TOO Confident, good or bad?
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Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Too much of anything is bad. But what do you mean? Do you mean ****y? I cant think of how you can have too much confidence, unless you mean fearless even in the face of death.
white cloud 8
Senior Don Juan
Confidence is a natural thing, it comes from within. I don't think it is something you can just call upon to help out your self image. Although, you can better your situation through working out, taking care of your priorities, getting over your fear of talking to women etc. Once confidence is built up to a point, people will notice a change in the way you carry yourself. 
Alphathree
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There's no such thing as too confident.
New levels of confidence just open up your horizons to things you never thought possible.
It's a belief in yourself and your abilities and when you have it, it's great. You can't tell yourself to 'have more' or 'have less' of it.
When I have confidence, I can only fake not having it. When I lack it, I can only fake having it. Neither fake is convincing.
The other day I introduced myself to this cute little asian girl at a restaurant I was at because I saw her looking at me a few times. I would've _never_ done that before, but for whatever reason, I just had the inner strength to do it without hesitation.
New levels of confidence just open up your horizons to things you never thought possible.
It's a belief in yourself and your abilities and when you have it, it's great. You can't tell yourself to 'have more' or 'have less' of it.
When I have confidence, I can only fake not having it. When I lack it, I can only fake having it. Neither fake is convincing.
The other day I introduced myself to this cute little asian girl at a restaurant I was at because I saw her looking at me a few times. I would've _never_ done that before, but for whatever reason, I just had the inner strength to do it without hesitation.