Told AW with bf where to go!

[PeterCrouch]

Didnt think she was a AW till tonite, shes been quite flirty even tho she has had a bf

we were talking on msn and i mentioned i thought some gal was cute, she said "how would you rate me 1-10" so i said 7/8 i think ur cute, she said cute but not gf material? i said not while ya have a bf, now u rate me, after not wanting to do it she gave me a high 6 and said i had some things better than others, i didnt ask what, then i had to go and so did she so she said text me coz im bored, so i said if ur lucky! then she said "fine dont love me anymore" i said u wish i did, she said do i, so i text her a bit later saying "yeh and i know u do"

anyway we were chatting (texting) and i said "so if ur bored why dont ya chat to ur bf?" she said "coz hes working, and has no credit, if u dont wanna chat then just dont i can take a hint" i said i do and will but just rather be 1st choice rather than someone to fall back on! she said if thats the way u feel like it dont text me, i said well i will coz i have nothing better to do, and told her to make me something if shes bored,

after joking about that i said "when can i get it?" she said not till september coz i wont see ya before then (thats when college starts) so i said "why wont u see me before then?" she said coz "im not gonna see ya unless u come over here" at this point i was annoyed and just said

"well i aint travelling that far to see a gal, especially not one wit a bf lol, call me when ya change ur mind and are in town, untill then toodles x"

she hasnt replied, have i done ok here?

have i been rude? or done good?

ta for help

 

[Wiesman44]

Grreeaaaaaat. Your so smooth. I'm sure she can't wait to open her legs for you.

.....

You weren't charming, u cared too much about her having a b/f, and u acted like too much of an *******. Basically, i'd think u were a complete turn-off. Apparently u dont have the looks so u have to make up for it in other ways.

Game CAN be worked on. Its not the end of the world. Hit on more girls NOT online, read articles, talk to guys that are successful and u will see a difference.


This girl was most likely playing with you, but i'm sure if u played your cards right, you could have gotten her. She was being an AW, but she made small hints that she wanted a fling, maybe not w/ u, but w/ someone.

 

[LoveBOT]

Your the man,you had complete control and showed her that you weren't taking any of her ****ty games.

"pat yourself on the back my man!!!"

 

[PeterCrouch]

Fantastic 2 completly contradicting posts!

Just the way to confuse my confused little mind some more!

Im not gonna sleep tonite!

She left a message on my space before all this happend today coz i have a pic of my bum on there and the msg said "thats not your bum, i wanna see proof! hehehe"

BTW To Wiseman - thanks for the post, do ya think maybe shes intrested a lil before tonite as ive asked her out 3 times, to a faire (said she couldnt get there) to meet me in town (said its too hot, and no money) and cinema (said im working and bf wouldnt be happy)

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

one of thoose above posters was being sarcastic. What are you doing? you have onitis? the girl is an AW first of all, and she has a bf. I cant think of any more potential candidate to NOT PURSUE. She has all the power and u keep dangling along with her. She has shown the signs that she doesnt really care about you more than just a friend. Never call her again, NEVER!

 

[PeterCrouch]

Well i text her saying "by the way your always welcome to come check if that pic of my bum was real x"

Im seriously thinking of getting serious with her tomorrow, and just saying "the only reason i got angry was coz i like you and normally i dont get annoyed over a gal but for some reason i did last nite, ive never been intrested in a gal with a bf, and i dont why iam this time, and i dont care what ya bf thinks coz i want you and im gonna keep on till i get ya!"

what ya think?

i seriously cant get her out of my mind atm

 

[bacchus]

Originally posted by PeterCrouch
Well i text her saying "by the way your always welcome to come check if that pic of my bum was real x"

Im seriously thinking of getting serious with her tomorrow, and just saying "the only reason i got angry was coz i like you and normally i dont get annoyed over a gal but for some reason i did last nite, ive never been intrested in a gal with a bf, and i dont why iam this time, and i dont care what ya bf thinks coz i want you and im gonna keep on till i get ya!"

what ya think?

i seriously cant get her out of my mind atm

Dude, that would be beyond pathetic. You're sounding like an AFC, snap out of it!

 

[BrotherAP]

Ok, well you know that she's not going to be fvcking you anytime soon, so stop chatting with her on MSN like you expect something since you already know your not going to get it.

On one hand, you're smart for turning down her invitation and not doing her favors - especially since she has a boyfriend and you know that.

On the other hand, you're talking to her like you expect some attention from her and you're pissed that you aren't.

Telling her that she was a 7 worked well, it was effectively a neg-hit (evident by her reply "Cute but not BF material?"), but you backed off by saying "Well not while ya have a boyfriend" which essentially translates to "I wish I was him."

It's like you respond with c&f, she shyt tests, and then you back off (failing the test). You say "you're kinda of cute", she says "not gf material?", you could say "well it would depend if you were good in bed" - the point is, don't respond when a girl is fishing for compliments, and keep it upbeat. You shouldn't feel challenged by her, you're supposed to be the one in control who knows where you're going with this conversation.

From there it goes downhill. When she said "Fine, don't love me anymore" from there you guys sound like two kindergartners fighting. "You wish I did!" (******** for "I do, and I wish you cared") <---that's almost ****y, but not funny, and is inconsistent with the fact that you seem so eager to talk to her and the result is that you sound like a little b!tch who's begging for an admission that she likes you, no offense

Anyway, you told her to make you something, fine - and she said she'd give it to you the next time she saw you. Fair enough. But, wait, you want her to come bring it to you? At this point, her bluntness can only be interpreted one way. She said that she'd see you in September, and if you want to see her before that then you are free to come see her. You're the one who expressed interest in seeing her sooner. I can think of some girls who, if they called me for a favor, I'd tell them to drive up here if they want it.

Anyway, that's when you especially flush yourself down the toilet by getting pissed off and telling her "Well I'm not travelling that far to see a gal with a b/f... etc." What's wrong with that? The whole time, it was you fishing for her attention. You tried to get her to say she wanted to come see you, and she was pretty blunt about having no intention to do so.

So, for one, you obviously like her and are trying to get attention from her. This is conveyed clearly in your words, and I'm absolutely sure she picked up on it. You did not act with high value, you complained, and you failed her shyt tests. Work on your ****y&funny, make it funnier. Work on your timing - know when to say what, and when not to say anything. Don't kiss ass, and don't get overly upset about stupid things.

Oh, and everytime you say something that ends in "...but you have a boyfriend" you are not only re-establishing that you are in the friends zone, you're sounding like a wuss. Especially troublesome is "why don't you chat with your boyfriend" (expresses jealousy, and bitterness) "I wouldn't drive that far for a girl with a boyfriend" = "I would drive that far if I thought you'd fvck me." C'mon, man, you're speaking ********!

To end on a positive note, you did clearly establish that you're not happy in the friends zone, and that's a good thing. You're recognizing it - but you haven't yet learned a few important things:

1) Stop wasting your damn time on girls with boyfriends already, sheesh

2) Stop wasting your time on attention hores!

3) Stop wasting your time chatting to girls on the internet

4) Learn the difference between persistence and desperation. Talking to a girl who clearly is not going to fvck you (which includes AWs and chicks with BFs, especially AWs with BFs) is an example of the latter

5) Watch for shyt tests. Don't give a compliment because she asks for one, and never work for her affection. You have to assume she likes you. Meanwhile, keep the conversation light, always seem like your having a good time, and avoid conveying emotions like bitterness and jealousy like the plague. Remember, you're not supposed to care if she likes you - she's as disposable as the next girl!

Just some examples of what I think would have been better responses to some things she said"

her: Fine, don't love me anymore
you: anymore? nothing's changed (grin)
or
you: it's true - I've met someone with a good sense of humor and a great ass
(notice the neg-hit: she must not have a good sense of humor or a great ass)
or
you: better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all

it almost doesn't matter what you say, if it's funny and not ass-kissing

So stop chatting on MSN. Stop talking to AWs. Stop talking to girls with BFs. Stop talking to AWs with BFs. And stop being so obvious that you care what a bytch thinks, because by the time your doing that you've gone way past disinterest, you've purchased a homestead in chumpville and you're never getting out.

Until next time,
BrotherAP

 

[Not Quite There]

Originally posted by PeterCrouch
Well i text her saying "by the way your always welcome to come check if that pic of my bum was real x"

Im seriously thinking of getting serious with her tomorrow, and just saying "the only reason i got angry was coz i like you and normally i dont get annoyed over a gal but for some reason i did last nite, ive never been intrested in a gal with a bf, and i dont why iam this time, and i dont care what ya bf thinks coz i want you and im gonna keep on till i get ya!"

what ya think?

i seriously cant get her out of my mind atm

ONEITIS if ever there was!!

mate, you are being so obvious, don't go emptying your heart out on her, that will only scare her off and give her the upper hand.

your best bet is to delete her number and forget about her, she is basically playing you (trust me, i've been there), yeah you can be smooth and possibly could win her over, but it sounds to much like the balls in her court, plus, it sounds unlikely she will do anything, unless she was to finish with her boyfriend.

post up her myspace anyhow, i wanna see photos.

 

[BrotherAP]

Originally posted by PeterCrouch
Well i text her saying "by the way your always welcome to come check if that pic of my bum was real x"

Im seriously thinking of getting serious with her tomorrow, and just saying "the only reason i got angry was coz i like you and normally i dont get annoyed over a gal but for some reason i did last nite, ive never been intrested in a gal with a bf, and i dont why iam this time, and i dont care what ya bf thinks coz i want you and im gonna keep on till i get ya!"

what ya think?

i seriously cant get her out of my mind atm

You can't be serious...

READ THE GODDAMN DJ BIBLE http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

To put it short what is wrong with that, it breaks the following golden rules:

1) You have one-itis. You should not care about the outcome with one girl

2) You are desperate. Extremely desperate. Like she is the last woman on Earth desperate (even then, many men might consign themselves to celibacy and live otherwise fullfilling lives, and thus be less desperate than you are now acting

3) You never tell a chick how you feel

4) You never get mad at a girl for not liking you.

5) You leave AWs and girls with BFs alone

6) You stop pursuing a girl when she is not actively showing an interest in you

Instead of what you were going to do, you might want to consider removing your balls, giftwrapping them and sending them to her overnight fedex. You can then hit yourself until your face is swollen, and mail pictures of that to her boyfriend so to save him the trouble. Best of luck

p.s. I'm dripping with sarcasm today... but don't take offence. If I really wanted to be a jerk, I wouldn't be giving you such good advice

 

[mrmoe]

It's always a bad idea to express your feelings towards a girl you're interested in. But hey, if you want to destroy any chance you might have with her, by all means take that route.

You really do need to get rid of this one-itis. Just take a step back. Ignore her or at the very least, cut down on the attention you give her. Let her come to you. She's definitely playing games with your head. Don't let chicks do that to you! It ain't healthy!

 

[BrotherAP]

PeterCrouch, you're not good at approaching girls, are you? I say this because there's no way you'd be this stuck on such a bytch if you had any other half-decent prospects.

 

[chance]

i was trying to be nice to you before when we were chatting. i even helped you with this dumb slut... i told you from the start it wasn't gonna work. you're losing your god damn mind over one stupid slut.

the sh|t you say to her. it's really low man. nothing you are doing is attractive to her. you've already lost your chances a long time ago. stop obsessing. it's over. go find other girls. SINGLE girls. come on pal, i thought you was better than that.

 

[Tazman]

BrotherAP I must say, your analysis is trully insightful.

 

[Kaparski]

I agree with brother but every1 needs to clam down. Your coming down on him like a pack of hyenas........lol, not that he doesnt deserve it .

Listen to them, its true.

 

[Kaparski]

I agree with brother but every1 needs to clam down. Your coming down on him like a pack of hyenas........lol, not that he doesnt deserve it .

Listen to them, its true.

 

[PeterCrouch]

Ok guys cheers for the help!

Not gonna speak to her unless she contacts me now!

Shes really got to me, i dunno why i like her so much! Crazy!

 

[PeterCrouch]

Im gonna text her saying "look last night i was an ass, ill try not to be in the future"

what do ya think?

 

[chance]

something is very wrong with you.

 

[Not Quite There]

Originally posted by PeterCrouch
Im gonna text her saying "look last night i was an ass, ill try not to be in the future"

what do ya think?

are u taking the piss?

do you understand the concept of this site?

go read the bible and the archives.