Tonight was the date, and she aint answer her phone, she tried me man.

[Blackstar]

Man this girl tried me for real.

Tonight i was supposed to go out on a date with this one girl, we talked about going out tonight last week, and today she called me in the moorining while i was at work, reminding me of it, so she told me to call her when i get off work. (oh yeah she said that she might be tired later on tonight )

So 30 minutes ago i sent her a text, needless to say that she still hasnt answer to it, im not gonna text her again or call her cause i dont wanna seem desperate, but im pissed off man, im really pissed off.

What should i do here? i was thinking in not calling her or texting her until she does, but if she does what do i tell her?

 

[white cloud 8]

tell her: F*CK YOU BIZATCH! YOU'RE NOT WORTH MY TIME.....GAWDAMMIT!

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

brother, you got played

fugget this b1atch, fugget this b1atch!

 

[apodyopsis]

wait, so you only texted her once and she didnt respond and ur getting all offended....? true, u dont wanna seem desperate, but CALLING once isnt desperate, especially since she said to call her. im horrible with my cell phone, ill get messages late and half the time i dont even have it with me. maybe she lost her phone, battery died, or just didnt check her text messages?? one thing you have to learn as you go is to not take things so personally. getting angry over the little things is probably just as bad as being desperate, they're both things youll have to ostracize from your persona when walking the path of the dj


so, if theres still time and nothings changed, at least give her a ring once. dont know how well u know this girl, if she calls later u could always say something came up at work and u tried texting her to reschedule, but then i dont know what the text message said. remember, things come up, cell phones get misplaces, dont get angry right away. if she actually did blow you off, dont let it bother you. a dj wouldnt care, so just get some more #'s and more dates if things dont work out

 

[Blackstar]

man this is fuked up , i cant believe her, got me all excited and sh it...

so when she calls me or texts me what do i tell her.

 

[DJ Hawtness]

You're not going to text her back, but you're desperate anyway. My suggestion, never ask one girl out at a time.

 

[Blackstar]

nah we always text each othe back and forth and she always answers, but what i coincidence that the night we supposed to go out she doesnt answer? Oh give me a fukin break!
the reason why im not calling her now its cause i know she got the text, and if i call her and she doesnt answer then ima really blow, and anyways if she didnt get it then why the hell she aint call me or text me about the date, man fuk it

 

[chuchu]

Stop messaging!!!

Call her up leave her a voice mail, tell her to meet you somewhere. Tell her you are waiting for her. Go there wait for her. Dont pick up the phone if she calls

If she dont show up tonight,

NEXT!! move on with your life.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Originally posted by Blackstar
man this is fuked up , i cant believe her, got me all excited and sh it...

so when she calls me or texts me what do i tell her.

Don't reply. If you reply you make yourself look weak. You are basically saying "ok you played me and left be hanging, but I am a loser and would still like to be with you"

she calls, don't ever call back. If she really wants you she will look for you in person, and when that happens I personally would reject her to save face.

 

[Blackstar]

nah i cant call her now, i just cant call her after i texted her, i dont wanna seem like im deperate to go out with her, she doesnt drive so that idea wouldnt work in this one, but still...i cant call her... i know she got the sms man i know it

 

[DJ Hawtness]

Next her.

She'll realize she made a mistake when you're with another girl. If she has any confidence, she'll come over to you and ask for another date.

Then you can just do the same thing to her. =/

 

[Blackstar]

if she texts me i wont reply (unless she does tonight) but if she calls me ill pick it up and see what she comes up with, i know its gonna be some bs, but we'll see.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Relax dude, you are overreacting -- if she wanted to blow you off she wouldn't have called you in the morning - these DJ's are getting upset over nothing -- she could be sleeping - do txt messages ring your phone?

You should have called and not text!

She likes you - chill and don't show her your emotions - be calm - be a don juan!

 

[Blackstar]

^^^good lookin'

And by the way i text her "so wasup girl u made up your mind?"

it was already 9 pm and she didnt know where she wanted to go, thats why i said that.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Relax dude, you are overreacting -- if she wanted to blow you off she wouldn't have called you in the morning - these DJ's are getting upset over nothing -- she could be sleeping - do txt messages ring your phone?

You should have called and not text!

She likes you - chill and don't show her your emotions - be calm - be a don juan!

But then again, she can be lying on her back with legs in stirrups getting rammed by another dude!

Just joking.: But it is a possibility.

OK the stirrups was a little bit much but it made the visual more interesting!

 

[Blackstar]

well i called her up and it seems like the phone is off or dead, first i had 4 rings or so and the voicemail came on, then the 2nd time i had like 1 ring and the voicemail came on. ofcourse i dial from a different number , i was just trynna see if she was available, you know to see if she was gonna pick it up.

Im not even mad nomore, i feel like nothing ever happened, wich is the way ima act when she calls me.

dang, you see what time do, just 2hrs ago i was pissed off! now im good....hmmm i wonder why?...

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Put a tracking chip in her and get a gps tracking device and you'll know her whereabouts at all times!

 

[AIR-PILOT]

Bad move dude, you sent a text to confirm a date? How bout if she didn't get it? Always Call...stop the text messaging!, unless she is your girlfriend!

 

[tmpgstx]

Lol .. Blackstar .. i'm not sure what you're doing there, but when you dialed and got 4 rings and then answering machine, her phone was ON. When you dialed again it was OFF.

In other words, she probably knows it's your AFC butt calling her so much and from different numbers.

 

[nonstop]

dude, stay away from text messages, voice calls are always better you can't tell what tone is being used in a text message and it tends to be open to misinterpretation.

don't let someone else control your happiness.