue pill guys entertain the ‘invisible friend’ of an LDR (long distance relationship) for the first time at this juncture, or they alter their educational priorities to accommodate maintaining their relationship.

Statistically the girlfriend you expected to build a Disney-story life with will break up with you as her options expand while yours constrict (due to prioritizing her goals above your own). The decisions you make at this stage are up to you, but understand (barring personal convictions) this stage will come as a woman’s SMV begins it’s rapid ascent and along with it opportunities she’s been scarcely aware of until now.
http://therationalmale.com/2014/03/16/preventative-medicine-part-i/
 
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